Would you ... (Q for the gus)

[fenghuang]

There are countless threads asking how to get a bigger cock. And countless responses saying size doesn't matter. And I really really really don't want to start that debate here. But still so many men ask the question. So ...

Guys, if there was a way of getting a bigger cock, with no danger of things going wrong, and it didn't cost a fortune, it was permanent, and even if your partner said they loved your cock exactly how it is, would you do it?

 

[silverwhisper]

unsure, but probably no.

ed

 

[tonyp]

nope

happy with what i've got ..i like to engage the mind ..use my hands..kiss appropriately ...if my cock was bigger i would not be able to think duing sex as I already have such a rush of blood to that area..plus it would get in the way more ...and if i got hard at the wrong time it would show more ..plus more gay men would chase me..lol

 

[infinity706]

Hell no! I've already tested mine out using a moulded replica and it's more than big enough. Actually, if I got to have the ideal, I'd like a bit smaller.

 

[bailadora]

Guys, if there was a way of getting a bigger cock, with no danger of things going wrong, and it didn't cost a fortune, it was permanent, and even if your partner said they loved your cock exactly how it is, would you do it?

I'm not a guy, but have you seen this article? The man got what he asked for (apparently he could afford it) and ultimately was unhappy with the results.

 

[WriterDom]

No, I have a nice cock and only had to worry about going in too far with one girl.

 

[NippleMuncher]

No, I would not. I'm happy with what I've got, know how to use it, and am able to take care of my partners.

BTW, my cock is so big ... Oh, sorry, wrong thread ...

 

[MisterSir]

Couldn't hurt. I'm not asking for a Mandingo-esque organ, just a couple of extra inches would do me fine.

 

[silverwhisper]

nipplemuncher: bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha!

ed

 

[NippleMuncher]

nipplemuncher: bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha!

ed

I thought you might appreciate that one ...

 

[darkaltar]

Liars

I seriously think, if everyone was honest, that every man would take a bigger dick. Even if they were already very large. Not even for sexual reasons. We... as men... are extremely competitive and there is a reason that the term "dick measuring contest" exists.

The phallus, and its impressiveness derives it's desirability from its symbolism as pure masculinity. In Greek times, Hermes, the God of messengers, thieves, and boundaries was used to signify property. At the edge of a man's property a head of Hermes sat atop a wooden or bronze cock. The more property the man owned, the larger the cock. This marking of territory and representation of power based on the size of the phallus continues today.

Studies measuring pictures of two men, clothed and nude, have shown that regardless of body type and facial features, a man with a noticeably larger penis is considered the "manlier" by both men and women.

Most women, who've been with a man with an oversized organ typically regret it. They often find the experience painful and often unsatisfying. And yet, when studies of both women who have experienced or not experienced sex with an overly large penis are measured for physiological response to images of members (they use a small device that is actually attached to a woman's vagina which measures secretion, clitoral engorgement, and changes in temperature) they show a significantly greater arousal to big penises.

An experienced woman realizes that a horse dick is not reasonably for sex and an average or slightly larger specimen is ideal for pleasure, her body is hot wired to react to the massive ones.

 

[Little Bird]

No, I think it probably would look strange on my skinny build.
And I guess it would also be "impractical". Really nothing wrong with what I got.

 

[WriterDom]

If I had a really tiny penis I might. But anyone concerned about size must not have much sexual confidence. I know lots of women who don't want a huge fucking cock.

 

[infinity706]

If I had a really tiny penis I might. But anyone concerned about size must not have much sexual confidence. I know lots of women who don't want a huge fucking cock.

Honestly, I don't think anyone that's gotten to experience a massive cock has done too well with it unless they specially trained their body for it in advance. In my large list of partners (getting close to 70 guys), I've actually encountered two super huge cocks. One was likely somewhat larger than 10 inches and as thick as a soda can. The other was normal length, but also about as thick as a soda can. Those were the two that a condom wouldn't fit on and they wouldn't fit in my mouth anyway. There's no way something that big could ever go up my ass without surgery anyway since my pubic bones are too close together to accomodate anything more than 1.7 inches in diameter. Sure, most women, even the small ones, can physically stretch further than that since they're capable of delivering a baby, but it would likely take months of work.

Chances are, if you have a monster cock like that, you might get a handjob if you're lucky.

Honestly, my ideal cock would be 4 inches long and about 1.25 inches in diameter. That's about perfect for spontaneous anal and easy to do all of my oral moves on without gagging myself.

 

[RandomAssGuy]

I'm right there with many porn stars, and bigger then a couple of em and honestly I wouldn't mind being even a lil bigger. I kinda like getting a lil rough though and watching the girls reactions at times though so maybe this is where that stems from. I have had a couple woman complain if I pushed their legs back and got aggressive, or with some other positions, but for the most part many were able to handle it after a lil warming up to it. I do get complaints I should slow down a lil when first going in sometimes though. I think I'm towards the high end of what most woman find acceptable.

 

[silverwhisper]

darkalter quoth:
i seriously think, if everyone was honest, that every man would take a bigger dick. even if they were already very large. not even for sexual reasons. we... as men... are extremely competitive and there is a reason that the term "dick measuring contest" exists.

some of us are pretty secure in what we're packing.

ed

 

[shiny5437]

As an average sized dude I'd like a bigger one. Not a huge one but maybe a bit thicker, bit longer. Just enough to make me memorable.

I would also like it to vibrate.

Not gonna lose any sleep over it though. If Kegels made cocks bigger I'm sure more guys would do them.

 

[bailadora]

some of us are pretty secure in what we're packing.

ed

*sends a wolf whistle in Ed's direction* Now that's sexy!

 

[Eilan]

The other was normal length, but also about as thick as a soda can.

This was my ex, basically. Our first time (we were both virgins) was excruciating for both of us--I was in a lot of pain, and he was distraught for being the cause of it. The first time we had sex after I gave birth was even worse than losing my virginity. His girth created issues for us throughout the relationship and his other partners have had similar issues.

I've found that, in the past, some people on this board have not believed me when I've mentioned this. Just because it's not something that most people have experienced firsthand doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Hell, if I hadn't experienced it for myself, I probably wouldn't have believed it, either.

I agree that size does matter, but not always in the way one would think. Just because porn glorifies big dicks doesn't mean they're ideal in reality, or that they'll be memorable in a good way.

 

[silverwhisper]

shiny5437 quoth:
i would also like it to vibrate.

bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha! :>



bailadora:

ed

 

[midwestyankee]

As an average sized dude I'd like a bigger one. Not a huge one but maybe a bit thicker, bit longer. Just enough to make me memorable.

I would also like it to vibrate.

Not gonna lose any sleep over it though. If Kegels made cocks bigger I'm sure more guys would do them.

Kegels (well, the male equivalent of them anyway) actually do help male sexual response. By exercising the pc muscle, a man can increase his staying power. Tensing the pc muscle is a reliable means of holding off orgasm so this has real benefit for the quality of sex. The other benefit of improved pc muscle strength is that it will increase the force of the man's orgasm.

 

[klippert]

premiss of the question is

There are countless threads asking how to get a bigger cock. And countless responses saying size doesn't matter. And I really really really don't want to start that debate here. But still so many men ask the question. So ...

Guys, if there was a way of getting a bigger cock, with no danger of things going wrong, and it didn't cost a fortune, it was permanent, and even if your partner said they loved your cock exactly how it is, would you do it?

I would have to ask first, what is considered BIGGER.....length or width or both.

Sure I would like a little more length, BUT what I lack in that category I make up in GirtH.....

Mrsk, during her college years had some biggies one (as she described it) was huge....she has always preferred them thick......she came to a point that the biggies were fun to look at and play with, but didn't like them pounding away at her cervix.....and not a chance of taking them up her ass......mine on the other hand, she luv's me pounding away and can take my width up her ass.........

Sure some more length a full 7 or 7.5 BUT, I have what I have......never a complaint

 

[Mac98]

Just because porn glorifies big dicks doesn't mean they're ideal in reality, or that they'll be memorable in a good way.

Just like porn glorifies huge round asses and 36 - quadruple F-sized breasts (I exagerate of course). You'd be surprised to know how many men prefer average, REAL breasts (some even prefer smaller breasts) and how many men like proportionate asses. I, myself, prefer normal B or C cups to DDs.

And to answer the initial question, I think the better question is to ask if men would prefer having a bigger organ or last longer in bed. According to studies, over 34% of men cum withing 2 minutes of penetration. And that's hardly enough... unless you're REALLY, REALLY good... like REALLY good...

 

[fenghuang]

All interesting. Not least that much emphasis seems to be put on how good the user is, which I regard as a different issue. (Not that the comments aren't welcome.)

I'm also interested in those that say "I'm confident with what I've got" and that no one has said "my cock is 3in long and 3/4in in diameter and I'm confident with what I've got." (I pick those numbers as I thnk I'm right in saying Kinsey would rate that as significantly smaller than average.)

I ask the question as someone who has never had complaints about size - maybe they were all being kind, but I'm pretty confident in how it looks and how it performs. And I can certainly last considerably more that 2 minutes! But as someone who is just about averagely endowed, I would absolutely like another couple of inches both in erect length and flacid length (just for pose value at the gym ).

I think think the poll would have been better

• 3" penis and that's all I want / would like it longer
• 5" penis and that's all I want / would like it longer
• 7" penis and that's all I want / would like it longer
• etc

 

[Feral_Intelligence]

All in all, I am pretty happy with my cock size. I think most women would be pleased with it. However, I would not be opposed to adding another inch or two. This has less to do with wanting to be able to please a woman sexually as having something good to look at.

The tough part is what do I get vs what I give up. I think a little more length would help with one or two maneuvers. However, it would make it would make it harder for a woman to deep throat me, take anal, and could even cause pain for her. I'm not sure the pro plus the visual incentive would be worth the risk of the cons.

More than anything, I would like my cock to be bigger while flaccid. It might be that it just looks small to me (I've heard every guy's dick looks small to him). I think that it gives a poor visual while soft as opposed to when it is hard.