Are you dominant or submissive

[Bighammerfucker]

I have traits for true switch

I feel like, being a true switch though, it’s harder to feel properly dominated. I usually need more than average. I know how to get that though so I’m okay with that.

 

[Wonderer67]

I would have said 100% submissive up until a few months ago, where I sort of stated feeling a little switchy and entertained was turned on by the idea of being dominant.

I feel like a sub at heart, but with certain situations or diff scenarios or fantasies, it felt very natural and good to take a dominant role. Labels and descrptors…

 

[CutieJo]

I'm very much a submissive. Through and through. Before I thought I could be a switch, but giving directions doesn't give me the same feelings as I do when I receive them.

 

[roxanne1971]

Dom in real life submissive out of it.
Can be dominant with select women.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Love to submit to a lover's needs and directions...it turns me on to be told what to do, especially kneeling in front of a hard cock, waiting for permission to start sucking.

 

[Dd4bblgs]

Totally dominant.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

Oh, I'm definitely submissive....

 

[Goldenfinger]

In my relationship with my wife I’m submissive. Outside of that I’m just regular.

 

[BiBunny]

Indifferent with most people, submissive with Daddy, and occasionally dominant if I find the right person.

ETA: I'm always dominant, professionally.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I don't know what the point of everyone saying if they are dom or sub without any discussion. Maybe a poll would have been better? Or is the point to find a partner in this topic? Anyway I want to become a dom.

what type of discussion? I’m sure everyone has their reasons. I wasn’t submissive but set myself up to be.

I was in the military for a career, I wanted to get married. I wanted a strong woman who could hold things down when I deployed. You see lots of failed marriages with service members. So she did things her way and when I came home I didn’t change a thing. She was the admiral and I was just a lowly petty officer. A lot will come home and change everything up or want everything to revolve around them and that causes resentment.

after some time I started to withdraw not wanting to make any decisions and my wife was happy to take up the slack. We talked about it, I was very open with her. Things just evolved. that the quick down an dirty of it. So we started off equal then she got more dominant and I submissive but we fit together.

 

[KinkStevens]

I love them both. I can be dominant or submissive with a sexy woman or tgirl. I’d have to BE the Tgirl to submit to a man

 

[Twistedkink]

A switch that leans submissive

 

[Bigboobbabe]

My ex was not a manly man so I had to lead the way. There were times I wish he would throw me on the bed, hold me down and take me.
Then I met a true Dom. My Master. He showed me how sex is a mental response and physical. Had me following instructions then commands. I fully submitted to him in the bedroom. Bound to the bed and blindfolded. 100% faith and trust

I am a sub. His slave

 

[AlwaysInTrouble]

Dominant, the degree and flavor of which depends on the lady

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Why’s it have to be either or? Black or white? Ok I might take that one back. A sexy lady in black and white pic is hot. “ you’re now returned to your regular scheduled topic “
There’s a whole world in the grey. We like things in both parts of the world. Totally depends on the dynamic in that relationship. How they click.

 

[AsianFusion]

Depends on the context ...
Sex: submissive
Everything else: neutral

 

[Photog1rl]

I’m a true switch-naturally dominant but I love when I connect with someone that can dom me.

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

A soft dom who switches occasionally

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Submissive w/limits

I’d be concerned if someone said they don’t have limits. I can always always come up with something they say is a limit.

 

[Photog1rl]

Submissive w/limits

That is a perfect answer!

 

[LittleSwitchy]

That is a perfect answer!

Hard limits are a no go. Soft limits
Those… those can be pushed a little. Long as you are careful and safe.
It can be really fun.

 

[Photog1rl]

Hard limits are a no go. Soft limits
Those… those can be pushed a little. Long as you are careful and safe.
It can be really fun.

While I agree they soft limits are fun to test and gently push through, I’d argue that knowing your hard limits, if you have them is very important. There are areas that pushing may truly not be ok and that is to be respected.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

While I agree they soft limits are fun to test and gently push through, I’d argue that knowing your hard limits, if you have them is very important. There are areas that pushing may truly not be ok and that is to be respected.

I agree on the hard limits. I’m one that wants to know my partner well. While nudging soft limits can be fun. I’m not messing with hard limits. I don’t want to break anyone. Why break who you care about

 

[luv23way]

Definitely submissive

 

[SquishyBits]

Just as "I'll do anything" has a subtext for you, perhaps "sub with limits" has a subtext for them. Perhaps instead of limits in reference to acts, they are limited in who or how often they submit.