A Question for the Guys

[Cakegirl]

So go for it be forward and weed out the boring ones.....

Hear, hear!!!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

.......

 

[xxfactor]

The anonymity of Literotica can be a good thing - however, a forward, more aggressive and sexually confident woman in real life? Major turn on!

 

[jase_conner]

I'd be shocked but extreamly excited, and would eagerly savour you once I got my ass over there.

 

[blue112]

Id be there like the others! its always awesome when your tight with someone, they can just be honest like that, whether in a relationship or a casual thing, being subtle is good, but only when the other persons looking, if they aint, just be frank, maybe thats just me and how i like my women

 

[StevenWill]

?

What is your address again? My car is running.

 

[Eritz]

I'm really shy around women, so a girl who was going to be a bit forward towards me would probably go down well in a decent situation. I hate the idea that I'm being forced into anything which is a major turnof for me but if it feels natural, like in the situation given, I'd be working out exactly how long it would take me to ring on the door.

 

[Different Guy]

Women should definately be more foward but obviously not in a skanky whore sorta way but with friends, good friends why not? I would definately jump at the chance and think nothing of it but a sense of being privalidged she asked me. Not at the moment tho, happy in relationship so it's hypothetical heh heh!

 

[Bob Briton]

I remember once when organising a second date with a lovely brummie called Vicky.
I had just mentioned the curry house we were going too and she promptly replied about wanting to stay over and did I have any condoms?

Well that certainly blew away my cobwebs. In all my years of dating I had never been in this situation. She said that she fancied me and wanted to get on with me.

We became fuck buddies for a while and she gave me the best girl on top sex I've ever had.
She even commented on my dick..saying it was smaller than what she's used to but thicker.

I had to compliement her on her honesty.

 

[niteloser]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

how did you become so bold? I am very shy when asking for pleasures. I would like to be able to be a little bolder. any tips?

 

[RedIntense]

how did you become so bold? I am very shy when asking for pleasures. I would like to be able to be a little bolder. any tips?

I don't actually know. In fact, the whole thing was really out of character for me. It had been a very stressful day and I wasn't in the mood for playing games. I usually have a really hard time asking for what I want. That was the whole reason behing this thread. I was worried it just made me sound slutty. But after the support I just got from all the guys here, I feel much better about it. Plus, the idea of doing something so not-me made me even hotter!

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By the way, Nico reminded me early that I didn't tell you all what actually came from the phone call...

My friend had been on his way to a Sabbath dinner with some friends from synagogue (he's jewish). He just told them he had a family emergency and that he would be back in about an hour. The best part is, his friends kept the dinner warm and waited for him to come back!

 

[indigoboy]

I would love it! How refreshing!

It can be quite aggravating to have to drop hints, or try to read hints and/or mixed messages.

Just tell me when you want it, where, and how hard.

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

 

[niteloser]

I don't actually know. In fact, the whole thing was really out of character for me. It had been a very stressful day and I wasn't in the mood for playing games. I usually have a really hard time asking for what I want. That was the whole reason behing this thread. I was worried it just made me sound slutty. But after the support I just got from all the guys here, I feel much better about it. Plus, the idea of doing something so not-me made me even hotter!

hmmm I may have to try that sometime soon.

 

[londonaberdeen]

You get my vote too.

I like a lady in public but what goes on in private is between us.

Turns a man on, knowing you really want him and that you simply can't wait til you see him.

Had you told me that I'd have told you to work yourself for a while until I got myself over there to help finish you off.

 

[nycphoto]

I would think that there are people who would be scared of a phone call like that, they would not know what to do. I on the othe hand would love a phone call like that. Those were the good old college days.

 

[kkoozz]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

I would be there ASAP. I love women who just say what they want.

 

[fgarvb1]

Back in my single days I would get several of those Booty calls a week.


Sometimes they would ask if I was busy, Sometimes they would drop by and if there was no other car in my driveway they would get brave, drop in and ask if I was alone.

It didn't take a genius to figure out what was on their mind.

Nor were they shy about describing what they wanted.

It is amazing what some people will come right out and ask for!

I always at least in them day kelped some tools and toys on hand!


Yeah, I loved it.

 

[1stClassNiceGuy]

I have a somewhat differing opinion than most of the guys here.

While for the most part, I agree, that if I got a call like that, I would be there in a flash....

I think that would only apply -some- of the time, not all of it. Anything you do can become bland and boring if it becomes the norm.

Even guys like to be surprised from time to time. To me, if a woman did that every time, it would almost get to be a chore (Granted, a really, -really- fun chore, pardon the oxymoron) But what would really get me going, is hearing that from someone I -didn't- expect it from. Someone who under normal circumstances would probably not do that. (Then again, I do have this thing for shy girls )

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

As you heard me hanging up the phone you would simultaniously hear me ringing your doorbell.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

It would really depend. I mean yeah, part of me is thinking that would be ideal, but at the same time, it would depend on how well I knew her, obviously.

It could be fun though.

 

[justathought555]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

Pretty much have to agree with most of the replies here - I would be over there in less than a heartbeat.

One caveat: If the woman and I have never 'hooked up' before, I might hesitate. Probably not for too long though. Of course, if we had 'hooked up' already, the conversation could lead to a little phone sex, or at least some phone foreplay.

 

[Lilija]

This is my first post here, but I feel like I might have a little insight. (I'm a shy girl, long time lurker, hi everyone )

I've been playing with this guy online for awhile now, some pretty intense D&S, a little S&M, etc. definitely past flirty playing around. He came up here to visit family, and me, for a little vacation, and I was hoping we could explore some of those fantasies in real life. But, given the nature of our situation, I wasn't gonna be too agressive with him.

He doesn't even flirt. All I got was a hug, and it was a friendly one.

We've known each other for about a year and a half, online, we've seen lots of pictures of each other, webcam, phone, he's made me come a million times...but in real life, he's entirely shy. I'm wondering if it's a shy thing, or a chemistry thing, or something. But, I can say based on my experiences, that sometimes being forward gets you no where.

 

[Bob Farrell]

One guys answer

First a phone call such as that would have me brushing my teeth
and asking what time shall I be there.

Second. I would guess that most men like me would be so flattered
having a woman ask a direct question or a direct invite to some
erotic play. It gets tiresome at times to be the one who must always
begin the play. I can't recall exactly where the quote is from but" Ask and
you shall receive".

 

[electron69]

Lickity Split

If I knew this was a serious offer, made by someone that I was attracted to, I would be there lickity split, without a second thought. I did receive a similar offer from an X-Ray tech while working a slow night shift as Emergency Department resident at John's Hopkins, Baltimore, a few years ago. I had her follow me into a second floor supply closet where I gave her an exam. It was a memorable experience that led to a three month affair before I was rotated out to Boston General. What made it extra special was the fact that she was happily married and it was merely hot, passionate sex without expectation.

 

[somecoolguy]

Where have you been all my life? I would definately do what he did....over and over and over.....