toys_em_us
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Now that sounds promising, Nothing better than a monster in bed, on bed, around the bed, hanging onto the headboard......
are orgasms humiliating?
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wenchhh
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Andreste, I agree with you totally. I think orgasms are humiliating, but not in a bad way. In my vanilla world, I don't cum unless it's by my own hand. Then I see Master and cum buckets! You're right on, it reduces you to the most basic of needs. So erotic. I'm embarrassed, to lose control, to love it so much, and to want MORE MORE MORE!!! He loves it tho, and considers it a job well done, so who am I to complain. I have to be careful not to cover my face and blush when I orgasm tho, he doesn't like that, and it'll earn me a swat or two, and his disapproval, which is 10 times worse than the swat.
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Andraste said:
in the heat of the moment it's not ever crossed my mind... now that i actually sit and think about it i could see where it would embarrassing. i've been very lucky that most of my partners found it very erotic to watch my reactions. That's probably why i've never really thought about it as embarrassing. Till now...lmao
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I don't orgasm. That doesn't mean I don't experience intense physical pleasure during sex and that doesn't mean it doesn't ebb and flow depending on what's going on, it just means I don't orgasm. Not even by my own hand.
I hope I will, one day. I don't think I'd find it humiliating, especially not considering some of the faces I've seen my partners pull when they orgasm!
I hope I will, one day. I don't think I'd find it humiliating, especially not considering some of the faces I've seen my partners pull when they orgasm!
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The best orgasms are humiliating.
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Andraste said:
But you can get something amazing from the humiliation which that brings - or maybe not.
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Andraste said:depends who is bringing it...
i want you
I am not a bad shag, even if I say so myself
I want you too
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I guess it depends on the situation...
I've been very proud of my orgasms before, and they felt great and filled me with a sense of accomplishment. Usually, it's pretty neutral, if during intercourse.
However, if in the rare instance I'm masturbating while my wife watches me, it's a bit humiliating. It's one thing to be able to bury your face in your partner's neck and moan loudly while you cum, but it's another to simply be sitting there with your cock in your hand making a mess - nothing to hold on to, nothing to comfort you... nothing but someone staring at you as you lose control and grunt and spurt.
That's definitely humiliating, yes.
-- Penguin
I've been very proud of my orgasms before, and they felt great and filled me with a sense of accomplishment. Usually, it's pretty neutral, if during intercourse.
However, if in the rare instance I'm masturbating while my wife watches me, it's a bit humiliating. It's one thing to be able to bury your face in your partner's neck and moan loudly while you cum, but it's another to simply be sitting there with your cock in your hand making a mess - nothing to hold on to, nothing to comfort you... nothing but someone staring at you as you lose control and grunt and spurt.
That's definitely humiliating, yes.
-- Penguin
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Andraste said:
if they r forced they are
stlpenguin said:
Wow I have never heard of it put that way or thought of it that way...in that instance, and Andraste will revel in this, I imagine it would be humilating...but in a strange way thrilling...so now I see why planetqueen and Andraste hold on to that humilation and scay feeling...Its not a bad thing...its what makes their orgasms even more powerful. The thought of losing complete control and wiggling around like an animal humilates them even scares them...but...without it there orgasms would lose meaning to them...
Now Andraste I think I understand...
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Andraste said:
well if you fake to a master/ mistress and he don't punish you .. welll..............................they r not that bad
or at least they r not bad like me 
Absolutely, I do find orgasms humiliating. Not for the other person, but for myself. That is why I always stop myself before I have one. Cant really put it into words, except something about him making me have one makes me want to scream....Just this weird feeling it evokes in me, and that knowing smirk coming from him when he thinks I will have one......uuggg...I dont know, it makes me want to kick him and run...I have never had one in front of anyone before, and hardly in front of myself even, but I can just imagine that knowing smirk.
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missofdarkness said:well if you fake to a master/ mistress and he don't punish you .. welll..............................they r not that bad
funny, everyone thinks they can spot a fake but nobody does.
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Andraste said:
experience is all
but yes many don't 
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Andraste said:yes...but i'm in control of them
Bingo!
I don't personally prefer fake orgasms to real ones except with a partner. I love orgasms, but the vulnerability it requires for me to indulge in one with another person is not something I can submit myself to.
edited to add: I don't set out to fake orgasms. I go in with the hope that I'll be allowed to enjoy myself as I see fit without having to answer the question either bodily or verbally "Did you come?" It doesn't always work out that way and I've lied about it plenty of times. I suppose there's something wrong with me thinking that it's none of his damn business when clearly it IS, but just call me quirky like that.
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