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Are you dominant or submissive

I am switch. I am usually, and naturally dominant but I have really enjoyed giving up control the few times the opportunity has presented itself. There is something oddly freeing and empowering (if that make sense) in submitting to a Dominant.
 
I thought I answered this, but I don't think I have as of yet.

I'm submissive, definitely. This is something I noticed about myself within the last year and half.
 
I'm a switch, prefer to be submissive but do quite often like to be in control too. I do love that my partner knows that I prefer to submit and will tease me when she dominates me with stuff like "I bet you felt all powerful being dominant the other day but we both know I let you do that, you're actually just my little slut".
 
Accidental Daddy Dom?

It was was my partners wanted and it came very naturally for me.

I have been a bondage Dom for a long time, but mostly so I can pleasure my partner better.
 
If you knew me you would never expect me to be submissive, but on the inside that's all that gets me off. I can be the loud bitching complaining month, but some guy would get me to my knees to submit and show me what my bitching mouth is really for. Then he'd laugh seeing a tent in my jeans, and this bitch moaning.
 
Try to be balanced

I'm usually on top. I did have a girlfriend in college who would tackle and pin me. She was rough and definitely dominant at sex. My first anal was with her. She, of course, made me have anal before she let me give her anal. I also had a buddy, we didn't date, but had a spanking relationship for about a month one summer in college. I was the one who started the spanking, but he became dominant and would sit across my bare bottom while he spanked me, and then would move on to spanking me with a belt. I cringed getting whipped by his belt, but also never told him to stop.
 
I'm a Switch!

Recently learned I have a strong subby side after being very dominant all my life. Excited to explore.
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Dominant for the next few months at least.

I spent years being attempting to be submissive. It's not easy to submit to someone who doesn't want to be very dominant. Bob told be early on I didn't gave a dominant bone in my body.
Then I ended up in 2 senerios that went too far because once I checked into subspace deeper than he realized and once because I didn't have a safeword. (I didn't think I needed to establish one because I would do anything Bob wanted, and Bob is relatively vanilla with no intention of playing hard enough to need one.)

So I spent a long time in relative vanilla sex land. Then we evolved as a couple. Enjoyed opening up and sharing fantasies. I started "submitting " to a more dominant role, because Bob wanted it a little at a time. It was a very slow process. Except now I really enjoy pushing Bob's limits and Bob is nervous by my enjoyment of my new role.

And I am getting my kicks from keeping Bob a little nervous.
 
I thought I was on the dominant side until recently when I was seduced by a black guy and made his slave. Now I'm totally submissive and do as I'm told without question.
 
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