Are you dominant or submissive

I'm truly a total sub. Having a guy use me anyway he wants is my desire. Wearing a cock cage while he uses me is heaven.
 
Are you dominant or submissive?

Here's a recipe for my love.

Take a cup full of Dom.
Add a touch of sub.
Sprinkle on some sadism.
And a little bit of madness.
One slave.
And a whole lot of loving.

Bake for half an hour and enjoy!

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100% switch!
Meaning that I thoroughly enjoy both sides. But physical aspect only, no degradation/humiliation for me - I respect myself and my partner too much to take it seriously.

Played Dom side with humiliation aspect couple times in chats, did not like it at all. Judging by the feedback, I was rather good at it, but I did not feel any satisfaction on my end at all. It was with much younger men and my main feeling was "How do I show him that this is not right? That he is no less worth than everybody else, no matter what size his cock is and what underwear he likes to wear? Aaaaa! He needs help as soon as possible!!!" So no, sicological dominance (or submission, for that matter) is definitly not for me.

I agree about the humiliation aspect. I prefer to be in control, but never would degrade my sub in public or private.
 
Submissive, I enjoy it when a guy tells me what he wants and when he makes the decisions on everything from what restaurant, entertainment venue or how he wants me to dress and etcettera.
 
Why are there so many submissive women on here? I am asking in a serious case study kinda way. This thread just seems to be flooded with them.
 
Why are there so many submissive women on here? I am asking in a serious case study kinda way. This thread just seems to be flooded with them.

I wouldn't know. I was one of those who answered, though a while ago. I can only say it's kind of my natural instinct with my (white) male partners.
 
I wouldn't know. I was one of those who answered, though a while ago. I can only say it's kind of my natural instinct with my (white) male partners.

I am defiantly a swing. Very much about what I need at the moment. Makes you learn to pay more attention to your psych I have noticed. I just don't get always being subservient to anyone. No knocking it, just a lack of understanding.
 
I am submissive husband to a dominant wife. Over the past 10 years she has become more dominant in the bedroom and everyday life. I absolutely love doing anything she wants and concentrating on her pleasure over mine.
 
I'd have to say that I'm submissive. Haven't really explored it with anyone but my husband, so I guess I don't know for sure 100%
 
I am submissive but wasn't originally.

It took a large life change for me to make the full transition. I was trained to be dominant ages ago. I was for a long time. I ignored my bi tendencies and submissive desires until my wife of now 15 years had a heart attack. Between that and diabetes, her sex drive became next to non-existent.

Recognizing that my libido had not changed and knowing I am not the type to cheat, we came to an agreement. I gave her control of my sexuality. It has evolved into me being her panty slut. She controls every aspect. I serve her needs, perform tasks for her quietly, (as we have a teen at home and must maintain decorum). She teases me in public, giving me permission to look at and fantasize over both men and women. And she lets me explore my needs in bed, even encouraging me to use plugs. She can't physically peg me, but she has me play with toys on command. I've even achieved cumming on command. It is an exciting, sometimes frightening exploration.
 
Originally Posted by Misshotndeep
Why are there so many submissive women on here? I am asking in a serious case study kinda way. This thread just seems to be flooded with them.

I wouldn't know. I was one of those who answered, though a while ago. I can only say it's kind of my natural instinct with my (white) male partners.

I'm the same, it feels a part of me, like the colour of my eyes.
 
I like both but i love the thought of submitting to a superior cock, while it services my wife and maybe even me
 
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