2 for 1 / Bi women and Crossdressing Men

[kiwisub]

Beautiful things are worth waiting for.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Hi T.H.

I tried to PM you but you are turned off so I will go public.

Take a look at the post immediately above yours, Post#23. It is from Kiwisub in NZ. He has pm'd me and my impression from his writing is that he is OK. He may be close to you or he may be on the other island from you but if you are looking, and he is looking..........Just a suggestion.

From your friendly matchmaker.

He lives close to me and we have had contact though not in person. I have turned down his advances for more as he is in a relationship. I do not wish to be someones secret from another woman.

He has been asked not to contact me again besides general chatting on the boards here.

 

[kiwisub]

Women in control are so attractive.

 

[kiwisub]

Sorry

I apologise, I was wrong. I hope that some time I will be forgiven and friendship can again be made. I will respect all requests and wait patiently for any olive branch that may be forthcoming.
When you think you have something 'special' that you thought you would never find it is hard to let go.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I apologise, I was wrong. I hope that some time I will be forgiven and friendship can again be made. I will respect all requests and wait patiently for any olive branch that may be forthcoming.
When you think you have something 'special' that you thought you would never find it is hard to let go.

Thank you for your apology.

I have been single for 18 months now after a 20 year marriage. When married I had a online lover for 2 years. It was wonderful and we finally parted as he lived in another country and knowing we could never be together hurt too much. I don't want to chance feeling that again.

I am single so I only seek single people when it comes to being together in what ever sexual form that takes. I don't want to live in a fantasy world of phone calls and emails. I want to touch and explore any time I take the fancy. Not when a person can get away from their partner. I don't want to hide away.

I also realise now how destructive hiding things from a relationship partner is. I now realise how hurt a persons partner would be if they found out about 'me'. So I don't want to go there.

It is very different thing to chat about feelings and urges here on the boards.

 

[kiwisub]

TY. I will go back under my stone to my fantasy world.

 

[TxSoldier]

Wtf!!

I have been coming here all this time and reading all these sexy stories and I NEVER knew you guys were here on this forum. I am a closet bisexual. I adore TGirls and CD's..... sexy panties and all that. I adore GG's too without a doubt. I am in a serious relationship with a GG and she is perfect in many ways. I live outside Austin on Lake Travis and just wanted to say hey to all you sexy people in here. I have a picture in my profile...and am working on an avatar. Be safe, have fun and smile.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I have been coming here all this time and reading all these sexy stories and I NEVER knew you guys were here on this forum. I am a closet bisexual. I adore TGirls and CD's..... sexy panties and all that. I adore GG's too without a doubt. I am in a serious relationship with a GG and she is perfect in many ways. I live outside Austin on Lake Travis and just wanted to say hey to all you sexy people in here. I have a picture in my profile...and am working on an avatar. Be safe, have fun and smile.

Welcome.

What is a GG?

 

[human_male]

I think I'd like to try it in a situation you describe. I'd feel totally silly though so I'd only do it if my parter was really into it and made it perfectly clear how much she liked it.

I'd dress like a slut though.

 

[Swordplay]

Welcome.

What is a GG?

GG = Genetic Girl, ie. someone who is physically female at birth.

By the way, right now I'm wearing a pink camisole and panties while my wife of two years is lying in bed next to me reading - life is good

 

[Paige.]

I think I'd like to try it in a situation you describe. I'd feel totally silly though so I'd only do it if my parter was really into it and made it perfectly clear how much she liked it.

I'd dress like a slut though.

I think there are multitudes of straight men that have feelings that are similar to closeted homosexuals. There is a real fear of coming out, of someone finding out and making them feel silly as you say.

You say you would only do it if your partner was totally into it. You are setting pre-conditions to make it safe for yourself and I understand. I think we all want a safety net. But you may never find out if she is really into it unless you somehow let her know. Which came first, the chicken or the egg. Sometimes it requires a leap of faith in your partner.

I also think there are multitudes of women that would be totally turned on seeing their man dressed as a woman or at least in panties but they are also afraid to let you guys know because we don't want to be thought of as silly or weird either. It works both ways.

I'm not in any way suggesting that crossdressers are gay so all you straight men out there please don't get upset with me. I just think that many experience the same type of fear.

Why do men want to look like a slut?

 

[TxSoldier]

I think there are multitudes of straight men that have feelings that are similar to closeted homosexuals. There is a real fear of coming out, of someone finding out and making them feel silly as you say.

You say you would only do it if your partner was totally into it. You are setting pre-conditions to make it safe for yourself and I understand. I think we all want a safety net. But you may never find out if she is really into it unless you somehow let her know. Which came first, the chicken or the egg. Sometimes it requires a leap of faith in your partner.

I also think there are multitudes of women that would be totally turned on seeing their man dressed as a woman or at least in panties but they are also afraid to let you guys know because we don't want to be thought of as silly or weird either. It works both ways.

I'm not in any way suggesting that crossdressers are gay so all you straight men out there please don't get upset with me. I just think that many experience the same type of fear.

Why do men want to look like a slut?

Paige not only are you sexy as a MOFO but oh so wise as well. I never had the nerve until I was 35 years old. It was just something I would think of as sexy from time to time. I had no desire for a man actually. I just wanted to experience oral fun with a guy with some nice equipment. What I found out is that it can be addicting if your not careful.

I have always had a thing for panties. I can remember as a young teen stealing my best friends sister oh so delightful panties. In my early 20's I got into the habit of wearing a pair of silky sexy panties quite often. I no longer do because I am scared of my wife. So these dyas I just spend a lot of time watching my yummy wife walk around in hers.....

 

[rbijon]

GG = Genetic Girl, ie. someone who is physically female at birth.

By the way, right now I'm wearing a pink camisole and panties while my wife of two years is lying in bed next to me reading - life is good

Sword fight is so cool and fun. I did have a friend that love to sword fight. We did it several time.....Wow, my hard cock slap'n against his hard cock.....

.....and I love what your are wearing today!

 

[rbijon]

I think there are multitudes of straight men that have feelings that are similar to closeted homosexuals. There is a real fear of coming out, of someone finding out and making them feel silly as you say.

You say you would only do it if your partner was totally into it. You are setting pre-conditions to make it safe for yourself and I understand. I think we all want a safety net. But you may never find out if she is really into it unless you somehow let her know. Which came first, the chicken or the egg. Sometimes it requires a leap of faith in your partner.

I also think there are multitudes of women that would be totally turned on seeing their man dressed as a woman or at least in panties but they are also afraid to let you guys know because we don't want to be thought of as silly or weird either. It works both ways.

I'm not in any way suggesting that crossdressers are gay so all you straight men out there please don't get upset with me. I just think that many experience the same type of fear.

Why do men want to look like a slut?

My wife, (my Mistress) will only fuck me when I have sexy panties on!

 

[kiwisub]

For me secrecy and fear of being exposed only heightens the excitement. I wouldnt get the same buzz if I was "out" with my Xdressing.
There is nothing more exciting than wearing sexy panties and stockings under your clothes in normal day to day scenario's like having a coffee in a cafe. I went out shopping yesterday in a new pair of very sexy panties under my shorts. I knew that if I bent over to look at something the panties would show at the back, so of course I did in Farmers lingerie department and also a female clothes shop. My enoyment was very hard to conceal in the lacey material.

 

[rbijon]

For me secrecy and fear of being exposed only heightens the excitement. I wouldnt get the same buzz if I was "out" with my Xdressing.
There is nothing more exciting than wearing sexy panties and stockings under your clothes in normal day to day scenario's like having a coffee in a cafe. I went out shopping yesterday in a new pair of very sexy panties under my shorts. I knew that if I bent over to look at something the panties would show at the back, so of course I did in Farmers lingerie department and also a female clothes shop. My enoyment was very hard to conceal in the lacey material.

Wow, I know what you mean. I love to wear panties under my clothes. It seems that everyone knows! My whole body is electricfied as my smoothe silky panties rub against my ass and cock. Walking into a store is wild....I am so turned on and at least semi-hard that everyone seems to know! I love it!
.....and how about when you shop for your panties?

 

[knkycva]

Why Sluts?

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[T.H. Oughts]

But you may never find out if she is really into it unless you somehow let her know.

I have been single again for 18 months. I belong to a dating website so have been out for coffee with many guys. If we meet again I try to slip into conversation some how.... "say that again and I'll make you wear my panties as punishment". I then gauge the reaction from them.... then just carry on the conversation. I think of it as an opener in the future for them if they are inclined.

 

[knkycva]

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[kiwisub]

The only person I have come out to face to face was the lady who works in the lingerie shop. I was wearing panties in the shop under my clothes so obviously was extremely aroused and therefore submissive. She asked me if she could help and asked what size I wanted etc.. and couldnt help telling her they were for me. I was desperate for her to say I could try some on...maybe next time. She did'nt seem at all shocked and I'm sure there was a little glint in her eye.

 

[Paige.]

I have been single again for 18 months. I belong to a dating website so have been out for coffee with many guys. If we meet again I try to slip into conversation some how.... "say that again and I'll make you wear my panties as punishment". I then gauge the reaction from them.... then just carry on the conversation. I think of it as an opener in the future for them if they are inclined.

We think very much alike T.H.

With a guy that I am interested in I usually test the waters with my toe before plunging in. Again the safety net of caution and not wanting to hit a rock. I enjoy subtleness and sexual discoveries because both people have to be moving in the same direction to make progress.

I think that a flasher or an overly aggressive sexual person assumes that everyone that he/she flashes is as turned on as they are at the moment and are tuned in. Leaving hints and arousing my curiousity works better for me.

 

[Swordplay]

Sword fight is so cool and fun. I did have a friend that love to sword fight. We did it several time.....Wow, my hard cock slap'n against his hard cock.....

.....and I love what your are wearing today!

I'm a fencer, so I've had plenty of bouts with steel swords, but never had a "sword fight" in that way. Would be nice to try that once, though

If you loved what I was wearing, you'd probably enjoy what we ended up doing that morning ...

 

[rbijon]

I'm a fencer, so I've had plenty of bouts with steel swords, but never had a "sword fight" in that way. Would be nice to try that once, though

If you loved what I was wearing, you'd probably enjoy what we ended up doing that morning ...

Oh, the feel of two cocks slap'n against each other is soooo hot!

 

[naughtyinsilk]

I think there are multitudes of straight men that have feelings that are similar to closeted homosexuals. There is a real fear of coming out, of someone finding out and making them feel silly as you say.

You say you would only do it if your partner was totally into it. You are setting pre-conditions to make it safe for yourself and I understand. I think we all want a safety net. But you may never find out if she is really into it unless you somehow let her know. Which came first, the chicken or the egg. Sometimes it requires a leap of faith in your partner.

I also think there are multitudes of women that would be totally turned on seeing their man dressed as a woman or at least in panties but they are also afraid to let you guys know because we don't want to be thought of as silly or weird either. It works both ways.

ITs a bit old hat and cliched these days, but to guage my now wifes and my previous girlfriends attitude to me crossdressing, at somepoint in the first year I would have them around drinking and watching the RHPS on video and make the suggestion that it might be good to see it on stage or at the cinema. I have found that they will normally say "Yes but you have to dress up" or want to go back a second time and do the dressing up thing then. If they dont like the video or want to see it live, its unlikely they will approve of you crossdressing.
Its a simple test but it has proven right for me over 25 years and for a number of friends too.

BUt prepared to be surprised, I have been amazed over the years how many women want to dress their guy as a girl

 

[iwpsp]

How many more of you 'straight' men or even bi-curioius men would be more willing to dress as a woman, complete with make-up and a wig if you knew for certain that you would be accepted completely, with absolutely no fear or thought that you would be ridiculed or rejected by your wife or girlfriend. When I say accepted I mean accepted only by women, not men. Other men would never see you. How many of you would like it if a Bi or a straight woman found you to be very attractive and sexy looking as a woman? And you would never be found out except by your partner.

Hi Paige. I definately would love to dress completely as a woman including the wig, make-up and all of the accessories (jewelry, etc). But I know I'm not passable. Just don't have the body for it - at least not yet. And while I dress, I have to remember to not look in the mirror - because the image in my head certainly isn't the image looking back at me.

And the fear of being "caught" is overwhelming. The humilation and possible ridicule. How would my parents/siblings react? I have a 4 year old niece and wonder how my sister would react to the news - would I still be allowed to see my niece (probably in male clothing only). My family is very close and whenever I have them over, I get nervous and am paranoid about them finding my clothes - even though I know that they are safely hidden.

I have only shared with one person about my crossdressing - a woman who I have worked with for 10 years and who left the company a year ago. It wasn't until she left that I decided to tell her. And she was cool with it. Now if only I could talk her into going shopping with me - I could use the advice and help. I've received advice and helpful tips from other CDers but for some reason, it just isn't the same as receiving help from a GG. Perception on my part perhaps....