Ask Me a Question v 12.26.2021

Who was the first person you told after you lost your virginity?
I kept it to myself for weeks. The first person I actually told was probably the second guy I 'did it' with.

What was the most erotic scene you remember from a mainstream network TV show (ABC, NBC, CBS, FOX)?
 
I kept it to myself for weeks. The first person I actually told was probably the second guy I 'did it' with.

What was the most erotic scene you remember from a mainstream network TV show (ABC, NBC, CBS, FOX)?
I can think of a couple. NYPD Blue, Sipowicks showering with his girlfriend/wife...can't remember how far into the relationship that scene was. He's nothing to look at but she is hot.
Penny's nipples get to me every episode of Big Bang Theory.

What actor for a TV show character would you like to trade places with?
 
What made your strangest sexual relationship so strange?
The fact there were so many firsts involved I never thought I would experience.

What is your opinion about today being "Hump Day"? Does it mean anything to you?
 
What is your opinion about today being "Hump Day"? Does it mean anything to you?
Well, for about an hour today, I thought it was Saturday. So, not much.

What is something that you own that most people don't care about but some people would be jealous of?
 
Well, for about an hour today, I thought it was Saturday. So, not much.

What is something that you own that most people don't care about but some people would be jealous of?
I have an old school playskool McDonalds playset that some might be jealous of but most would careless about.

Is there something that people are jealous of about your life that you would like to change?
 
Is there something that people are jealous of about your life that you would like to change?
I honestly can't think of anything. I'd like to hear some examples of that from other people.

What is the most flattering sex-related compliment you've ever received?
 
I honestly can't think of anything. I'd like to hear some examples of that from other people.
People seem to be “jealous” that I’m single/never been married. I’d like to be in a relationship.
I wouldn't say I'm with anyone, but the guy I'm 'seeing' is quite nice and cool and very convenient.

Does anyone have nude photos of you?
Surprisingly yes


What is more important in a relationship good sex or commonalities outside the bedroom?
 
What is more important in a relationship good sex or commonalities outside the bedroom?

Ooooooh, that's such a good question!

Frankly, I don't know. But I can assure of this: one will definitely enhance the other.

I don't have a question of my own to offer. Sorry about that.


-Ben
 
What is more important in a relationship good sex or commonalities outside the bedroom?
I can happily accept commonalities without sex, but without commonalities, there won't be sex.

Do you know of any sex positions that you want to try eventually but haven't done so yet?
 
I can happily accept commonalities without sex, but without commonalities, there won't be sex.

Do you know of any sex positions that you want to try eventually but haven't done so yet?
No, I am sure there is some position out there I've never heard of, but for the most part, I've been through relationships where we said "Let's try every position we can find just to see if they work for us." A fun experience I highly recommend.

When it comes to technical sexual proficiency, where is your goldilocks zone? (Do you prefer a partner where you're the expert, where they're the expert, or where you're both on the same skill/proficiency level?)
 
No, I am sure there is some position out there I've never heard of, but for the most part, I've been through relationships where we said "Let's try every position we can find just to see if they work for us." A fun experience I highly recommend.

When it comes to technical sexual proficiency, where is your goldilocks zone? (Do you prefer a partner where you're the expert, where they're the expert, or where you're both on the same skill/proficiency level?)
I could go with the first if my partner is submissive, but I think equal is the most fun.

What is a fantasy you have that you want to stay in the fantasy realm and not actually happen?
 
No, I am sure there is some position out there I've never heard of, but for the most part, I've been through relationships where we said "Let's try every position we can find just to see if they work for us." A fun experience I highly recommend.

When it comes to technical sexual proficiency, where is your goldilocks zone? (Do you prefer a partner where you're the expert, where they're the expert, or where you're both on the same skill/proficiency level?)
I'm answering both because I like Paul's question. As a young man I was really kind of stuck on being the "most experienced." So I generally sought out women (girls) who were less experienced than me (or at least ones I thought might be). I was also not very experienced myself. The positive of that is that we explored and learned a lot on own and were a lot of each others "firsts" which is fun and exciting. The downside is that at this point, I'm interested in further experiences and she is not. And now I think in many ways, I'd like woman who is at least as experienced as I, to take me further.
I could go with the first if my partner is submissive, but I think equal is the most fun.

What is a fantasy you have that you want to stay in the fantasy realm and not actually happen?
I really don't think I have many fantasies that I would never want to have happen. I will say that I have written a number of stories where the main character has either gone through a painful divorce or the death of a spouse. I have no desire to experience that, however in order to be single again - which may be a necessary condition to fullfilling some other fantasies I have - I would need to go through that. So in essense, the fantasy that I have that I would never want to have happen is the death of a spouse, I guess. I do not sit around fantasizing about that experience, more about "what comes next" then. Does that make sense?

What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship?
 
I don't know what kind of things are you talking about? Besides, I don't have a SO.

Do you differentiate between a white lie and a full lie?
 
Absolutely. A white lie is when you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings.

Do you think when someone asks you how you like their haircut, you should be blunt if you don’t like it?
 
Absolutely. A white lie is when you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings.

Do you think when someone asks you how you like their haircut, you should be blunt if you don’t like it?
That depends on the nature of our relationship. An acquaintance would get a white lie from me. Someone I'm close to, I'd be more honest with, if I knew it would be taken as constructive, rather than hurting their feelings.

What is a lie you have told regarding sex?
 
That depends on the nature of our relationship. An acquaintance would get a white lie from me. Someone I'm close to, I'd be more honest with, if I knew it would be taken as constructive, rather than hurting their feelings.

What is a lie you have told regarding sex?
It falls into the white lie category - I've denied having sex because it was none of the person asking's business.

What happened to you the last time you told the truth, even though you knew it would cause negative implications for you.
 
It falls into the white lie category - I've denied having sex because it was none of the person asking's business.

What happened to you the last time you told the truth, even though you knew it would cause negative implications for you.
It made the next two year of work hell and cost the CEO his job

Is your current partner you forever partner?
 
It made the next two year of work hell and cost the CEO his job

Is your current partner you forever partner?
I'm in an open relationship, so yes, in that we'll probably be in each others lives in one role of the other forever, but no in the sense that we don't think of relationships like that.

How complicated is your current relationship?
 
I'm in an open relationship, so yes, in that we'll probably be in each others lives in one role of the other forever, but no in the sense that we don't think of relationships like that.

How complicated is your current relationship?
I am not currently in a relationship. Soo not complicated 😂

Are you a morning person or a night owl?
 
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