Anal Sex

[john_mmurphy]

I have lately began to slide my finger in and out of my wifes ass (only about an inch) while I am down on her and she seems to enjoy it. I would love to try and have full anal sex with her. Any sugestions/advice. I have never tried it before and would appreciate some tips and maybe how it feels from both a male and a female perpective.

Thanks in advance

 

[Eilan]

Welcome to Lit. Be sure to check out The Blank Manual for some good threads on anal.

Here's an excellent resource from Lit's How-To Story Section: Anal Sex (Gasp!): A Hands-On Manual.

Lube, lube, lube! When you think you have enough lube, add more.

Remember that the ass is not a second pussy. If you treat it as such, you will never, ever get to fuck your wife's ass again.

Good luck.

 

[The Gimp]

If you're looking to incorporate butt play into your sex life then anal sex should be way down the road. Start with a finger then progress to a small toy, something like a string of beads. If that goes well then after a while upgrade to a bigger toy, something comprable to the size of your penis. If that goes well then talk about upgrading to anal intercourse.
Walk, then jog, then run

 

[eatmebaby]

Keep going the finger for a while, just go a little further each time, and try it when your doing doggie, thats when it send me nuts, a cock in the cunt and a finger up the butt sends me nuts.

Geting wet just thinking about it.......

 

[mastagraff]

my girlfriend loves when she is on top of me and i and thrusting in and out of her pussy and use my index finger and finger her ass, but i dont stick my whole finger up her ass just a little bit. use lube and throw it up her ass when your doing her from behind.

 

[Bottomlover]

The best way to learn about this is to experiment on your own ass. you will get an appreciation for just how slow and gentle you have to be if you want to be allowed to do it more than once. you may also discover that it feels good too.

 

[Different Guy]

I'd probs say when you get to the point you can "finger fuck" your partner's ass then move onto getting your dick in there. Gently, of course and slow and remember to be very slow and careful when coming out of her ass as the less experienced she is, the lil 'pop' will hurt a bit or be uncomfortable

 

[Eilan]

Oh--and don't do anything to your wife that you aren't willing to have done to yourself, if you know what I mean.

Edit: Sorry, Bottomlover. Didn't see your similar post.

 

[5pintshefound]

The best way to learn about this is to experiment on your own ass. you will get an appreciation for just how slow and gentle you have to be if you want to be allowed to do it more than once. you may also discover that it feels good too.

brilliant advice!

also...JOHN- make sure your nails are clipped well... even the tiniest nail can hurt.. its amazing where sharp edges can "hide"

 

[mastagraff]

one thing i would like to add is you kind of have to make her think she wants it. i mean if you say oh hey hun i want to fuck you in the ass and she never has chances are she wont let you, but if you make her think she wants it and show her how good ass play can be or how good it can feel she will warm up to it and let you, you have to kind of sell how good it can be for her ...

 

[cherries_on_snow]

I have lately began to slide my finger in and out of my wifes ass (only about an inch) while I am down on her and she seems to enjoy it. I would love to try and have full anal sex with her. Any sugestions/advice. I have never tried it before and would appreciate some tips and maybe how it feels from both a male and a female perpective.

Thanks in advance

This is the best advice I can give: the first time I learned to love anal with the help of an expert lover. to kp with

The Secret to Anal Sex She Will Want Again

 

[mastagraff]

give her ass a lick and see how she likes it. my fav is when she is missinonary just place your finger at her ass and give a small push in and fuck her harder and move your finger around the opening of her ass and see how she liekes it..