Bi-sexuality

[iswallowloads]

Beyond complicated really. With subtle feelings and emotions that most miss or deny. As you said one can be attracted to the same sex but not like sex with that person, or you may not be attracted at all and like the sex.
Being bisexual is INCREDIBLY complicated and takes a keen and open mind to enjoy it all.

Very complicated, and it can take a long while to figure yourself out, let alone other people.

 

[banes27]

That's a pretty good observation. Well put. Ironically, what this country needs is another revolution. One where people actually take it back it from the government, not just vote for people that promise, promise, promise and never deliver.

Agreed, but with this revolution, it needs to be seen as an event, not a new ideal like the old one was apparently. Revolutions should inspire change and free thought, not create staticism and zombie-like devotion. Problem with the US is that the level of patriotism in some areas has seriously held back the attempts of some people in other areas to change the US system so efforts there are even harder.

 

[gt_bear]

Yeah a real revolution, hell its coming. i can feel it. Now the problem is all the rights i want are librial but i still want my guns and such, so i believe that Libritarians are the ones who should rise up and revolt. Tom Selek as our leader!

 

[gt_bear]

And the complications with Polygamy do happen, where one is left out, but that can happen in a monogamist relationship as well. A person can be so involved with work they leave their spouse in the dust, but in a Polygamist relationships such as mine where all parties involved are lovers that possibility is near zero. For if i get to busy to spend time with say Sam, she can talk to Jonny or Carmine, and vis versa.
The fact is polygamists have the same problems as monogamists it is just easier or harder to fix them, but it being in one is very rewarding indeed.

 

[Etoile]

What kind of complications do you see come up in polygamy? i'm just curious

Oh lordy, me and my 10-foot pole are NOT touching that. I'll just say that if you don't see where the complications can arise in polyamory, you probably don't know what polyamory is.

 

[gt_bear]

Oh lordy, me and my 10-foot pole are NOT touching that. I'll just say that if you don't see where the complications can arise in polyamory, you probably don't know what polyamory is.

Sorry to say i am in a polygamist relationship so i would know more about it, unless u have been in one longer. The problems that arise are easily avoided with care and attention. Something i, my girls, and my boyfriend are very good at.

 

[JHarrison01]

How long have you been married? Can you say long enough to know and adjust for the pitfalls?

Do you have children? Do you see that in your future?

 

[gt_bear]

How long have you been married? Can you say long enough to know and adjust for the pitfalls?

Do you have children? Do you see that in your future?

Been married 4 years, been together near 6 now. We have an adopted daughter with twin girls due here soon.

 

[gt_bear]

Hey guys my girls want to say something.....Hey out there! This is Sam typing for us girls! Here right now is Lana, Carmine, Alana, Jessie, Sierra, and me! We just want to say that our home life has no pitfalls, no hurt feelings, and no real trouble at all. Sure it gets a little busy around her with all the work we do, but otherwise it is bliss. None of us feel left out, none of us feel as though Drake loves us less or more, he is the perfect hubby! He is very attentive, is a stay at home writer so he is always here, and has the stamina and ability to love each of us equally.
The only thing we can complain about is that Drake needs to get another boy toy around the house, just as a little play thing! Otherwise we are perfectly happy

 

[JHarrison01]

A part of me is envious - to have choices and variety is a wonderful thing. I also realize I could never emotionally manage that environment. That's just me and I try not to make judgements about others.

 

[iswallowloads]

Hey guys my girls want to say something.....Hey out there! This is Sam typing for us girls! Here right now is Lana, Carmine, Alana, Jessie, Sierra, and me! We just want to say that our home life has no pitfalls, no hurt feelings, and no real trouble at all. Sure it gets a little busy around her with all the work we do, but otherwise it is bliss. None of us feel left out, none of us feel as though Drake loves us less or more, he is the perfect hubby! He is very attentive, is a stay at home writer so he is always here, and has the stamina and ability to love each of us equally.
The only thing we can complain about is that Drake needs to get another boy toy around the house, just as a little play thing! Otherwise we are perfectly happy

Just wanted to send a wink to the ladies. Drake sounds like a lucky guy indeed!

 

[rbone04]

Hello everyone out there. this is my first forum so first off i would like to share a little about me. I am 21 years old, i live in Las Vegas for the winter and Amsterdam in the summer. I am currently married to a beautiful girl, but i also have 5 other girlfriends and a boyfriend. All of us live together and all of us are lovers, that is my wife has sex with my boyfriend, he has sex with another girlfriend and those girlfriends have sex with each other and me, you get the point.
The point of my post is to ask the question, do you all believe that us bi-sexual people are jsut confused or like lesbian and homosexuals we are just born different?
I personally believe that we are just born like this, i my self have been bi since i can remember, so when others say i'm just confused i get pissed.
If you also want to talk about polygamy in all its forms, you can ask, please not haters alright i already got a few wounds on my body from haters i dont need any more.

Don't know if this has been said but... Fuck me, you are a lucky man. As for the question at hand. I am bisexual. I am not confused. Yet, I don't think I am different than anyone else. I think all of us are just more in tune with our sexuality, and are not afraid to pursue it. Judging from the amount of "I am bi-curious, am I weird" threads and discussions ALL OVER the internet, it is a matter of society at-large making the decision as to whether or not we should feel different. That's such a shame. I know it's a discussion that's ongoing here, but seemingly each generation becomes more and more tolerant. That's uplifting, but not where it needs to be.

 

[banes27]

Don't know if this has been said but... Fuck me, you are a lucky man. As for the question at hand. I am bisexual. I am not confused. Yet, I don't think I am different than anyone else. I think all of us are just more in tune with our sexuality, and are not afraid to pursue it. Judging from the amount of "I am bi-curious, am I weird" threads and discussions ALL OVER the internet, it is a matter of society at-large making the decision as to whether or not we should feel different. That's such a shame. I know it's a discussion that's ongoing here, but seemingly each generation becomes more and more tolerant. That's uplifting, but not where it needs to be.

Agreed, all sexual preferences are bot equal and allowed freedom. A bisexual man is no different from a heterosexual man or a homosexual woman if they are able to do the same things, know the same things or are able to learn the same things. Only their sexuality differs, but considering this is a private matter, a matter which should be known only to that person and the person or people they choose to share that preference with then this difference in sexuality is completely irrelevant and no single person should ever feel weird because they are different when no other person should be able to interfere. Luckily more people are becoming tolerant, realising that one person's sexual preference will not affect their life or their interaction with them. A straight man should not fear a homosexual man purely because he desires the same sex that he falls into, chances are nothing will ever happen. I like that people are becoming more tolerant, but some people just aren't and some people aren't tolerant enough.

 

[JHarrison01]

I am bisexual. I am not confused.

I think it's the polygamy and polyamory part that can be complicated and confusing.

Most bisexual people I know are not confused about their sexuality.

 

[banes27]

Most bisexual people I know are not confused about their sexuality.

I'd have to say it's usually straight people who get confused by other sexualities, kind of thinking "well how can you like sex with someone of your own sex?" or "how can you like sex with men AND women?" I know for a few weeks after I started going out with my gf I was a bit confused by it all, but then she slowly explained it and I wasn't so confused anymore, and basically she said it's kind of because that's just who she is, but that sex with men and women is different but both good, so why only limit yourself to the one while you're not in a relationship (although all her female sexaul partners were girlfriends, not just sex). I don't think the person is ever really confused when they realise it, but some people make them feel like they're confused because it is really they who are confused about that person.

 

[gt_bear]

Thank you all for the comments, especially iswallowloads and banes27. And i to am nto confused about my sexuality, i knew from when i was a little kid i liked strawberry and chocolate, to use my wifes analogy. Yes the polygamy part can get a little tough, but thats what makes it worth while
And fuck ya i am a lucky man! i got six girls who don't care what i did for a living, and a hot stud who loves me just the same as well.
Also the girls want to say thank you for the support as well! And i would like to ask what you all think of the names we picked out for the twin girls, due her very soon, Bella Rose and Angela Dawn? any comments on them?

 

[drakes_girls69]

HEY! This is the Girls of Drake! Sam here talking to u on his computer. He is off with Jessie teaching her a few things, she was a virgin when she came to us so she is still learning. Oh and what fun we are having teaching this hot'n'hyper teen! Don't worry she is 18 and is fully aware of our lifestyle, hell that is why a mutual friend set her up with us! So if you have any questions of us ask away! We will answer all to the best of our abilities!

 

[drakes_girls69]

Just wanted to send a wink to the ladies. Drake sounds like a lucky guy indeed!

Well hey there! thanks for all the support!

 

[iswallowloads]

Thank you all for the comments, especially iswallowloads and banes27. And i to am nto confused about my sexuality, i knew from when i was a little kid i liked strawberry and chocolate, to use my wifes analogy. Yes the polygamy part can get a little tough, but thats what makes it worth while
And fuck ya i am a lucky man! i got six girls who don't care what i did for a living, and a hot stud who loves me just the same as well.
Also the girls want to say thank you for the support as well! And i would like to ask what you all think of the names we picked out for the twin girls, due her very soon, Bella Rose and Angela Dawn? any comments on them?

I like Bella Rose. When I was in Italy, I was hanging out with this chick from Granada, and six little boys (about ten or so) surrounded her and started shouting, "Bella! Bella!" She was blushing so bad, I never forgot it, or let her live it down. Dawn's a cool name, never personally cared for Angela, but that's just me. Congrats on getting ready to start a new chapter though!

 

[iswallowloads]

Well hey there! thanks for all the support!

Welcome to the board. You all seem pretty cool and open minded and that's what this world really needs.

 

[drakes_girls69]

Thanks! Lana is huge now, but oh my god she is beautiful! I'd take a picture but we don't have your new digital camera's, Drake likes to take old fashioned film ones and developed them himself, and if u look at our picture you can see how good he is!

 

[drakes_girls69]

Welcome to the board. You all seem pretty cool and open minded and that's what this world really needs.

Oh damn straight! If only our families where open minded....my father tried to drown me when i came out as lesbian when i was 14...but i got away and ran away. This is Sam by the way

 

[iswallowloads]

Oh damn straight! If only our families where open minded....my father tried to drown me when i came out as lesbian when i was 14...but i got away and ran away. This is Sam by the way

Wow, what an asshole. But good for you for being open about who you are.

 

[drakes_girls69]

Yeah...i told drake that about 2 years ago....he put my dad in the hospital. He broke both his legs, both his arms, 6 ribs, his nose, and a few bones in his face. He is forever in a wheelchair now and has to eat through a tube.... He would have killed him but he had quit drinking by then so he had some self control....i say my dad deserved it but i'm violent lol

 

[iswallowloads]

Yeah...i told drake that about 2 years ago....he put my dad in the hospital. He broke both his legs, both his arms, 6 ribs, his nose, and a few bones in his face. He is forever in a wheelchair now and has to eat through a tube.... He would have killed him but he had quit drinking by then so he had some self control....i say my dad deserved it but i'm violent lol

Hey, what comes around goes around. I like to consider myself a pacifist, but genetically, I'm a little prone to violence myself, unfortunately sometimes it's the only answer.

On a happier note, I noticed you mentioned a pic an an earlier comment, but I don't see it, what gives?