Age question for the Guys

[drummer34]

I'm 46 and i would do them both. Age really doesn't matter, if the girl wasn't experienced i'd make her

 

[shadeeladee]

I would just like to add that I think it is more than experience that differientiates the 21 yr. old from the 40 yr. old. A woman 'grows into' her sexuality and at 40 is comfortable with her body and expressing her wants and desires. The little hang ups of youth are gone.

 

[HybridCrow]

One Last follow-up:

Accurately pointed out to me was a horribly worded description. Even contained within quotes -- the term "nubile young thing" comes across as amazingly insensitive. The intent was to use the lockerroom vernacular in order to elicit greater response. All too sad, the wording was wholly wrong and objectifies the better gender of our species. To all who took offense -- my deepes apologies.

The choices truly are:

1. A 21 year-old woman of some presence
2. A 40 year-old woman of broader experience

Let's try this one more time, then if brickbats must fly still -- it is of my own doing.

F7

As a 21 year old virgin, I would have to say I think on the whole religious aspect (I'm not that religious) as well as morality issue (could that be what I'm thinking?), I would rather do it with somebody who ISN'T experienced and the fact that they are somebody I love and they love me as well and it would make the first time really special.

However, given the terms of today's society and their morals, ethics, etc. etc., and I guess I'd probably prefer to not be a virgin if I did this, but I would even prefer a woman who is older, has more experience, and very mature.

So, it's pretty much all even out.

 

[thrity]

Here's one I haven't seen (but I'm new) so:

Who would you rather have a multiple-encounter sexual relationship with:

21 Year Old Nubile Thing
40 Year Old Woman of Experience

Please choose one and, when responding, Let's see how old YOU are.

well, i'm 36 year old guy, i'd say i prefer young girls, thier bodies are more attractive, and making love with them has much more fun.
besides, do you think the viginas of young women are tighter than those of older women, espically for those women without births.

 

[Texguy84]

After giving this some thought, I'd have to say it depends on if the woman is seducing me. If she's seducing me, totally the 40 year old. Otherwise, the 21 year old.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

well, i'm 36 year old guy, i'd say i prefer young girls, thier bodies are more attractive, and making love with them has much more fun.
besides, do you think the viginas of young women are tighter than those of older women, espically for those women without births.

O-Brother! A vigina loosens or constricts in shape depending on how it's used. I've been with a 53yr old who was every bit as tight, and even tighter than the 18-30 year olds that I've been with. She was a Yoga instructor and she wasn't built like a brick shithouse, she was the brick that would hold it all together!

A buddy of mine loves telling a joke about pussies and tires. It goes something like, "If Goodyear could figure out how to make tires out of pussy we'd all have tires that never wore out!"

 

[mikeofokc]

"If Goodyear could figure out how to make tires out of pussy we'd all have tires that never wore out!"

That sure would give a whole new perspective of being run over by an 18 wheeler. If my time was up, I couldnt think of a better way to go unless of course it would back up over me just to make sure. Better yet, maybe us men would all want that spare tire hanging around our waist. Dont rush out there yet gents, pussies are not like tires yet, I just tried to put two cans of Fix-a-Flat in one last night and shes still hissing air and pulling to the left.

Seriously tightness has nothing to do with age or use. Some young ones I have been with are like putting a bat in a trash can, where I just slapped the sides and made a lot of banging noise. some older ones were like putting a Redwood down a gopher hole. They are all different and thank god for that.

Also if I look drunk again would someone please make sure I stay out of the woods and out of the ally with the trash cans. Some things do not deserve repeating and them damn gopher teeth are sharp. Although, it was kind of cool leading the St Patty's day parade banging the inside of that trash can, wearing the green hat, beads and all that free green beer. Lucky for me the cops believed I was the Grand Martial just changing in that ally when they caught me. Now if I could just get the mayors wife to quit showing up at my house on trash pickup day, maybe then the neighborhood dogs could let their vocal cords heal and the children wouldnt be afraid to play outside. It is kind of hard ignoring a 400 lb wide body when she turns on the yellow flashin light and the back up beeper is blaring. I asked her not to wear the lights and beepers but she said its a city code. Wish she would at least come before dawn and the real trash guy comes so it wasnt so obvious. She even shows up on holidays and my birthday but at least she gave me a nice bathrobe and black garter socks to keep me warm on cold mornings or when she gets stuck on icy roads. So if you see your old neighbor man pulling his cans to the curb with his robe and knee socks on, then protect your dogs and children quick. You never know. At least for me its the mayor's wife so the tow truck guys have to show up, you may not be so lucky.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

That sure would give a whole new perspective of being run over by an 18 wheeler. If my time was up, I couldnt think of a better way to go unless of course it would back up over me just to make sure. Better yet, maybe us men would all want that spare tire hanging around our waist. Dont rush out there yet gents, pussies are not like tires yet, I just tried to put two cans of Fix-a-Flat in one last night and shes still hissing air and pulling to the left.

Ya plugged the wrong hole, man!!!

 

[Gil_T2]

Here's one I haven't seen (but I'm new) so:

Who would you rather have a multiple-encounter sexual relationship with:

21 Year Old Nubile Thing
40 Year Old Woman of Experience

Please choose one and, when responding, Let's see how old YOU are.

I'm pleased to say i've had both & so much depends on the person more than the age.
I did enjoy playing with the young ladies as they can be shown so much by an older experienced guy.
Mature ladies have a greater knowledge as to what they want & expect.

 

[frisky]

Here's one I haven't seen (but I'm new) so:

Who would you rather have a multiple-encounter sexual relationship with:

21 Year Old Nubile Thing
40 Year Old Woman of Experience

Please choose one and, when responding, Let's see how old YOU are.

At the moment I'd go the more mature option (although that assumes that maturity is relative to age, which certainly isn't true). I'm 23 btw.

Of course this is hypothetical. Generally speaking I'm around people more towards my age most of the time, therefore the chances of developing a sexual relationship with an older person is very slim. It would be a great experience however, and I'd like to show my lady how us young gentlemen know how to treat our ladies with dignity and respect.

 

[londonaberdeen]

34 Male

I'd go for the experience. I've been lucky in having a few wide ranging partners and I'd pick the experience every day of the week and twice at weekends.

21 might have a tight body but nothing beats confidence, experience and knowledge.

Too general a question, so very general answers.

 

[groverty]

could I have them both? I'm 25...I'd probably rather pick the 21 year old, but the 40 year old would be intriguing...

 

[cowboy911]

Age Question for the guys

I am 28. I myself would choose the more experienced older women. I feel now matter what it is you are doing youth cannot beat experience. That my opinion

 

[Little Bird]

As I'm only 20 myself and haven't done most things I would choose the first one. Better start slow and over time you'll get the later anyway...

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

It all depends on the personality for me.

-Zergplex

 

[JennyWrites4Fun]

Interesting question and interesting responses!

As a woman who often chats on Lit's chat site, I often get messages from men younger than myself (I am 40) who are eager for my experience. The sad thing is, we rarely have anything in common so I rarely end up giving the wee ones the benefit of my years and depth of my knowledge! I wouldn't fuck someone who is illiterate, unworldly, or whose only goal was to benefit simply from me teaching him (we should both learn something).

Sure, the younger man might have more stamina and the younger woman might feel more firm to the touch, but after you've cum, will you be able to talk with him/her? Does that matter to you? If not, bang away!

An older lover might not have the stamina or staying power of a younger lover but there's something to be said for experience and appreciation. I find that alot of older men truly miss the feel of a woman's mouth on their penis (even the married men) so her age is irrelevant but her prowess, well, that's another story! A smart man will recognize this and celebrate it.

Finally, I'm pleased to see how many younger men responded to this thread. I anticipated that a lot of older men would respond with how they'd live out their mid life crisis with a younger woman (question is, would she have them?). The young guys who responded seemed to actually be concerned about overall satisfaction. That's refreshing!

 

[TwoInStAuggie]

This is a difficult question to answer. It does not take into account such attributes as charm, intelligence, wittiness, sophisitcation, sincerity or congeniality all of which I rate higher than appearance or experience. But assuming both women were of equal standing in those areas as well as both being evenly alluring physically I might go with the older woman in a photo finish over the younger woman simply for the fact that she's had more time to discover and get comfortable with her sexual identity. Also, and this is by no means a generalization, many but certainly not all younger woman in their early twenties are rather boring conversationalists and lack the life experience that fosters a more open mind. A 21-year old woman, however, is entirely likely to be as compatible to me as a 41-year old woman. I'm 36 and my wife is 28. We got together when she was 23. So, it can happen. It's just not as likely.

 

[biglboy]

Here's one I haven't seen (but I'm new) so:

Who would you rather have a multiple-encounter sexual relationship with:

21 Year Old Nubile Thing
40 Year Old Woman of Experience

Please choose one and, when responding, Let's see how old YOU are.

I'd personally take the 40yr old who had the experience. Just seems as though you could have more fun with more experience.

Oh, and I'm 22.

 

[12to8]

Although I believe numbers are a poor gauge, at 60 I am more attracted to more mature women.

I love the age of their bodies. The young girls are too tight and too self absorbed to relax.

I had a 10 year single period between marragies and at 33 to 43 I was dating 18 to 45 year olds. After a good fuck the 45 year old always kept my interest.

 

[thirstyscholar]

Without question, the 40 yr old woman of experience

 

[thirstyscholar]

oh yeah, i am 35

 

[hurricane64]

I'm 40, and prefer the 40-year old.

 

[fathom7]

I had a 10 year single period between marragies and at 33 to 43 I was dating 18 to 45 year olds. After a good fuck the 45 year old always kept my interest.

Oddly most things in life can be summed up by a linie from a movie or a well-done television production. In this instance I would refer you to an episode of M*A*S*H*

"It's just nice to talk with someone who remembers the same Presidents." Col. Sherman T. Potter.

 

[nycphoto]

Now that I have been there done that I would take the Nubie thing because there exists the possibility of teaching her everything that I like. There is not better sensation that being pleased this way. As for the 40 year old if we were at a convention I would rush into her arms and have sex with her, why not?

 

[GenesisMan]

I am 31

For me age doesn't matter. At this point in my life the person with the higher sex drive.