Are women attracted to a large penis.

[wellnow]

This has bothered me for a while and I wanted to say something about it.
This, and I believe, at least another post, refers to the man as being "Blessed", meaning larger than average.
Blessed, meaning God "Blessed" him with something more satisfying to women than those smaller, non-blessed men.
And you would rather have him to be "Blessed" than not, right?
This is not an attack. Only pointing out that what people say and what they really desire may be separate things.

I had an old GF who had a "Gaping hole", which she said was from her Ex being overly "Blessed". She was dry too so it was just as well that it was huge. lol

I think that the quicker the above and similar comments from other forums that we are seeing as contradictory are understood, the better. It would appear that all of us with small cocks are masochists who want to hear women confirm our suspicions that a small cock is totally useless to them in addition to not being aesthetic, sexy, and every other uncomplimentary adjective that you can think of. That would seem to be the only way that we can be happy.

What I am understanding from the patient and honest comments from the ladies of Lit in this thread, is that a small cock isn't normally a show stopper in itself but our attitude about it could very well be.

Thank goodness, we are made up of far more than just a penis. Penis size is only one item on a ladies list of preferences although priorities will vary from lady to lady as it does with men on bust size, hair color, ass, pussy size and shape, etc. As an example, I always had a thing for a chubby, well-rounded, tight pussy with thick, red pubic hair. My wife has none of these attributes and I couldn't love her more because of attributes that were not even on my list when I met her and I have absolutely NO regrets and wouldn't exchange her for anyone. For me, our sex is great, even though she really can't feel my 4X4in cock in her at all, but by the time we get to penetration, we have used kissing, hands, fingers, oral, toys, etc. so it isn't that important. I certainly enjoy it, and think that she does.

Ladies, is the above more or less correct?

P.S. HornyHenry, I actually, have enjoyed many what you might call "Gaping holes" in the past and believe me they were never a show stoppers either. I enjoyed each and every one even with my miniature cock and I did my best to be sure that they did, too.

 

[drforever]

Bigger not better

The average is around 6 inches, which is the ideal. If it was evolutionary advangtegous to be bigger, than the human male would have a larger penis. The fact that the average isn't larger than it is would seem to indicate that a larger penis is _less_ likely to father children who themselves have children.

 

[rthnck]

I wonder what bpel and eg mean?

bpel = bone pressed erected length
eg = erected girth

 

[Eilan]

The other day, I was walking down the street and I saw this large penis walking toward me. I was attracted to it.

 

[eudaemonia]

I only opened this to see what Eilan would say.

 

[liberatedslave]

Personally I'm quite petite and in the past have found a couple of guys too large for comfort. It really is true because if a guy is large enough to hurt you neither of you can ever really let go during sex.

I've also had a couple of partners who are smaller than average (yes I really am such a slut I can give a considered opinion on most sizes ) and with them I found 3 things to be true: -
1) Smaller men are able to fuck away happily in any position without worrying that they're going too deep for her comfort.
2) They give fantastic head and generally make more of an effort for the woman's pleasure.
3) They love anal because it's nice and tight for them.

All of these are positive attributes as far as I'm concerned. My Sir I'd say is about 5 inches but quite wide and I have found him more than satisfying for me. Anything above about 6 inches I find uncomfortable and in some positions my Sir does go deep enough to cause me the most exquisite pain.

So smaller guys should find themselves a petite anal slut IMHO

 

[lushlucid]

I've only had the one. And neither of us have measured but i'd say he's about 6 or so (16 cms maybe?)
At first i was a bit like oh is that it but the more i played with him the more i like him, im very happy with his size, and he occasionally hits my cervix as is so if he were any bigger it would be uncomfortable, the only thing i would maybe sometimes want is a bit more girth.. just when i get so wet and we've been going for a while i would like a bit more to sit on

but mmmyes cock
lovely
hehe
and he's a grower not a shower.

I wouldn't mind trying a bigger one but there's defintely more to sex than size and i think men think about it much more than women.

 

[DrHappy]

The average is around 6 inches, which is the ideal. If it was evolutionary advangtegous to be bigger, than the human male would have a larger penis. The fact that the average isn't larger than it is would seem to indicate that a larger penis is _less_ likely to father children who themselves have children.

I'm often wondered about this as well. In the ancient times when people were naked, women could see a guy's penis as he walked by. Now, they came only see what kind of car he drives

he occasionally hits my cervix as is so if he were any bigger it would be uncomfortable

I've always wondered whether the super long guys in porn were ever to fully penetrate women without causing discomfort. That would be sad because I LOVE the feeling of being all the way inside. I'm about average and I'm typically just pressing against the cervix when I'm all the way in. Certain deep positions are uncomfortable for her if I thrust forcefully. My wife loves having me grind against her clit when I'm inside, so anything longer wouldn't work very well for her.

Has anyone else had good luck with shallow thrusting g-spot techniques? These could work well with a short penis. I can pull out so that the tip slides almost completely out, and then make shallow thrusts at an upward angle (into the g-spot). The first inch of the vagina (the most sensitive part) gets lots of stimulation as the tip completely slides in and out, while the g-spot also gets targeted stimulation. The requires lots of lubrication but really sets off my wife. I could simultaneously grind against her clit if me penis was shorter, though we can make due with fingers or a vibrator.

 

[christabelll]

Okay - for me there is a dichotomy with this -
On the one hand nicely formed penis's with an owner who knows how to use it are marvelous.
Knowing how to use it is KEY -
ON the other hand... the pressure - the mass of a larger cock are incredible too...

I don't have a cervix anymore - but I didn't mind if it got bumped or not - Sometimes though it was not pleasurable and my partner and I switched up.

I just got this toy - as my sex life is nill these days - its a monster LOLOL
I really wasn't expecting it to be so big around...

I cant put it in my mouth its so big...
BUT - damn - just having it inside - not moving so much as just being massively filled, while I diddled myself.... I came soooo hard -

So its about pressure in something so big...not movement.... solid steady pressure....

Give me a well versed normal to longer and I am one happy camper

TMI I know but hey its my opine...

 

[Mazuri]

Has anyone else had good luck with shallow thrusting g-spot techniques?

OMG yes! If we're tired and just want a quickie, this is the best way to get me there without taking forever.

 

[pace_purr]

My wife is okay with MY average sized cock but when we have a threesome with another guy she wants him to be really well endowed (the bigger the better). We met one guy with 11" and she just couldn't get enough of him two minutes after he would walk in the door she would be creaming her pants, thats if she was wearing any.

 

[lushlucid]

Okay - for me there is a dichotomy with this -
On the one hand nicely formed penis's with an owner who knows how to use it are marvelous.
Knowing how to use it is KEY -
ON the other hand... the pressure - the mass of a larger cock are incredible too...

I don't have a cervix anymore - but I didn't mind if it got bumped or not - Sometimes though it was not pleasurable and my partner and I switched up.

I just got this toy - as my sex life is nill these days - its a monster LOLOL
I really wasn't expecting it to be so big around...

I cant put it in my mouth its so big...
BUT - damn - just having it inside - not moving so much as just being massively filled, while I diddled myself.... I came soooo hard -

So its about pressure in something so big...not movement.... solid steady pressure....

Give me a well versed normal to longer and I am one happy camper

TMI I know but hey its my opine...

It's a bit of a catch 22 really, men like to be stroked and women like to be filled and diddles =P

 

[wellnow]

I just happened on this old revived thread and am pleasantly surprised and the more open attitude, IIRC, from the original answers.

liberatedslave, your experience shows. Thanks.

lushlucid, my wife would probably post something very similar to yours. The honesty is great.

christabelll, I found your post very sexy, visualizing you with your large toy, honest and probably a very prevalent opinion although seldom voiced.

Mazuri, Just curious, in what position do you find more effective to accomplish a quick and satisfying g-spot orgasm?

pace_purr, my wife and I have considered finding a guy with a big cock but that is all. It is a great as a turn-on. I'm wondering if there have there been any negative after affects from your threesomes or would you recommend that we go for it?

Of course we can't forget MintSoda's answer in the original thread from about 2 years ago:

"if you're wondering if your 4" is going to cut it stop wondering, it won't... "

and

"Everytime a guy bruises your cervix you should be allowed to punch him in the balls. It really is only fair. If that rule was in place how many guys do you think would still be wanting an overly large penis? Probably still all of them, they'd just start complaining that they wanted smaller balls."

Clarify that extremes are bad.

Have a great week,

Wellnow

 

[msjuicypussy]

Yes. Orally I like to lick it like an ice cream cone and suck on the head while I massage the shaft with both hands

 

[rachel90211]

Me - No. I like 5-8 inches. If a guys know what he's doing that is 5" vs. a guy that is 10" that doesn't, I'll take the lover rather the fucker anyday.

 

[foothillsncm]

just wandering what techniques he done to make his bigger....first post....

 

[evenyc]

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[_Virginia_]

My wife thinks a large penis is more important to men than women.I have been on a penis enlargement routine for several years and have slowly increased to my current size of 8.75 inches bpel x 6.5 inches eg.
We are in a long standing relationship,still find each other attractive in many ways,have regular sex and are open and honest with each other.
Do other women share this opinion?.

I completely agree with your wife.

 

[Hiliburn]

Of course men are more obsessed with their size than women. But really, just like everything that comes with sex, it is all about preference. What you like and what you want. One thing that seems to be ignored a bit in this never ending debate is the size of the woman. Some of us are not as large as others. As hubby so colourfully stated, some women are like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. I imagine others would cringe as a relatively small penis stretches them. In my girly-fairly-tale-mind I like to tell my hubby we fit together perfectly,lol. He is average length, above average girth- and he often complains that I am too tight. But I'll keep my kegels anyway, lol

 

[sweetnpetite]

I know a guy who is about 7 inches, at his biggest. And I know some people who've had sex with him. They like it overall, but sometimes it hurts and not in a good way. Any bigger and they wouldn't like it at all I think. For general usage, I think 6-7 inches is optimal. 9 might be fun to check out and test drive, but it would probably get to be too much.

Than again, it depends on the girl.