Recidiva
Harastal
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Good Scottish name, Heather , my eldest daughter's name , in fact![]()
Que sera, sera.
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Good Scottish name, Heather , my eldest daughter's name , in fact![]()
This agreed with, absolutely. Especially the bit that ' even if it is a clique its not malicious'
Its not about us who arrive. That's what I mean, its not about us.. And yes, just a group of friends.
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Personally I think of private owned websites more like someone's home, like a house party. You don't arrive expecting something, and if the party is not for you you leave. I found a wonderful group of people in BDSM. Some will be in my heart forever I think, even if we fall out of touch I will care for them. But like here, I did not come expecting a party in my honour, I try and make it clear I know that this is NOT my party and while I would like to meet new people I know you people have relationships going back a while. I think in friendship groups like there IS room for new people but that some understanding can be made in each direction.
No one can tell socially inept people before they arrive.....hey...read around a bit. But "we" ( can I say we yet, I am a litster if not yet a dyed in wool GBer)? ) can consider what it is to be new and that not all people are robust. I don't think I would have stayed if I found GB before bdsm. But I am glad I did, because if think its all great: I would have been wrong....but easily scared off.
. I am robust in personality, but I felt exposed in this genre.
Que sera, sera.
Or DD , of course.
this thread got verrry wordy all of a sudden...
this thread got verrry wordy all of a sudden...
That tends to happen when Reci shows up.
She likes the 'English Classics',that's good enough for me.