Bi curious or i am gay?

[ShinyCrazyDi]

Although I have never ever have any sort of bi experience... but now a days , the pics of hard cocks teally attracts me alot. I felt really hot on seeing these pics which creates a strong desire in me of holding a big cock or giving a handjob. Sometimes even I want to suck a cock... these thoughts really make me hot... please comment that should I try these thoughts?

Take a free Kinsey scale test online (there are plenty). There's no 'perfect' way to discover who you are but this might help you get a clearer picture while you figure yourself out. I think it can be a good 'baseline'.

 

[Litme2]

Take a free Kinsey scale test online (there are plenty). There's no 'perfect' way to discover who you are but this might help you get a clearer picture while you figure yourself out. I think it can be a good 'baseline'.

It's says I'm full blown bi
..I'm horny

 

[cdstefi]

Although I have never ever have any sort of bi experience... but now a days , the pics of hard cocks teally attracts me alot. I felt really hot on seeing these pics which creates a strong desire in me of holding a big cock or giving a handjob. Sometimes even I want to suck a cock... these thoughts really make me hot... please comment that should I try these thoughts?

If cocks turn you on but women do too, pussies, tits, legs etc then you're bi (or curious if not yet experienced).

If you feel romantic attraction to men, if they give you the warm and fuzzies as well as the hot and lusty horn, but don't get the same feeling for women, you're gay.

(I got the above paragraph from an openly lifelong gay workmate so it's from the horse's mouth so to speak).

Ultimately you're only going to know how gay you are by fucking a man. I'm 62, considered myself straight most of my life and have always got those warm and fuzzies for the women I've had relationships with, but have had a couple of man on man encounters this year including taking a big cock in my ass, and while I've yet to feel anything like love for a guy, the sex is definitely hot and kinky as fuck, so I define myself as hetero-romantic but bisexual.

 

[Litme2]

If cocks turn you on but women do too, pussies, tits, legs etc then you're bi (or curious if not yet experienced).

If you feel romantic attraction to men, if they give you the warm and fuzzies as well as the hot and lusty horn, but don't get the same feeling for women, you're gay.

(I got the above paragraph from an openly lifelong gay workmate so it's from the horse's mouth so to speak).

Ultimately you're only going to know how gay you are by fucking a man. I'm 62, considered myself straight most of my life and have always got those warm and fuzzies for the women I've had relationships with, but have had a couple of man on man encounters this year including taking a big cock in my ass, and while I've yet to feel anything like love ft a guy, the sex is definitely hot and kinky as fuck, so I define myself as hetero-romantic but bisexual.

Thanks for the information

 

[cdstefi]

I am virgin as for as this is concerned... never have a cock in my ass... what about pain in this case if I experience it?

You should definitely use some toys (and lots of lube, I like coconut oil) before trying anal with another person. That way you're fully in control and can test your own limits in complete safety.

With enough lube and careful buildup, anal doesn't have to be painful, and done right with a considerate partner is an amazing sensation unlike anything else.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Although I have never ever have any sort of bi experience... but now a days , the pics of hard cocks teally attracts me alot. I felt really hot on seeing these pics which creates a strong desire in me of holding a big cock or giving a handjob. Sometimes even I want to suck a cock... these thoughts really make me hot... please comment that should I try these thoughts?

Why restrict yourself to definitions? Why put your sensuality into just one box?
Sex is a wonderful spectrum that we can dip into and sample as we choose, there are no limits or horizons to pleasure. Enjoy pussy. Enjoy cock. It's healthy and human to have diversity in your life.

 

[Litme2]

Why restrict yourself to definitions? Why put your sensuality into just one box?
Sex is a wonderful spectrum that we can dip into and sample as we choose, there are no limits or horizons to pleasure. Enjoy pussy. Enjoy cock. It's healthy and human to have diversity in your life.

I'm gonna enjoy eating my big cum load

 

[tristantrotsky]

I'm gonna enjoy eating my big cum load

Cum is the banquet on which we feed.

 

[write_or_wrong]

You should try meeting a guy, there are a ton of free sites to find them. Chat for a bit, make sure he understands that you're a virgin as far as he's concerned. Then meet in person, embrace the experience of meeting a guy for a "date" even if it's just meeting for coffee at a Starbucks. If yall hit it off in person yall can either extend the date to his place or decide on a second date.

I don't suggest trying anal the very first time. But you could just explore his body while he explores yours. If the mood hits you could go down on him. To completion or not.

Now, are you gay or are you Bi. No idea, I can tell you're curious and struggling with feelings you don't yet understand. That's fine. Be you, don't search for a label.

By all means:

"Be you, don't search for a label."

Enjoy!

 

[Stacy_TG]

You should try meeting a guy, there are a ton of free sites to find them. Chat for a bit, make sure he understands that you're a virgin as far as he's concerned. Then meet in person, embrace the experience of meeting a guy for a "date" even if it's just meeting for coffee at a Starbucks. If yall hit it off in person yall can either extend the date to his place or decide on a second date.

I don't suggest trying anal the very first time. But you could just explore his body while he explores yours. If the mood hits you could go down on him. To completion or not.

Now, are you gay or are you Bi. No idea, I can tell you're curious and struggling with feelings you don't yet understand. That's fine. Be you, don't search for a label.

This.

Just embrace who you are and above all, LOVE who you are. Do you like boys or girls? Yes! Remember, romantic attraction and sexual attraction are two completely different things. In my experience, if you are struggling it's because you are not yet ready to accept who and what you are. I know, it's easier said than done to just make peace with it, but believe me, baby, once you do THAT'S the day you start living an authentic life!!!

For me I flip flopped back and forth on "Am I trans?" "Am I gay?" "Am I straight?", and it caused me so much lost sleep and anxiety that sadly, I will NEVER get back.

I am fucking queer as the day is long, honey, and you know what? I don't care! I love who I am! I love that I'm romantically and sexually attracted to men AND women!

Love yourself, sweetheart, and know there are people everywhere who will love you for being your most genuine self also!!!!! <3 xoxoxo

 

[SPARTAN047]

Yes! You're much more than what labels and society make you out to be.