Are you dominant or submissive

[TheLazyLady]

i tend more towards the submissive side(with limits) and prefer my man to take the charge

 

[emme8]

I naturally lean to sub, but my wife is too and wants me to 'take control' more... Tips?

Think of it as topping from the bottom the first few times. See what you think. See what her reaction does for you.

 

[TempSpawn]

Think of it as topping from the bottom the first few times. See what you think. See what her reaction does for you.

Ah, a good way to look at it thanks..

 

[emme8]

You know what she wants and needs more than anyone else.

 

[emme8]

Also when you do this for her it may inspire her to return the favor

 

[TempSpawn]

You know what she wants and needs more than anyone else.

Despite being together for a while, she's still pretty reserved. But we're getting there.

Also when you do this for her it may inspire her to return the favor

That would be the ideal outcome.

 

[MrRandyWatson]

I am a man and I am sub to women. Very, very sub and want to be trained to accept merciless domination.

 

[Islander55]

I don't think I am either. I have read a lot here on Lit and do not see myself as either Dom or sub. I can be bossy and am not afraid to tell a guy what I want or like but do not see that as being dominant. At times I like the guy to take charge and will encourage him to take me for his pleasure but this is more about my pleasure than his. I guess I can wobble a bit to either side but do not think I would be good for a true Dom or sub.

 

[simplylovelypoet]

Switch with submissive tendencies.

 

[Umanual]

A good question with some complexity for me,..I am dominant when with a gal and submissive when enjoying sex with men. That said, I do enjoy my wife taking charge occasionally when we play with others, mfm, mmf , she is a good loving wife...

 

[Lil_Lindsay]

Whenever its come to men I am 100% the submissive partner, but I've definitely had threesome fantasies. MMF I'd imagine I'd still be submissive but if it was a FMF I could see myself being in the middle? I'm not sure what you'd call it...

 

[saintcero]

Sub and growing more submissive by the day. I would love to place myself into a Dom’s hands be it a male or a Dominatrix.

 

[Bbwdlutlove]

Submissive, it’s not a role but innately who I am

 

[petes478]

I tend to be more on the submissive side.

Dominant and sadist

 

[UseMePlease40]

very submissive bi male

 

[Anonymity34]

Very submissive pain slut

 

[FunLuvinDesiWife]

Sub in bed!
Dom in life!

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Yes. Lol
You can probably tell by my name. I’m bit of both. Some see me as more dominant. Others see me more submissive. Either way I’m just me.

 

[txblush]

I consider myself a dominant bottom and thank Stella Omega for her explanation on labels.

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

Whenever its come to men I am 100% the submissive partner, but I've definitely had threesome fantasies. MMF I'd imagine I'd still be submissive but if it was a FMF I could see myself being in the middle? I'm not sure what you'd call it...

Could be simply submissive with males and Dominant with females/women

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

I'd say Dominant myself

 

[Nudisterica32]

Submissive always have been

 

[TaraForFun]

I'm submissive.

 

[WajaLover]

100% Submissive!

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Could be simply submissive with males and Dominant with females/women

With me it depends on how I click with the person. I’m straight. Some ladies I feel more dominant. Some I feel more sub. Part of being a switch.