A year on: How attractive are you?
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Virtual_Burlesque
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Virtual_Burlesque said:"Indianna Lou and the Throbbing Temple of Doom!"
What's throbbing?
Quiet_Cool
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I'm a babe magnet...
No, honestly, I get chicks all the time.
WHy are you looking at me that way?
It's true, I have to carry a kendo stick just to get home unmolested.
Stop laughing...
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No, honestly, I get chicks all the time.
WHy are you looking at me that way?
It's true, I have to carry a kendo stick just to get home unmolested.
Stop laughing...
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sophia jane
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SophiaY said:
You know, I have a problem with this. Because we shouldn't need a lover to feel attractive, or to think that we're attractive. Maybe I'm just sensitive because I don't have a lover, but it seems that this is all wrong.
I can't judge myself. I'm my own worst critic in the looks department. But y'all have seen half of me, pretty well exposed.
Quiet_Cool
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sophia jane said:You know, I have a problem with this. Because we shouldn't need a lover to feel attractive, or to think that we're attractive. Maybe I'm just sensitive because I don't have a lover, but it seems that this is all wrong.
I can't judge myself. I'm my own worst critic in the looks department. But y'all have seen half of me, pretty well exposed.
I know what you mean. Not having a lover makes feeling attractive a bit harder though, doesn't it? I mean, I'd feel more attractive if I had someone there, simply becaue if I were ugly, they wouldn't be. Not that that's the only reason for someone to stick around, or the only reason for leaving; by no means, and I'm well aware of that. But if you weren't attractive, they wouldn't be there.
In all honesty, I don't feel that physically, I'm unattractive at all. I'm a little guy (in more than one sense
) less than 160 lbs easy. I'm short (5-9; 5-10) but other than that... I think I hold up well. Can't say I'm poorly proportioned at all, can't say my face will ever work against me, barring some freak accident, I suppose. Not saying Brad Pitt and I have anything in common, but I'm at least average, I would think.I'm sort of the opposite of the rest here. All of you seem happy with yourselves, and confident, which is where I tend to be limited. I'm insecure, and I don't smile much, and can't say I'm overly comfortable talking about myself (off-line that is, here I whine by the minute
). *shrug*
Just something I have to work on I guess.
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kendo1 said:Your on-line lover thinks you're gorgeous.
Who needs Kendo sticks?
Whose online lover? Does everyone have an online lover, but me?
What is a Kendo stick anyway?
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sophia jane said:Whose online lover? Does everyone have an online lover, but me?
What is a Kendo stick anyway?
You need one, SJ? I'm game...
A Kendo stick is a martial arts weapon. If I remember correctly, it's the one the use in Singapore for caning. I might be wrong about that though.
Check your PM box, SJ.
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kendo1 said:I was referring to me.
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sophia jane said:You know, I have a problem with this. Because we shouldn't need a lover to feel attractive, or to think that we're attractive. Maybe I'm just sensitive because I don't have a lover, but it seems that this is all wrong.
I can't judge myself. I'm my own worst critic in the looks department. But y'all have seen half of me, pretty well exposed.
Hmm, I intended my comment a little differently than how you took it.
I like how I look (most of the time, there are days, there are days -- wry grin), regardless of how others might see me.
How beautiful I feel however is something that comes from the look in the eyes of the ones I care about.
Is that any clearer?
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SophiaY said:
Yes. But it's the same thing. If we only feel beautiful because of the way a loved one is looking at us, then when we don't have anyone loving us, we feel horrible. Which, sure, is true alot of the time. But it seems to me, how we feel about ourselves and our physical attractiveness should not be completely dependant on having a lover.
Of course, I'm probably saying this cuz I'm single and have no prospects.
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matriarch said:...and your 'me' is quite, quite lovely. Not too much for me, sexy.
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ABSTRUSE said:
I don't like seeing mean doctors. Come to think of it, I don't care much for doctors at all....why would anyone want to see one who's a witch?
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