Are you dominant or submissive

I’ve always thought that I was a sub. According to my test results I’m a switch. Can’t imagine myself even trying to dominate anyone though
 
I’ve always thought that I was a sub. According to my test results I’m a switch. Can’t imagine myself even trying to dominate anyone though

Not always about dominating someone. Sometimes it's more about controlling the outcome to get what you want. Not letting them cum just yet because you're still enjoying the moment,so you change positions to make that happen.
 
I would say now that I am a submissive, maybe a switch when whith the right person at the right time. It has been quite the journey to come to this discovery. Though I think at heart I always had submissive tendencies, I never recognised them as such. It was trough reading stories in the BDSM cathegory here on Lit that I slowly discoverd that my gaining pleasure from pleasing, and my need to know my partner was enjoying herself came from a kind of submissiveness I like to think of as being a service sub. I am not a fan of humiliation and don't think of myself as a feminine guy. (Which of course is not meant as a slight to those who do, please enjoy yourself, it's just not me.)
O do get an unreasonable amount of joy from being praised and being called a god boy, especially with a hand in my hair.
Love you all,

Thom
 
Switch sort of

Naturally I am submissive but some relationships require a more dominating personality. I have been with people that do not rise to the occasion and leave much to be desired. I relish a dominant that knows what she/he is doing.
 
Mostly a Dom, but I can switch for the right partner.

I am told I have a heavy Daddy Dom vibe, but it isn't something I was trying for.

I definitely prefer to tie knots rather than be tied.
 
I Stand My Ground At First

On the outside I try being dominant, I can get really hot headed and pissed at times, then when I get pissed you'll hear every swear word in the book. But then later on after I'm calmed down I start having these submissive fantasies that get me off, and think of submitting to that person. Like when I us to get into a argument with a former co-worker guy. Later I'd think back of how pissed I was, then think of that guy making me get on my knees and suck his cock. Or with my wife, having fantasies of my wife spanking me over her knees for rising my voice to her. I don't totally understand it, how I can get so pissed, or not like someone, but then be their submissive bitch in my fantasy world. I think MAN! if these people I'm thinking about ever knew this, about my secret submissive thoughts.
 
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