Any long term marriages out there?

Basically had a hard conversation that I won't live like this and we need to either try and fix it or else. I got ed addressed and did couples therapy. Both of us have issues going on and it all came up, not a one-sided issue for us. More communication on wants and needs, biggest being that we want to be married to each other. Not everyone has these same points so take it as general info. We also are more dillegent about having intimate time instead of assuming or guessing, it's a bit scheduled but it's at least haopening.
 
19 years. Exciting and honest sessions. Her desire decreased drastically about five years ago. Mine as well to be honest. About three years ago mine kicked into overdrive and she was still not s interested as I was. After some heartfelt conversations, she allowed me to see an escort without her, although she insists on me telling her what we did to each other. As well she has access to my account on literotica to view my postings and DM's. This arrangement works but I am hoping for her peri menopause to end, enter menopause and then be open to more sexual experiences with each other.
 
How's your sex life with your mate? What do you do to keep it fresh?

My wife and I were on the brink of a very bitter divorce. We were angry at each other. Intimacy was long dead and our sex life was nil.

My wife bought a condo and moved out. We decided we still loved each other but couldn't live together. We split stuff up, pretty much, stayed married and lived happily ever after. Now my wife is my girlfriend and life is verrrry good.

That's my story. What's yours?


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Hot damn, this might be me one day. Sex isn't happening. If sex were the point of existence, I could slay on "the apps", but I just want the life I built to be everything I need.

I'm encouraged to read what you wrote. If we don't get too old before we're empty nesters, I can see this being my wife and me. Enjoying our time alone in our own condos but happy to go on dates and get wild when we're together.
 
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