Are women attracted to a large penis.

[Brinnie]

Vote today
Poll: PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: The Real Truth About Size.

 

[muddpuppy]

For me i perfer girth over length by far, my boyfriend wont listen to me though and he's also curious as to what you did to actually get yours bigger??
He's tried the pump (didnt work) he tried some kind of pill (didnt work) he just recently ordered Enzyte (in hopes) so any information you can pass our way would be helpful

 

[wellnow]

For me i perfer girth over length by far,

I think that the above is a "penis size question" truth/given and even for the 90 something percent estimate that someone posted, of women who don't care about penis size.

I've seen that posted so many times that it should be included in a Real Truth About Size forum for all newcomers to read, along with some of the others like the ones from MintSoda that are honest and at the same time humorous.

The section below made me smile. It, too, is classic. We just don't take no for an answer.

I hope everyone is having a great weekend.

wellnow

my boyfriend wont listen to me though and he's also curious as to what you did to actually get yours bigger??
He's tried the pump (didnt work) he tried some kind of pill (didnt work) he just recently ordered Enzyte (in hopes) so any information you can pass our way would be helpful

 

[pupper]

Size is very important. Men with bigger imaginations, deeper thoughts, greater patience, everlasting passion, wide range of knowledge and longer experience make better lovers. And if they will quit reading the penis pump enlarger instructions and read sites like this then they will enlarge their understanding of themselves and their partner so that they will see a significant growth in the pleasures they both give and receive.

Same thing applies to women. Unless of course they are reading the penis pump enlarger instructions and in your case Im sorry if I interrupted you, please just ignore me, forget my name, my real name is Bob, have a good day and last man out the door please double lock it. Run boys run!

I cant add much to the wisdom already expressed on the thread about the intended question. Some very wise observations and thoughts I read. The one important factor I do know is that great sex happens not because of what is between our legs but what is between our ears. Im pretty sure most people dont fully understand the significance of that concept but neither did I at one time. I think I knew it all along but didnt know I knew it. Im still leaning more and more about using whats in our heads to achieve new heights of pleasure that size or technique could never ever alone hope to reach.

Im lucky I guess because I was blessed with a normal or slighty larger than normal size. But I had sex of 20 years before I every knew I was suppose to measure that part of me. Im not sure why or what difference it was suppose to make since I didnt know what was average or where to exchange for one of the correct size. I dont carry a ruler with me to bed but I know for me, and I assume most men, that my hardon size does change an inch or more as arousal and lust levels change. Even if I did take a ruler to bed, if you think Im going to stop right before the big bang then you are crazy.

Us men and our weird insecurities about size, technique, stamina, performance and multiple encore's seem to distract us from the important issues as much as women may be distracted buy boob size, toenail color or new curtains for the bedroom. Its ok to take a serious look at the issues but also laugh at them and ourselves as well.

There are several long term members who have commented about this thread being a rehash of what was discussed many times before. Im new here but no rookie. The learning process happens not just because of reading old threads and listening to words of wisdom of others but by people participating in a discussion. Challenging our minds also broadens them. Besides sometimes out of the mouths of babes comes some wonderful insight and wisdom.

Please take my words with a grain of salt because the more I learn the stupider I find out I am. The more we learn the more we discover how much we dont know. Ignorance is bliss for a reason. Although at least learning about sex, even when I find out Im dumber than I thought I sure do enjoy the lesson.

Man, You really hit the nail onthe head,I read this site and some others just to broaden my minds view and think of new ideas to make my Wife cum all the harder.It is all a mental thing.I too am average sized maybe a tad on the larger,but this has no bearing on how we make love to our partners.The satisfaction of our partner is due to our love for our partner and whether our penis is 5.5 or 7.5 doesn't matter as long as we concentrate on pleasuring and loving our partner our penis size has no bearing.When My wife and I make love Her Pussy Swells and adjusts to my penis

 

[mikeofokc]

Man, You really hit the nail onthe head

Thanks, I guess. But when you say it like that it sort of makes me cringe, my knees buckle, my eyes water and sort of wish I had just kept my mouth shut.

When My wife and I make love Her Pussy Swells and adjusts to my penis

I hope most folks have already realized this about how we adjust to our partners. Besides if a woman can push out a babys head the size coconut, then do you really think that our tiny expansion in girth or width makes much difference. The important factors are our minds and then our technique.

I think most people agree that size really doesnt matter. However, the discussion of size and how our minds understand it does matter. Two experiences that I havnt really seen discussed my shed more light on the subject.

I learned long ago to not go to deep or to hard and hit her cervix. It hurts and thats not what anyone wants. I knew to find the limit and go just so far and not beyond. I dont like getting bucked out of the saddle and trampled on, at least not before the 8 second buzzer goes off. Now some women may not like it touched at all or some may like a little hurt or pressure(I have no idea as to why) or heck some may like it bruised(seek counciling). But something I just recently found out was that a very light touch to it with the penis head or fingers is very pleasing. The cervix is very sensitive so it is a very light touch around the outer portion. A gental rotation around the outer portion induced substational eye rolls and that confusion again between me and God. Realize that every women is different in how deep her cervix is and the realative position it is located in the vagina. Ok, maybe you didnt realize that but not all women are the same. What works for one may not work for another. But its learning our partner, exploring slight variations and finding out what she likes that makes life better and happier for both.

The second item is rather difficult to share. Maybe its a male size ego thing I guess, but here goes complete with disclaimers and no money back guarantees. Please no snickering or cat calls till Im done. Some times us men, yes even us above average chest beating studs, have performance issues. Meaning that stress, blood pressure, medication and other factors limit our erection duration or hardness. I only let this happen to me so I knew how other guys felt(there that works as a good disclaimer to save my ego). Anyway, even when less than fully inflated or even with that wonderful fresh "cold shower" look, she and I have experienced prolong orgasmic pleasures. I was just as bewildered as you may be now wondering what the heck was going on and surely she was faking it or we had been abducted by aliens and we were subjects of their weird sex experimentations again. She was just as tight as if I was at my normal full throbing porn star self and while I knew in my mind I was not hard, we both enjoyed the experience. Its happened several times and normally after we had already had an extended session of play and orgasms. I know your first thought was thats BS, but what male ego would share such experience unless to benefit others. All I am saying is that your bodies respond to our partners and that its not size that really matters but what is happening between our ears.

Ok, back to my padded suite. Yes Im demented but Dementia is two floors up so dont confuse the two. Im not moving there until they get slower nurses or they start giving two sponge baths a day. Also I have two frequent flyer tickets for the next Alien Abduction shuttle if anyone wants them. I dont need to go again, you seen one Outer Limits and you seen them all.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Anyway, even when less than fully inflated or even with that wonderful fresh "cold shower" look, she and I have experienced prolong orgasmic pleasures. I was just as bewildered as you may be now wondering what the heck was going on and surely she was faking it or we had been abducted by aliens and we were subjects of their weird sex experimentations again. She was just as tight as if I was at my normal full throbing porn star self and while I knew in my mind I was not hard, we both enjoyed the experience.

Mike, I'm glad you've had this epiphany and shared it, because it sometimes seems like all these men worrying about their penis size have never actually had any contact with a vagina.

We place tampons in our vaginas and they don't fall out. Ever seen the size of an average tampon? Is your dick bigger than that?

Ever put your finger inside a vagina? It doesn't feel like a big gaping hole, does it? Your finger is enveloped isn't it? Is your dick thicker than your finger?

Men ought to be a LOT more worried about how well they make love to a woman's mind than what size their dicks are.

 

[pupper]

seems like all these men worrying about their penis size have never actually had any contact with a vagina.

Men ought to be a LOT more worried about how well they make love to a woman's mind than what size their dicks are.

LadyJ, My wife says "A man needs to worry about giving his lover an out of body experience"(The alien abduction sex experiment thing,we do that often)all day today as a matter of fact.It's all about loving your partner and your partner loving you a flowing back and forth of pleasure.

 

[collegeguy2050]

I totally agree.

 

[a_ravaged_mom]

Quit WORRYING About It!

My wife thinks a large penis is more important to men than women.I have been on a penis enlargement routine for several years and have slowly increased to my current size of 8.75 inches bpel x 6.5 inches eg.
We are in a long standing relationship,still find each other attractive in many ways,have regular sex and are open and honest with each other.
Do other women share this opinion?.

Intent and technique are by far the most important things! So, relax, experiment, take your time, and just ENJOY!

 

[mikeofokc]

Loving to Fuck with the mind

Mike, I'm glad you've had this epiphany and shared it, because it sometimes seems like all these men worrying about their penis size have never actually had any contact with a vagina.

We place tampons in our vaginas and they don't fall out. Ever seen the size of an average tampon? Is your dick bigger than that?

Ever put your finger inside a vagina? It doesn't feel like a big gaping hole, does it? Your finger is enveloped isn't it? Is your dick thicker than your finger?

Men ought to be a LOT more worried about how well they make love to a woman's mind than what size their dicks are.

Well thanks LadyJeanne, I guess. Being an Okie I had to make sure what the word epiphany meant. Acording to Websters it is an intuitive grasp of reality through something (as an event) usually simple and striking. Im sort of embarrassed now. Next time I will be more discrete before I grasp my simple reality and strike it. Normally I hide in the bushes so no one sees me and I dont scare the neighborhood dogs. Maybe if I hide up in the tree branches I wont be noticed?

I havnt seen the actual tampon but I have had to many times buy the damn box. Im not sure how my dick compares to the actual tampon but it can fit inside the box. Makes a great halloween costume or a way to make the dinner guest finally want to go home.

Yes I have put my finger in a vagina or two or three or... No it wasnt a gaping hole. Yes my finger was enveloped and once or twice I damn near lost total circualation in it. Iv also put two, three or more fingers in a vagina with the same results. I stopped when I got up to my knees last time, thats why us experienced men tie on a 2x4 to us so we wont go all the way in again. I knew one guy that wasnt as lucky, he lost his keys in there and found them real quick but the SUV that they were attached too is still down there somewhere.

Of course your asking about the comparison of the thickness of my finger and dick size smacks of a double standard. I didnt think it mattered. In fact come to think of it, I have never heard a woman ever brag the next morning about how great her man's short skinny dick was the night before. Hmmm, I may never understand the female mind, I hope the alien abductions help out. Well at least Im happy with my dick. It may be short but since it is also so skinny it makes it look longer.

Well, as you notice, I had nothing to do. My womans mind was asleep so I couldnt make love to it. So instead I thought I would fuck with everyone elses head instead. Im pretty sure Im not cheating on her but if I am at least this is safe sex, I hope. Just to careful though we better spray the key boards with Lysol and run a virus check on my hard drive. Please send me your names and address so I can notify you of any risk. I also am not responsible for damages done to your front yard trees nor the cause of the neighbors dog barking itself horse.

 

[gypziedoll]

I agree with you......I always have said it does not matter what size teh tool is, it is how well do you know how to work what you have........levels of intimacy, technique, stamina, and foreplay and after play make up are more important than size........big doesn't always mean better.......

 

[LadyJeanne]

Well thanks LadyJeanne, I guess. Being an Okie I had to make sure what the word epiphany meant. Acording to Websters it is an intuitive grasp of reality through something (as an event) usually simple and striking. Im sort of embarrassed now. Next time I will be more discrete before I grasp my simple reality and strike it. Normally I hide in the bushes so no one sees me and I dont scare the neighborhood dogs. Maybe if I hide up in the tree branches I wont be noticed?

I havnt seen the actual tampon but I have had to many times buy the damn box. Im not sure how my dick compares to the actual tampon but it can fit inside the box. Makes a great halloween costume or a way to make the dinner guest finally want to go home.

Yes I have put my finger in a vagina or two or three or... No it wasnt a gaping hole. Yes my finger was enveloped and once or twice I damn near lost total circualation in it. Iv also put two, three or more fingers in a vagina with the same results. I stopped when I got up to my knees last time, thats why us experienced men tie on a 2x4 to us so we wont go all the way in again. I knew one guy that wasnt as lucky, he lost his keys in there and found them real quick but the SUV that they were attached too is still down there somewhere.

Of course your asking about the comparison of the thickness of my finger and dick size smacks of a double standard. I didnt think it mattered. In fact come to think of it, I have never heard a woman ever brag the next morning about how great her man's short skinny dick was the night before. Hmmm, I may never understand the female mind, I hope the alien abductions help out. Well at least Im happy with my dick. It may be short but since it is also so skinny it makes it look longer.

Well, as you notice, I had nothing to do. My womans mind was asleep so I couldnt make love to it. So instead I thought I would fuck with everyone elses head instead. Im pretty sure Im not cheating on her but if I am at least this is safe sex, I hope. Just to careful though we better spray the key boards with Lysol and run a virus check on my hard drive. Please send me your names and address so I can notify you of any risk. I also am not responsible for damages done to your front yard trees nor the cause of the neighbors dog barking itself horse.

ROFL!



Something tells me you satisfy your wife's mind quite well.

 

[Macdaddy23]

basicly girth

 

[Leeleigh]

Well thanks LadyJeanne, I guess. Being an Okie I had to make sure what the word epiphany meant. Acording to Websters it is an intuitive grasp of reality through something (as an event) usually simple and striking. Im sort of embarrassed now. Next time I will be more discrete before I grasp my simple reality and strike it. Normally I hide in the bushes so no one sees me and I dont scare the neighborhood dogs. Maybe if I hide up in the tree branches I wont be noticed?

I havnt seen the actual tampon but I have had to many times buy the damn box. Im not sure how my dick compares to the actual tampon but it can fit inside the box. Makes a great halloween costume or a way to make the dinner guest finally want to go home.

Yes I have put my finger in a vagina or two or three or... No it wasnt a gaping hole. Yes my finger was enveloped and once or twice I damn near lost total circualation in it. Iv also put two, three or more fingers in a vagina with the same results. I stopped when I got up to my knees last time, thats why us experienced men tie on a 2x4 to us so we wont go all the way in again. I knew one guy that wasnt as lucky, he lost his keys in there and found them real quick but the SUV that they were attached too is still down there somewhere.

Of course your asking about the comparison of the thickness of my finger and dick size smacks of a double standard. I didnt think it mattered. In fact come to think of it, I have never heard a woman ever brag the next morning about how great her man's short skinny dick was the night before. Hmmm, I may never understand the female mind, I hope the alien abductions help out. Well at least Im happy with my dick. It may be short but since it is also so skinny it makes it look longer.

Well, as you notice, I had nothing to do. My womans mind was asleep so I couldnt make love to it. So instead I thought I would fuck with everyone elses head instead. Im pretty sure Im not cheating on her but if I am at least this is safe sex, I hope. Just to careful though we better spray the key boards with Lysol and run a virus check on my hard drive. Please send me your names and address so I can notify you of any risk. I also am not responsible for damages done to your front yard trees nor the cause of the neighbors dog barking itself horse.

I have to agree with several of the ladies here. Size does not matter. You could have a huge cock, but it you don't make the right connections you are not going to please the lady. In my case I never had children and therefore tend to be rather tight. I can have a problem with a well hung man. I have to have a man who is willing to indulge in ALOT of foreplay, and I don't necessarily mean his tongue stuck inside my vagina for long periods of time, but also soft carasses, sweet talk, gentle kisses, playful bites, little squeezes... you get the idea.

But remember, there are woman who are only going to want nothing but big cocks cause that is the only way they can get off.

 

[zerimar1231]

My wife thinks a large penis is more important to men than women.

Your wife is very wise. I think everyone is different, but like the saying goes: it's not the size that matters it's how you use it. To me, a big penis is not needed. My bf has been blessed but i wouldn't have been turned off if he were smaller.

 

[CoyoteTales]

I think it's the wrong question. Don't ask if women are attracted to a large penis. Ask if your girlfriend is attracted to your penis. If so, then that's all that matters. Unless, of course, you want to attract more than one woman.

Amen to that thinking. Because deep down (pun not intended) I don't -want- someone who is either going to be looking for a larger sum of parts, or is going to get hurt when we have sex. I just want someone who'll be happy with what I've got to offer rather than dismayed with what I have.

Those of you men who might want a bigger set of block and tackle have clearly never felt the guilt of someone telling you that you were a little hard to handle and they've been sore for two days.

And here's a bigger (again, pun not intended) hint that I've yet to see pop up in this particular recurring question: It's not just -how- you use it, but -when- you use it. I can tell you from personal experience that the more enjoyable the foreplay is, the larger your dick gets. Simple biology -- more blood to the bits equals larger capacity. It might not look like much of an increase, but there's a noticeable difference between 'just hard' and 'almost painfully erect'.

IMHO, no matter what size you are, there will always be someone bigger out there, and there will always be someone smaller out there. There will always be someone less sexually experienced; there will always be someone more sexually into the kinks you aren't. You 'get bigger' the same way you 'get taller' to your relatives; learn confidence and poise. Don't think to ask if you are 'big enough' -- learn to ask if what you did was 'enjoyable.' And if the answer is 'no', ask what YOU can do to make it better next time -- and then be prepared to listen. Because when you receive that answer, and it's anything but 'You can't. Your dick isn't big enough,' that means that whoever that is is -willing to give you room to grow-. Pun intended. In other words:

What matters most is whether or not your partner wants the same things out of you that you want to/are able to give them.

IMHO: Self-security is being a guy who can say 'no' to sex when he doesn't currently have a steady relationship.

-CT

 

[shlock]

That was well enough said that... I have nothing to add...

Amen to that thinking. Because deep down (pun not intended) I don't -want- someone who is either going to be looking for a larger sum of parts, or is going to get hurt when we have sex. I just want someone who'll be happy with what I've got to offer rather than dismayed with what I have.

Those of you men who might want a bigger set of block and tackle have clearly never felt the guilt of someone telling you that you were a little hard to handle and they've been sore for two days.

And here's a bigger (again, pun not intended) hint that I've yet to see pop up in this particular recurring question: It's not just -how- you use it, but -when- you use it. I can tell you from personal experience that the more enjoyable the foreplay is, the larger your dick gets. Simple biology -- more blood to the bits equals larger capacity. It might not look like much of an increase, but there's a noticeable difference between 'just hard' and 'almost painfully erect'.

IMHO, no matter what size you are, there will always be someone bigger out there, and there will always be someone smaller out there. There will always be someone less sexually experienced; there will always be someone more sexually into the kinks you aren't. You 'get bigger' the same way you 'get taller' to your relatives; learn confidence and poise. Don't think to ask if you are 'big enough' -- learn to ask if what you did was 'enjoyable.' And if the answer is 'no', ask what YOU can do to make it better next time -- and then be prepared to listen. Because when you receive that answer, and it's anything but 'You can't. Your dick isn't big enough,' that means that whoever that is is -willing to give you room to grow-. Pun intended. In other words:

What matters most is whether or not your partner wants the same things out of you that you want to/are able to give them.

IMHO: Self-security is being a guy who can say 'no' to sex when he doesn't currently have a steady relationship.

-CT

 

[Guybrush]

I've talked openly with my girlfriend about my insecurity about my size. I'm about a 4.5in., which as far as my guy mind interprets it, is about two penis Eiffel Towers too short. I have never desired to be huge, or even big. I would be completely satisfied if I could pull that extra half inch out of my hat, just so I would know for certain that if the whole experience went wrong, it's what I'm doing rather than Napoleon's unfortunate reality.

Still, after reading this, I think my fears have finally been put to rest. Being a virgin still, and small, I was really afraid of not being able to measure up. My girlfriend says that my size is all she's really had, and even smaller, and was able to get just as much enjoyment out of it. I don't know if I believe her or not, but all I do know is that I just want to be able to please the most important woman in my life just as well physically as I do mentally.

I think what comforted me most was the comments about the "big gaping vagina hole." *laugh* I lack the experience to be able to testify on such things, but after lurking here for years, I trust the people on this board to be more sincere than about anywhere else I've been.

In any case, thanks for settling my mind, intentionally or not. I think now I can concentrate on making do with what I have, and making her feel good, rather than be hesitant from wondering if Napoleon wasn't dissimilar from a baseball going through a basketball hoop.

 

[Eilan]

I think what comforted me most was the comments about the "big gaping vagina hole." *laugh* I lack the experience to be able to testify on such things, but after lurking here for years, I trust the people on this board to be more sincere than about anywhere else I've been.

That's funny! I'm not sure that I would allow myself to have sex with someone who assumed that my vagina was a huge, gaping maw.

Look on the bright side: average to small dicks are wonderful for deep-throating and anal. Call me a bad sport, but there's no way I'd let Yard-O-Beef anywhere NEAR my ass!

 

[greenffingers]

My wife thinks a large penis is more important to men than women.I have been on a penis enlargement routine for several years and have slowly increased to my current size of 8.75 inches bpel x 6.5 inches eg.
We are in a long standing relationship,still find each other attractive in many ways,have regular sex and are open and honest with each other.
Do other women share this opinion?.

Man's view:


Maybe it depends who it's attached to?

 

[wellnow]

Man's view:


Maybe it depends who it's attached to?

greenffingers, I agree completely. In my experience, "who it's attached to", has been far more important than a large penis to most women that I have had relationships with. The times that I have been completely rejected because of my size have all been during foreplay before having sex for the first time together when she has wanted to "check me out" IMO and before giving me the opportunity to go down on her. Other than those cases, I've never really had a problem although many of the women that I've had relationships with do miss the thickness that I don't have so I substitute toys and try to be sure that they have multiple orgasms.

wellnow

 

[Miss Trixie]

i think it does matter more to men. i've been with some smaller men who did wonders for me, and also i'm a pretty tiny girl so the one overly large guy i was with was more painfull than anything else.

 

[rcuhljr]

Excellent topic, possibly the best covering of the topic I've ever raid. (and being in the smaller club I've looked ). Well written opinions and carefully thought out idea's really set this thread apart. /bravo

 

[HornyHenry]

"Blessed"

Your wife is very wise. I think everyone is different, but like the saying goes: it's not the size that matters it's how you use it. To me, a big penis is not needed. My bf has been blessed but i wouldn't have been turned off if he were smaller.

This has bothered me for a while and I wanted to say something about it.
This, and I believe, at least another post, refers to the man as being "Blessed", meaning larger than average.
Blessed, meaning God "Blessed" him with something more satisfying to women than those smaller, non-blessed men.
And you would rather have him to be "Blessed" than not, right?
This is not an attack. Only pointing out that what people say and what they really desire may be separate things.

I had an old GF who had a "Gaping hole", which she said was from her Ex being overly "Blessed". She was dry too so it was just as well that it was huge. lol

 

[Silkie Butterfly]

Women like big dicks just like men like big tits. If you want to go further into evolution it might be that the bigger is primally more attractive because it is the better of the species; or the one that will ensure better repoduction.

This is Soooo not true, studies have found that men with bigger penus's have further to travel for the sperm and they lose many on the way. Trying to have a baby with man who is bigger as opposed to not really tryin with a smaller man, I found that the bigger they are the longer it takes for a sperm to actually make the journey. Also you'll find that the majority of ppl who need assistance in invitro fertilization tend to realistically include a larger portion of well endowed men who are finding it difficult to impregnate their wives. Larger men need more stimulation to cum as hard as smaller men who can easily enter just about any woman with now complications.

In all reality, all men work pretty much the same, but bigger men might take a bit longer to accomplish that baby making goal. Though some have no problem at all. I just think that to say bigger men reproduce more or faster is a highly miscalculated perception.

As to the topic at hand...I prefer a man who knows what he's doing and looks for my signals over size any day of the week.