Are you dominant or submissive

Dom or sub? Switch, i guess

i am complete Alpha daily, but fanaticize about being sub to a mature, dominant female. In my fantasy she puts me in panties and is nurturing and guiding, rather than any humiliation. She takes care of me, and i'm relieved of any decision making or responsibility. i am very obedient....like a good boy. : ) Haven't acted on any of this in RL, but my imagination runs wild here on LIT thinking of the possibilities...!

Mmmmm.....my panties are getting tight in the front right now, just thinking of it!
 
Switch

I am always submisive to my husband but am 50/50 with women and have been domnant with a couple of men in our relationships.
 
Challenging Question

In fantasy i"m much more submissive than dominant. When I'm in bed, I tend to engineer a more dominant side, but am not aggressive to my dominant approach to sex. It must be mutually desired.
 
Deeply submissive with a lean towards gimp/pet. Situational context is everything.
I almost want to be dehumanized and invisible. A piece of furniture even, there, but unremarkable.
 
Deeply submissive with a lean towards gimp/pet. Situational context is everything.
I almost want to be dehumanized and invisible. A piece of furniture even, there, but unremarkable.

I'll say it, having been a bull (cuck not present).

I don't get this one. I get being passive, being a sub who let's the Dom order or do what they want, but wanting to be dehumanized?

Is this for your nut? Does seeing someone give her what you can't get it going for you?

I apologize if I am out of line, but I don't get the desire to be degraded.
 
I'll say it, having been a bull (cuck not present).

I don't get this one. I get being passive, being a sub who let's the Dom order or do what they want, but wanting to be dehumanized?

Is this for your nut? Does seeing someone give her what you can't get it going for you?

I apologize if I am out of line, but I don't get the desire to be degraded.

I understand and dont find your questions out of line. Degradation, for me at least, is a complex kink. I really cannot articulate why I love the feelings that I have, of being debased, and made low, but it just is wonderful.
Perhaps it plays into a my need for humility. Im always thinking about the why behind the things I like. :)
Sorry to derail this thread.
 
I understand and dont find your questions out of line. Degradation, for me at least, is a complex kink. I really cannot articulate why I love the feelings that I have, of being debased, and made low, but it just is wonderful.
Perhaps it plays into a my need for humility. Im always thinking about the why behind the things I like. :)
Sorry to derail this thread.

Hardly derailed.
Thank you.
 
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