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Nightbird said:
OK kind of Off Topic but very much on my mind tonight.. Why do Women lead Men on? I mean seriously we talked for over a year every single day. Shared so much then one day poof.. Well call me a wuss or a pussy or whatever the in vogue word of the day is but it hurts..
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I’m so sorry this happened to you. I know exactly how much that hurt can hurt. Your hurt was the culmination of a year of enjoying that connection. I wouldn’t call you a wuss for that!

I also want to take the time to point out that it’s not just women who do that. I’ve been ghosted online and in person. The digital age allows for it.

Hurt is hurt. It doesn’t matter why or how. But it’s valid. I definitely been gutted after being ghosted. It’s awful!

I’ve also essentially said to an asshole of a long term dom “you’re an asshole, we’re done..” and cold turkey! Not the same but the same.
HollyS said:
In any case, I wouldn't call you a wuss. Losing someone you care about and are invested in hurts. 🫂
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This agreed! Any sort of a loss is a loss and it hurts!
Nightbird said:
She ghosted me then after a while came back with this is the last time you'll be hearing from me message..
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This to me sounds like something in her life came up and changed things for her. Maybe she wasn’t comfortable sharing that?

I agree with Holly, I like to think that the other person wasn’t lying or trying to hurt me. Also helps my hurt a little more to be optimistic! Even though deep down, I’m a realist and may know the truth.
Hornymwtxn said:
Not fun, but don't let it deter you from seeking out what you want.
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This!! Get out there, look for more quality friends and someone you can enjoy again!
Oralexplorer said:
you're howevrr responsible for how you let this defines you.
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Ohhh this is one of my value statements! You choose how something defines you!
 
Nightbird said:
OK kind of Off Topic but very much on my mind tonight.. Why do Women lead Men on? I mean seriously we talked for over a year every single day. Shared so much then one day poof.. Well call me a wuss or a pussy or whatever the in vogue word of the day is but it hurts..
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The best thing to do is cut all ties and try to forget about her, only think of her as motivation to become a new and improved you. It's easier said than done, it's very difficult to do. The why doesn't matter, you will never understand her thought process, it's a waste trying to figure it out, just focus on making yourself happy.


Your happiness should never be dependent on another person, it should be determined by ourselves.
 
TXRafe said:
only advice i can give is to be gracious, but firm with your boundaries, and the moment someone shows you who they really are without any masks then you should believe them and save yourself a lot of unnecessary pain and drama
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Rafey-Bear with the good advice!! 👏🏻
Rj_1954 said:
her fiancé found out and put an end to it. I've never heard from her since. I was emotionally destroyed. I had RL therapy to remove her from my memory. But I still long for her
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I’m sorry that happened to you! 🫂🫂❤️❤️
 
Rj_1954 said:
My name is Rj...of course you already know this, but in 2019 (my first tour here) I got entangled with online beauty from Australia and we carried on like school kids until her fiancé found out and put an end to it. I've never heard from her since. I was emotionally destroyed. I had RL therapy to remove her from my memory. But I still long for her...I just don't remember her name anymore.:cry:
And, no... Lady K doesn't know about her.
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Did you just outed yourself..unless ofcourse lady K ain't on here. Or Someone is looking for spanking.
 
Sammysub07 said:
I finally had my MRI on Tuesday so I’m waiting on that to be dictated. It’s getting better. We now suspect the shoulder issue is really a pissed off/bulged disc between C2-C7. It’s now more than my shoulder. I get pins and needles all the way down to my fingertips and my arm is always freezing since the nerve bundles in the C2-C7 control the body temperature in the upper body.

I have more good days than bad days with it! But I’m controlled with meds in the AM/PM the most part.
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Ouch! Hopefully between PT and the injections you'll be back to full health.
Sammysub07 said:
I definitely couldn’t go a month edging..10 days was great!
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10 days is my max with a partner in control. The payoff was incredible. Felt it in every part of my body.
 
Nightbird said:
OK kind of Off Topic but very much on my mind tonight.. Why do Women lead Men on? I mean seriously we talked for over a year every single day. Shared so much then one day poof.. Well call me a wuss or a pussy or whatever the in vogue word of the day is but it hurts..
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I read through all the other posts from everyone which is all wonderfully succinct and dripping in wisdom, and I agree with the others while heartedly.

I was ghosted twice in the last six months. The first the guy's best mate died by suicide and his life upended. The second guy has truly disappeared digitally with his email address coming up as deleted and no contact at all. Both of these were friends that I chatted with daily. But I learnt from both of them! The first introduced me to new music and the second to new tv shows. So every time I experience those things, I smile because they have added to my life.

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And copied from my first post on Lit: Have you heard of the Japanese art of kintsugi? It’s when potters fix broken pottery with molten gold. So everytime we put ourselves out there and have a heart break, we are building our hearts anew, with more gold. Each break filled with gold makes it stronger, more resilient and more valuable. So cry, grieve, wallow but then rise and admire your new heart glittering with gold. Hope that helps 💕
 
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