Bi married women!!

[LadyC]

Although I am not married, I have always told my partners (male or female) that I am essentially bi. I cannot imagine every being able to settle down with a member of one or other sex - unless they were prepared for me to have lovers. I'm open to threesomes - have enjoyed quite a few, strangely enough they have nearly always been mff rather than mfm. On the odd time when I have had the pleasure of two men at the same time, I have always felt that it has been more for me than my partner.

I love sex, be it with a cock or a pussy or just little ole me! xx

Tornia, you are a woman cut from the same material as I. My husband and I are both bi and we each have lovers. My lover is Teri (my soul mate) who lives with us. We also do threesome and foursomes, as well as attending and hosting parties. It is a wonderful way of life.

 

[debjean2]

just another excuse

It's not cheating if he knows about it and is okay with it! The only reason I say "same-sex cheating is still cheating" is because people think "oh, it's with my own sex, I don't have to tell, it's not really cheating." If your spouse doesn't know, it's cheating, whether you are doing it with a man or a woman! But if they are cool with it, then it's not cheating.

Mine would have just used it as ANOTHER excuse to walk away.
Patty

PS: I loved you nude pose, it went away while I was looking at it and some webpage tried to get me to sign up.

 

[Qla890]

Hello.

My husband is well aware of my enjoyment of women and completely supports me experimenting, and figuring myself out; but as one poster above said, he definately draws the line at polyamory.
Luckily, though, it's not really that much of an issue for me.

Unfortunately, I didn't discover my interest in women, until we'd already been dating for years- and had been engaged for a portion of the time. But, with his open mind, and trust that I couldn't ever love anyone in the manner I love him, I've gotten to figure out some of my feelings on the subject since we first spoke of it a few years ago.
Not as much as I'd like-but, that's more so due to a lack of willing women than anything else.

 

[LadyC]

I love girls long before I even began experimenting with boys. (I thought I was a lesbian) When I met and then married my husband, even though we knew we would continue swinging, I believe I would never love anyone more deeply. Then I met Teri. I could never love anyone the way I love her. She is my soul mate and my husband knows how I feel. He understands and has offered to divorce me if I wish. Instead, Teri has moved in with us and we ofter refer to Billy as OUR husband.

Claire

 

[bi_curious6969]

My husband knows and he is fine with it, but I don't want him watching or any other man. He thinks it's hot that I am bi.

I too am married and I am bicurious and have been for along time. Was always afraid to say something to him because I didn't want it to ruin us or anything. Well needless to say is damn I should have told him sooner. He knows when I am ready he can be there but for awhile I want it just to be me and another female. Last week we all went to a strip club and was ok with that then I went out to another strip club with my bff and her man and boy was it fun and he was texting me asking me if I was having a good time and to bring one home Bad part is I can't really find other bifemales in Kokomo indiana UGHHH. So needless to say yes my hubby knows and likes the idea that I am bicurious..

 

[CorsetLvr]

I Bad part is I can't really find other bifemales in Kokomo indiana UGHHH.

I've heard the same comment from a lot of bi women over the years. I usually laugh when I do. Realistically, you are surrounded by bi women that may feel the same way that you do. Its a statistical probabability. The trick is figuring out which women are bi, and which aren't. Based on my experience, there may be a lot that are not actively bi, but who may be receptive if the right situation came up, or who have had some bi experiences in their past. It is sometimes just a matter of tuning into the subtle signals that you are getting from other women that may indicate their interest. I think that a lot of women are more attuned to the much less subtle signals that they get from men and can easily overlook those from women. Just keep that in mind and try to be more open to those that you have contact with in your life.

 

[hottalyssa]

hello ladies. any chance of resurrecting this thread?

 

[y_tia]

yes

mines approves too but not allowed to partake only watch

mwah xx

 

[Mary0045]

Different Sensitivities With Marriage

This thread has me recalling how I would connect with women so differently after I was divorced than when I was married. It seems not that I am single again I celebrate the little details of being and meeting new women. I just was never able to open myself up that way before. I have so much fun when meeting new women anywhere and wondering or if there could be a spark.

While I knew I was bi I had buried that part of me during the marriage. But now I am having so much fun with new explorations.

 

[curiousisjane]

Hi

Nice one Mary. I am still married but have this incredible urge. We should get aquainted....!!!

 

[curiousisjane]

Yes

Why not get this thread going again for all us married women or in Mary's case, ex married.

 

[avidreaderbabe]

do fantasies count and what I would love to try? do? i have chatted a few times with other women. help! lol

 

[hottalyssa]

hi ladies. i too love women.so much so i had an affair while married. my husband found out and well, i now am divorced. a long story in itself. i hope this thread continues. i would love to chat with you girls....kisses,alyssa

 

[Meowgirl80]

Hi Ladies,

My husband knows and is very encouraging. He is cool with me having gfs as long as he knows about it. In other words, no secrets. I've even invited him to participate once. He was beyond happy, but he knows that the likelyhood of repeating that is slim. In the meantime, he's just happy to hear details.

I think the key to having a hubby cool with it is being honest from the get go.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[amwoman75]

My husband has always known, I was about 19 or 20 when I realized how attracted I was to women, he and I had already been dating for about 4 years. I told him right away and couldn't imagine not having him know. I have only been with one woman, when I find women online it actually deters me if they don't want their husbands to know, I personally don't want to be part of such dishonesty in a marriage.

He loves that I like women and has always used it to his advantage. Even though I realized my attraction at about 19 I didn't have my first experience until last year at 33, but over all those years my attraction to women played a big part in our sex life , and if I wasn't in the mood he knew exactly what would change that LOL.

 

[Bicuriousone]

A Man's Opinion

hi ladies. i too love women.so much so i had an affair while married. my husband found out and well, i now am divorced. a long story in itself. i hope this thread continues. i would love to chat with you girls....kisses,alyssa

That is to bad that it ended in a divorce. I know that when my wife was younger that she had some experience with other women and she also knows that I also played some with men. I always encouraged her to try it again if she wanted to and there was some talk about both of us going forward and experiencing it together but it never happen. Now she says that she isn't interested in it but from some of the things that she says I think that there is still a desire to do it but I don't know if it will ever happen.

 

[BabyxGirl]

My name is Jena. Some of you may have seen my posts on other threads, but I've never posted here because I'm not married and never have been married, but I've made love with married women (and some of their husbands). I'm bisexual, kind of tall and 19 years old. I have recently discovered a masochistic aspect of my sexuality and have gone head first (or is it bottom first) into bondage to find out if it is truly me.

Perhaps I've said too much but "Hello!"


Jena, Lady Claire's naughty little slut