Does Authenticity Matter Here?

[THROBBS]

You are thinking what I am thinking....
Needs some sandals too

I will try and refrain from kink-shaming.


An authentic modification>

Luckily, it's a wet-dry vac.


(I have always been "Popeye" - I yam what I yam. Even if I have been logged on with a different user name)

 

[AtramentousRex]

I think I've always been at least one of the authentic ones here. I've also been one of the least popular, most disliked more than once. People dont like real.

 

[THROBBS]

I think I've always been at least one of the authentic ones here. I've also been one of the least popular, most disliked more than once. People dont like real.

Perhaps.

I suspect, in my case, they just don't like me.

At least not as much as I'd like them to like me.
"Different strokes."

 

[lilmissdarling]

Yes, but how much probably depends on each person.

Adult sites like Lit tend to blur things a bit. People explore different sides of themselves seperate from their everyday reality. I think it’s more important to decide what level of authenticity you need and set that boundary for yourself.

For me, I’m pretty quiet and professional in real life. On here, I’m more playful, flirty, and a little bratty. It’s still me though. People who know me see both, but others might decide who I am off of posts alone.

I’m not advocating for zero authenticity. There’s no reason to be dishonest or misleading about who you are. But I do think there is a BIG difference.