A Noobs response

This agreed with, absolutely. Especially the bit that ' even if it is a clique its not malicious'


Its not about us who arrive. That's what I mean, its not about us. :). And yes, just a group of friends. :).

Personally I think of private owned websites more like someone's home, like a house party. You don't arrive expecting something, and if the party is not for you you leave. I found a wonderful group of people in BDSM :heart::heart:. Some will be in my heart forever I think, even if we fall out of touch I will care for them. But like here, I did not come expecting a party in my honour, I try and make it clear I know that this is NOT my party and while I would like to meet new people I know you people have relationships going back a while. I think in friendship groups like there IS room for new people but that some understanding can be made in each direction.

No one can tell socially inept people before they arrive.....hey...read around a bit. But "we" ( can I say we yet, I am a litster if not yet a dyed in wool GBer)? ) can consider what it is to be new and that not all people are robust. I don't think I would have stayed if I found GB before bdsm :eek::eek:. But I am glad I did, because if think its all great: I would have been wrong....but easily scared off. :eek:. I am robust in personality, but I felt exposed in this genre.

Nezatch, SatinDesire and Homburg are some of my favorite people from the BDSM boards, I still get to see Satin a lot off the board, which is lovely. Miss the other two.

There are a lot of great people you have to stray off the GB to meet. It's worth it.

I started off hitting "New post" and replied to everything I wanted to reply to, didn't realize there were different boards until ABSTRUSE in the AH started picking on GBers and I realized...I like this lady and she's mean.

Yay!

I get to see her too off the board, so I have collected a buncha cool people in my travels, have Lit to thank for it.
 
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