A Question for the Guys

[DemonOuterverse]

I think that would only apply -some- of the time, not all of it. Anything you do can become bland and boring if it becomes the norm.

Even guys like to be surprised from time to time. To me, if a woman did that every time, it would almost get to be a chore (Granted, a really, -really- fun chore, pardon the oxymoron) But what would really get me going, is hearing that from someone I -didn't- expect it from. Someone who under normal circumstances would probably not do that.

Yeah I agree. It'd be a lot better if it was unexpected than the norm. I consider myself fairly open about my sexuality so I don't think that the act of a woman telling you right up that she wants a quick fuck is bad. My personal reaction would probably be exactly as I described it, though I was joking around a bit. First sheer Disbelief, then total Shock, and finally Horny as all get out. But that's just me.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

I've known a number of women like you, including my wife. I couldn't be happier that women like you exist.

These days, if I were to receive a call like that, I would only have to hesitate long enough to let my wife get herself ready to come over with me.

 

[badmatt]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

when I have received that call in the past, I've tended to get in my car and go straight to the pussy in question.

 

[BigM]

A dissenting view

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

Well, RedIntense, at the risk of sounding like a prude:

I also like women who are forward, who let me know they're eager to see me. But there's a fine line between 'building the anticipation' over the phone and tainting the mystery of it all. For me, your 'come lick me' phone call would be too much of the latter -- though I'd certainly still swing by pronto.

Clearly I'm in the minority on this one.

(On the other hand, saying 'lick me' while you're both in the middle of sex? That's perfect timing.)

 

[amraam840]

righton

I've gotten that call too. I was without wheels and the lady in desperate need was like 20 miles away, otherwise I would've ridden my bicycle. I told her she had to come get me and when she did, we had nowhere to go to do the nasty things she wanted. We ended up in an abandoned warehouse parking lot, and it was made all the better by her just being honest and saying what she really wanted. No crap or small talk, just good sex.

 

[toto11]

I think it is refreshing when a woman lets you know what she wants. I hope it works both ways with you. Now cum here and suck my dick.

 

[Panama Hat]

This reminds me of something on Discover Channel

or one of those science channels:

A university did a study where they took several young grad students to a bus stop in a metropolitan area. When people would get off the bus, the students would just directly ask them "Would you like to have sex with me right now?"

I think the sample size was around 100 for each sex. NONE of the women asked agreed. Something like 90% of the men agreed, and every one of the remaining 10% APOLOGIZED as they turned the proposition down.

That said, the world needs more women like you.

 

[groverty]

there's no such thing as women like you!

 

[blkmack]

all you would have to say is that you needed your pussy licked shaved or not would have been there knocking down your door

 

[ApplesMcgee]

agreed...

.....

 

[RedIntense]

Well, RedIntense, at the risk of sounding like a prude:

I also like women who are forward, who let me know they're eager to see me. But there's a fine line between 'building the anticipation' over the phone and tainting the mystery of it all. For me, your 'come lick me' phone call would be too much of the latter -- though I'd certainly still swing by pronto.

Clearly I'm in the minority on this one.

(On the other hand, saying 'lick me' while you're both in the middle of sex? That's perfect timing.)

I really appreciate that honesty. And I'm glad you spoke up because I have no idea what the ratio of majority:minority is if no one speaks up against it.

Again, its the first time I've done something like that, and I think I shocked myself so much that I made myself hotter! But its not something I'll be doing on a regular basis.

Question though: If it would be to forward for you, why would you still come over?

 

[RedIntense]

there's no such thing as women like you!

haha. Are you telling me I don't exist?

 

[sirmed]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

ding dong... Im here............. I would love a woman that is that confortable with me. to say those things.. I find where I go wrong is when I try to read in or figure out what they want cause they are wont or feel like they cant say those things because of what I might think....
it would be so much easer.....if they would just say what they want ......

 

[atic]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

Mmmm - I find that type of directness to be very sexy.

I would hopefully be able to come up with some glib remark and I would be certainly be licking you that evening.

 

[smoothdevil]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

If a woman that I have never meet said that to me , I would wonder what her fees were ... and if it was a woman that I had "hooked up with" before, most likely I would be pleased with her self assurance, sexiness and succumb to her viles ...

 

[Luv2PleasureF]

My woman is just as blunt. I would go for it!

 

[BigM]

I really appreciate that honesty. And I'm glad you spoke up because I have no idea what the ratio of majority:minority is if no one speaks up against it.

Again, its the first time I've done something like that, and I think I shocked myself so much that I made myself hotter! But its not something I'll be doing on a regular basis.

Question though: If it would be to forward for you, why would you still come over?

I'd probably still swing by -- depending on how I felt about the woman. I've had sex buddies with whom I've had that chemistry, that sense of connection and fun. I'd swing by for her.

Others were just sex, cheap sex, and I'd have to be in the right mood for that (drunk on a Saturday night?). We don't all start slobbering when the bell rings, despite what Pavlov says.

 

[RedIntense]

ding dong... Im here............. I would love a woman that is that confortable with me. to say those things.. I find where I go wrong is when I try to read in or figure out what they want cause they are wont or feel like they cant say those things because of what I might think....
it would be so much easer.....if they would just say what they want ......

I think your avatar just gave me an orgasm. Mmmm...

Anywho, I used to be like that. I had a hard time saying what I wanted. Its actually Lit that loosened me up (not technically ). I would honestly recommend that when you start getting intimate, if you're having a hard time communicating, send the woman to Lit. It totally makes you realize you're not alone in your interests and that you really aren't "dirty."

 

[RedIntense]

We don't all start slobbering when the bell rings, despite what Pavlov says.

I think that is my new favorite quote! Mind if I use it in my profile?

 

[Teddybear1626]

I guess i keep finding men that like the chase becuase i know I am a very open sexual person with extreme self-confidence. What im thinking usually comes out of my mouth no matter what it is and somehow i cant seem to attract a man that appreciates that kind of woman.

 

[grungalunga]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

I dont care how forward a person is in real life. Im not a fan of the whole casual sex, so i dont know how i would respond to your EXACT comment, but id have no problem with a woman calling me, or asking me out, or anything like that.

 

[HybridCrow]

Hell yeah!

Hell yeah, I would love a woman like that. Sure, I'd need to get more comfortable with it, but really, if I knew a woman or two like that and they had that kind of, I guess interest, in me; I would definitely have my problems solved!

 

[BigM]

I think that is my new favorite quote! Mind if I use it in my profile?

Use it however you'd like, RedIntense. If it ever makes it into a 'Book of Quotations,' we'll have our own private chuckle.

 

[Cakegirl]

Hell yeah, I would love a woman like that. Sure, I'd need to get more comfortable with it, but really, if I knew a woman or two like that and they had that kind of, I guess interest, in me; I would definitely have my problems solved!

Hm, maybe herein lies the problem. If it takes you a while to 'get more comfortable with it', that probably means that the first time she did it, your response wouldn't be immediately positive. So chances are, she's not going to try it a second time, because she thinks that you're not into that.

 

[Cakegirl]

I guess i keep finding men that like the chase becuase i know I am a very open sexual person with extreme self-confidence. What im thinking usually comes out of my mouth no matter what it is and somehow i cant seem to attract a man that appreciates that kind of woman.

LOL, me too, and same goes for a good friend of mine.