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[sthrn_vixen]

Esantia: Perhaps they think smaller in size means tinier brain?! LOL! What idiots! Shall I hold them down while you stop them?

And yes, I've had many men say the same thing...that us bigger girls are so much more fun, but what cracks me is at first glance - most men will go for the skinny girls rather than the bigger ones. They rave about how wonderful we are, truly! But don't take the time to get to know us in 'real' life if given a choice...or so it seems.

 

[Apryl]

Evening All.

As for the skinny women issue that is all i hung out with and i was the one that attracted the men over to us with my laugh and personality and they were the ones that scored with them. Sometimes life just sucks. But then i had such a bad self image problem at that time that could have been part of the problem for me. Because I am a big flirt and don't even realize that i am doing the flirting at the time ..lol

 

[Esantia]

Evening All.

As for the skinny women issue that is all i hung out with and i was the one that attracted the men over to us with my laugh and personality and they were the ones that scored with them. Sometimes life just sucks. But then i had such a bad self image problem at that time that could have been part of the problem for me. Because I am a big flirt and don't even realize that i am doing the flirting at the time ..lol

I know exactly how this goes. I can NEVER tell when I'm flirting, or people are flirting with me..but I'm told I am a huge flirt....>.>

 

[sthrn_vixen]

I know exactly how this goes. I can NEVER tell when I'm flirting, or people are flirting with me..but I'm told I am a huge flirt....>.>

If I can get someone laughing and interacting with me - it's on. I love to flirt!

 

[Bucmeister]

Let's flirt away

Shall we?

 

[RoxyChick69]

I'm losing weight now and don't want to be a "BBW" anymore. I'm doing it for me. I kind of wish to find someone just to get me off every now and then. Or help eachother lose weight and get off and just be some kind of twisted friendship. Or someone to spank me and humiliate me if I'm not meeting my goal weight and get me off when I do. Or hire a "personal trainer" who could be a bit more uh personal. Seriously, I wonder if dieting can be some kind of game at the same time.

Hey! When you figure it out, let me know! I'd like to play that game too! I NEED some motivation, and that sounds like just the kind I'm looking for!

 

[RoxyChick69]

oops...somehow sent this twice. No one needs to hear it over and over.

 

[Bowlerpa06]

hello all how is everyone?

 

[sassylilthang]

I've had more experiences with this than I care to say. I don't feel like a loser, no...just really really awkward. Especially if they are shorter. (hard to do..but it happens)
Usually for a split second (and this is kind of strange...) I imagine what it would be like for a guy to be standing there. And I think to myself.. "Man...if I move too suddenly...I might hurt her...>.> How the hell do men do this? D:"
One of my favorite things people seem to do when they meet me, is they think because of my size...I have a low IQ. Hahahahaha. Asshats.

Whoops..went off a little. >.>

I liked your comment about IQ. I have felt something similar at times. But mainly related to my chest size, especially when I was blonde. It was like men saw me as this ditzy dumb busty blonde. Which I certainly am not. I do everything I can to dispel this myth. But I have decided over time...if this is how a guy views me. And does not care to know me for who I TRULY am. That is his problem. Not mine anymore. If a guy can't stop and go "hey this chick is pretty damn cool". He isn't worth my time!

I have a sweet Lit guy I chat with for helping me see the light. He asked if my size ever made me sad. And I realized what made me sad was letting how other peoples opinion of me affect me. With out these people even knowing me.

 

[sassylilthang]

hello all how is everyone?

Just in from a dinner party "with the girls". So nice to laugh and drink wine with the ladies.

 

[onelargeguy31]

I liked your comment about IQ. I have felt something similar at times. But mainly related to my chest size, especially when I was blonde. It was like men saw me as this ditzy dumb busty blonde. Which I certainly am not. I do everything I can to dispel this myth. But I have decided over time...if this is how a guy views me. And does not care to know me for who I TRULY am. That is his problem. Not mine anymore. If a guy can't stop and go "hey this chick is pretty damn cool". He isn't worth my time!

I have a sweet Lit guy I chat with for helping me see the light. He asked if my size ever made me sad. And I realized what made me sad was letting how other peoples opinion of me affect me. With out these people even knowing me.

Very well said...Bravo to you dear lady. I salute you.

 

[Bowlerpa06]

Just in from a dinner party "with the girls". So nice to laugh and drink wine with the ladies.

heck yea cant beat that. i am glad you enjoyed yourself!!

 

[sassylilthang]

heck yea cant beat that. i am glad you enjoyed yourself!!

thanks

you do anything fun?

 

[happychatter]

Good morning from the frosty shores of old England.

 

[sthrn_vixen]

Hello Happy Chatter.

 

[pimpette_f]

Good Morning, my friends!

 

[sthrn_vixen]

How is everyone doing today?

 

[sthrn_vixen]

I liked your comment about IQ. I have felt something similar at times. But mainly related to my chest size, especially when I was blonde. It was like men saw me as this ditzy dumb busty blonde. Which I certainly am not. I do everything I can to dispel this myth. But I have decided over time...if this is how a guy views me. And does not care to know me for who I TRULY am. That is his problem. Not mine anymore. If a guy can't stop and go "hey this chick is pretty damn cool". He isn't worth my time!

I have a sweet Lit guy I chat with for helping me see the light. He asked if my size ever made me sad. And I realized what made me sad was letting how other peoples opinion of me affect me. With out these people even knowing me.

You're so right!! And it's true that there are wonderfully sweet guys out there that know how to lift a girls spirits about herself. We should always smile and appreciate who we are. We have our unique perks. So lets celebrate them and have fun.

 

[Apryl]

Afternoon All !!

 

[34NCbbw]

34 BBW 5'11 in NC

 

[EctoJohn]

Good evening to all the lovely Lit BBW ladies and your luscious curvy goodness.

 

[Esantia]

I liked your comment about IQ. I have felt something similar at times. But mainly related to my chest size, especially when I was blonde. It was like men saw me as this ditzy dumb busty blonde. Which I certainly am not. I do everything I can to dispel this myth. But I have decided over time...if this is how a guy views me. And does not care to know me for who I TRULY am. That is his problem. Not mine anymore. If a guy can't stop and go "hey this chick is pretty damn cool". He isn't worth my time!

I have a sweet Lit guy I chat with for helping me see the light. He asked if my size ever made me sad. And I realized what made me sad was letting how other peoples opinion of me affect me. With out these people even knowing me.

The IQ and breast size made me think of something funny.
My ex and I were at his friends house, hanging out, and one of the girls gone wild ads came on... I the friend had said something along the lines of "It seems like the bigger their breasts are, the lower their IQ." I looked down at my chest, then back at him and replied "Well, if that were the case...I would have been retarded by 7th grade."
I have my moments of utter ditz/uber spaz and people tend to think that's me all the time...or the fact that I'm quiet and shy...Hehehe, I just love those random moments where I can surprise them and make them rethink their impression of me. ^_^ It is soo fun.

I understand this completely. Took me forever. *hugs*

 

[BnBeautifulNiki]

Good evening, everyone!!

 

[farmboy1066]

Great thread! Love thick and pretty women.

 

[tnh_06]

Funny

I liked your comment about IQ. I have felt something similar at times. But mainly related to my chest size, especially when I was blonde. It was like men saw me as this ditzy dumb busty blonde. Which I certainly am not. I do everything I can to dispel this myth. But I have decided over time...if this is how a guy views me. And does not care to know me for who I TRULY am. That is his problem. Not mine anymore. If a guy can't stop and go "hey this chick is pretty damn cool". He isn't worth my time!

I feel just the opposite, I work with a few BBWs and somehow the more cleavage they show, the stronger and more motivated they seem, very confident and smart. I think that is why we all are not afraid to look at these women because they are very confident and obviously not afraid to have both intellect and amazing breasts.