Anal Sex Advice

[Bit2Large]

I am a lucky man married to a great gal who wants to satisfy my every whim. She loves the fact that I am unusually well endowed and has even proudly shared this fact with her two best friends.
But...I have a real need to try anal, the idea really excites me and she is way to scared to try with me. Advice please?

 

[DuckLover]

Welcome to Lit!

Check the "The Blank Manual" thread for the answer to your question. The topic of how to safely and enjoyably have anal sex is one of the most common on this board. Within the Blank Manual thread you will find extremely well-organized links to the best recent threads addressing this topic. It's effectively a FAQ sheet for the How-To board.

Once you've read through a couple of those threads, feel free to post follow-up questions or comments directly in them. Or if you have a question that has not previously been addressed, than you can post a new thread with a much more detailed question and expect significant numbers of responses. New threads with very general questions about common topics do not generate much feedback.

Litsters are generally very open to giving suggestions and advice on specific situations, and I have little doubt that you can find answers to ALL your sexual questions here... even questions you didn't realize you had!

 

[psyche]

Anal sex can be wonderful for a woman. Take your time, be patient and use some good lube, I like astoglide. If she expresses any feedback about pain stop instantly and let her get used to your cock in her ass. It can be a wonderful experience for both of you.......enjoy.

 

[BigDogCST]

Interested as well

Bit2large, get thread, this will help me out as well. So far great advise. Will keep in touch.

 

[Ezzy]

Lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, lube, and then try a finger or a small thin vibrator, then when she is relaxed a bigger vib or more fingers, then when she is relaxed further, more fingers or a bigger vib, then when you are about to penetrate her remove the fingers or the vib and slip it in slowly and stop if she tells you to.

If you remind her to push down as if taking a poop this helps to open the inner sphincter andc will allow you to slip in quicker and deeper.

After putting all this in this post I am reminded I said nothing about cleaning up first, you might want to start out with an enema (for her not for you) or two this helps to clean out the lower intestine, and rectum.

Lastly I want to restate, if at any point she say stop, you should stop at once, we each know our own levels for pain and pleasure tolerences. If you don't stop and carry on causing pain, don't be surprised if when she can walk again, she doesn't cut your balls off!