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Are you dominant or submissive

Most of the time I am submissive. I've never tried being Dominant. I'm deeply shy, but I could always try if I put my mind to it.
 
It seems submission is my kink.

Learning to let go and submit completely is a strange feeling and a journey.

One step at a time and day by day under his direction.
 
After doing a lot of reading here, it seems like dom and sub are opposite ends of a spectrum with people falling all over the place in between and their positions may change day by day. My wife and I are just starting to explore this lifestyle with no real experience. Labels will be somewhat meaningless until we do get some experience. I guess the key is to find things we enjoy and worry about labels later.
 
phil1955 said:
After doing a lot of reading here, it seems like dom and sub are opposite ends of a spectrum with people falling all over the place in between and their positions may change day by day. My wife and I are just starting to explore this lifestyle with no real experience. Labels will be somewhat meaningless until we do get some experience. I guess the key is to find things we enjoy and worry about labels later.
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Yeah. I wouldn't worry too much about lablels.
 
I am definitely dominant. I used to think when I was younger that I was a switch but after enough attempts at submitting I finally realized that it wasn’t working for me.
 
Just an observation. As a couple starting to explore these concepts, we find it difficult to take our partner seriously in the dom or sub role. Part of this is that neither of us is truly dom or sub and are playing roles. The other part is that it is difficult to ignore 37 years of observed behavior. That said, it is still fun to try some new things and enjoy new sensual experiences even if they are not according to the book.
 
Much more into B&D and SM than D/S, out of BDSM.

Mostly a bottom, can top, can be convinced to submit to a worthy person, have also been known to be dominant...
 
phil1955 said:
Just an observation. As a couple starting to explore these concepts, we find it difficult to take our partner seriously in the dom or sub role. Part of this is that neither of us is truly dom or sub and are playing roles. The other part is that it is difficult to ignore 37 years of observed behavior. That said, it is still fun to try some new things and enjoy new sensual experiences even if they are not according to the book.
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Trying stuff, and failing sometimes, is what got us off the boring weekly (monthly at best) sex train, and back into having a fun sex life. Yeah, sometimes it just got weird, and we just had a good laugh. We wrap in household duties, and doing errands and favors for each other aside from what goes on in the bedroom. At times one or the other gets very used to asking for what they want, and getting it.
 
I'm submissive by nature, but enjoy switching occasionally.

I'm a complicated sub; I am not the kind of sub to answer to demands or be under the control of a master.
 
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