Although my wife has played with my asshole, it's never been penetrated. Well the wife has bought a jelly toy that i just found tonight, and since i'm alone I thought I would try it on myself.Just need a few pointers in the right direction.
Take your time. Relax....have a couple drinks if that's your thing. Make sure you use plenty of lube. Start with a (lubed) finger. If that is comfortable, slip another one in. Make sure you are sufficiently relaxed so you won't be too tight for the toy. You are sure to enjoy the results.
*for anal play, I would recommend using a condom over the toy or be certain to disinfect it right away.
I agree with grrrlone , take your time, try it in the shower. I've personally tried it myself with a jelly toy. The shower was the first place and then tried it dry. all you have to do is take your time. The benefits are great and it will enhance your orgasm.
first tip dont run around the house with an erection learned that the hard way. Have the toy pointed down when walking place with it dont need to trip and have a dildo in the eye. BUt yeah shower is good always have lots of slippery liquid and you have warm water to relax you and you can get cleaned off easily. Also use lube
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