Are you dominant or submissive

I'm in control of my daily work life. I am responsible for people and assets. In my home life I like to be more laid back.
I'm really into CFNM and have had some wonderful experiences. In this arena, it's more about what she wants or needs from me. It isn't about domination or humiliation, it's more about love and trust.
I get to let go and she gets to play to her desires and/or fantasies. I love to be her fantasy and fulfill her every desire!
 
This is hard to explain but neither really.
My wife would be a dom type if she felt confident in it. She wants sex the way SHE wants it and I'm sort of expected to know it by osmosis or something and when it doesn't happen the way she wants it, she never complains I just get that sigh, because she didn't come. BUT SHE WON'T GIVE ME A FUCKING HINT ON WHAT SHE WANTS AT THAT MOMENT. We have a pattern, sort of, that if I stick to it, we're successful most of the time but not always. I'd give my right arm if she would just go full dom and say, "Get your face right here, and don't stop licking until I say stop, got it?" I'd be a sub for her for the rest of my life, happily.
 
Neither to extreme mind you.
What is extreme anyway? When discussing what people call the "deep end" with people involved in BDSM over some time, definitions vary a lot. It is not a simple scale, same for everybody, but different things vary on their own scales independently of each other.
 
Truly depends on the person I am with. Different people have different sexual auras about them.
 
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