Big Beautiful Women

[A_Kefka]

I find big girls very sexy. wish all women would realise that they aren't supposed to look lik stick figures

 

[cam lover]

Hey presslady,

I agree with all the guys here - skinny women just do not do it for me.

Post a pic and we can worship you

Cam lover

 

[presslady]

I wish I had stayed on last night. I wish I had a picture I could post. Sometime soon however I will.

Another question however: if it's so true that most men like women who have a little on their hips, why do advertisements all have stick figures in them?

 

[Jez Springfella]

I love BBW women too!

Far sexyer & more fun than skinny women.

Just be yourself & you'll find someone.

 

[LustyBBWwench]

I wish I had stayed on last night. I wish I had a picture I could post. Sometime soon however I will.

Another question however: if it's so true that most men like women who have a little on their hips, why do advertisements all have stick figures in them?

Honey, that's just what's "in" right now. Although if you've been paying attention the last few years, there is a slight trend towards the pudgier figure - at least the malnourished waif look seems to be mostly over. Societal norms and expectations come and go, but there's never a time when everyone fits the mold of what's considered "attractive." There are lots of men who loooooove bbw/fat chicks/voluptuous/pick your euphemism out there - you'd probably be surprised at just how many. Just love your curves, your softness, take pride in your appearance, and always work on your inner self, and the rest will fall into place.

Keep us posted.

 

[BBWetKitty]

I wish I had stayed on last night. I wish I had a picture I could post. Sometime soon however I will.

Another question however: if it's so true that most men like women who have a little on their hips, why do advertisements all have stick figures in them?

Advertisements are just that - ADS. They only have power if you buy into them.

 

[LustyBBWwench]

Advertisements are just that - ADS. They only have power if you buy into them.

Aw, dammit, I wish I'd said that. You're absolutely right, Kitty.

 

[cinnamonstick]

Hi Presslady, I'm a BBW from the Chicago area too and I feel for you.

 

[booboobear]

Hi Presslady,

A sexually confident BBW can be as sexy, if not sexier than any other woman. I find that sexier than thinner women. Keep your attitude positive and outgoing and BBW lovers will find you.

There is more to love and hold onto.

 

[Laoghaire]

I think it's hard for girls/women, period. Society in general doesn't make it easy for plumper women. Take any hip clothing store. The tops are uber tight, pants are low rise. Ain't no way a shapely woman can fit in those without looking like a bloody oversized candy wrap. Now, if you take those clothing stores for big women, you end up looking like a bloody tent as if your curves didn't exist.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'll grant you that. But when the supposed beholder gets bombarded with images of women such as Demi Moore, J-Lo, Jennifer Aniston and the like, it is very hard to compete and win. I don't see many shapely actresses/singers besides Queen Latifah, Camrin Manheim & Wynona... and yet, they are gorgeous and great artists.

I'm happy the way I am and I have no guilt trip about it. I'm intelligent, funny, friendly, educated, mom, wife, teacher... all of that rolled in my curves, baby.

 

[hausfrau]

I think it's hard for girls/women, period. Society in general doesn't make it easy for plumper women. Take any hip clothing store. The tops are uber tight, pants are low rise. Ain't no way a shapely woman can fit in those without looking like a bloody oversized candy wrap. Now, if you take those clothing stores for big women, you end up looking like a bloody tent as if your curves didn't exist.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'll grant you that. But when the supposed beholder gets bombarded with images of women such as Demi Moore, J-Lo, Jennifer Aniston and the like, it is very hard to compete and win. I don't see many shapely actresses/singers besides Queen Latifah, Camrin Manheim & Wynona... and yet, they are gorgeous and great artists.

I'm happy the way I am and I have no guilt trip about it. I'm intelligent, funny, friendly, educated, mom, wife, teacher... all of that rolled in my curves, baby.

Amen, sistah.

 

[LustyBBWwench]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'll grant you that. But when the supposed beholder gets bombarded with images of women such as Demi Moore, J-Lo, Jennifer Aniston and the like, it is very hard to compete and win.

True, but here's the thing: it's very hard for *most* American women to compete and win with magazine covers, thin or fat or somewhere in between. Fat women (and I hope no one is offended by my use of the word "fat" -- it's just a word, one that only has negative power if I allow it to, and the eye-rolling and scorn that inevitably follow the term "BBW" piss me off) don't corner the market on poor self-image, by any means. This kind of self-judgement has permeated our lives. When I hear about a thin little 12 year old girl pronouncing that she's going on a diet because her ass is fat, it just makes me want to scream.

And it's not just weight, of course. No one is supposed to have body hair, marks, a big nose, a unibrow, split ends....the list goes on. I don't know what the answer is, I wish I did. I'd bottle and sell it and make enough money to buy and sell Helen Gurley Brown.

 

[Lovemplump]

I'm proud to say I'm a BBW Lover!

I'm more and more fond of Big Beautiful Women every day. I don't quite know how t explain it, but a woman with a heavy bottom, wide hips, thick thighs, big natural breasts, and a plump figure really gets my blood pumping!
I've found that BBW seem more comfortable with their sexuality and are really nicer women to talk to and be with than some slim, neurotic, supermodel wannabe.
The thing is, I can't connect with any. Not that I'm a super-stud or anything, but I'm a fairly good looking guy; and every time I try to flirt w a Beautifully big girl, she seems to shy away or not take me seriously. It's very frustrating.

We're out there, you just have to find us. Some of us are looking very hard for you. (No punn intended).

I'm still looking! BBW please PM me any time.

 

[bamagirl]

well I read on here all the guys who love BBW ,but in the real life they are no where to be found!!

I wish one would head for alabama

 

[presslady]

Lovemplump:

I think what some men who do flirt with us larger ladies don't realize is that we've been shot down more than ducks during hunting season. I know the few guys who have hit on me don't really want anything but to make me feel foolish. I know that sounds cynical, but it's what I've been unfortunate enough to experience.

I am fairly young, and I am begining to enjoy my sexuality for what it is - a wonderful and joyful thing. I just wish that I could get a guy between my thighs to do what my fingers are doing.

 

[LovelyNicole]

I find it strange that if what all of you are saying is true (that a lot of men find BBW' s sexy/attractive) why is it that I can't find any?
It might have something to do with the fact that I live in Los Angeles, where if you are not 5'8 have big perky fake boobs and weigh 120lbs no one pays any attention to you. All I know is that I am 5'6 185lbs 40DD (and they are real & not so perky...lol) and I have had no luck finding someone.

 

[Lovemplump]

Frustrated...

Ladies,
It seems that some of you are as frustrated as I am. I really wish that it was easier to meet someone like each of you. What kills me is that I get hit on by "skinnie-minnies" frequently, but often the lovely big girl I'm trying to make eye contact with won't even look in my direction.
I'm disgusted by the portrayal of a BBW as not being healthy, beautiful or sexy. I've taken more then enough crap from coworkers who are aware of my taste in women. I've even had my desires referred to as a fetish. I don't really know what to say except that I'm almost glad that my desire is somewhat of the minority or taboo with other guys. Screw them, that just means there's more of you for me to admire!
I know that I'm obviously not alone in my love of BBW. Some guys are genuine and some are not. Some of us realize there's much more to each of you then most care to see.
But you'd think it would be easier to hook up with some of you!
What do I have to do to convince you that it should be my fingers and body between those lovely legs?

 

[bamagirl]

Re: Frustrated...

Ladies,
It seems that some of you are as frustrated as I am. I really wish that it was easier to meet someone like each of you. What kills me is that I get hit on by "skinnie-minnies" frequently, but often the lovely big girl I'm trying to make eye contact with won't even look in my direction.
I'm disgusted by the portrayal of a BBW as not being healthy, beautiful or sexy. I've taken more then enough crap from coworkers who are aware of my taste in women. I've even had my desires referred to as a fetish. I don't really know what to say except that I'm almost glad that my desire is somewhat of the minority or taboo with other guys. Screw them, that just means there's more of you for me to admire!
I know that I'm obviously not alone in my love of BBW. Some guys are genuine and some are not. Some of us realize there's much more to each of you then most care to see.
But you'd think it would be easier to hook up with some of you!
What do I have to do to convince you that it should be my fingers and body between those lovely legs?

wish you was in Bama...

 

[conntom2002]

someone earlier said it was more about attitude then size and that in large part is true....

use what u have.....dress well take care of yourself....

but if ur just fat and disgusting...get to a gym...u need help...

if yer a bbw...(not everyone is a size 2) u can be very sexy and wanted by many

 

[conntom2002]

and one more thing

alot of bbw's have incredible beautiful big soft breasts with great nipples..... o im getting hard...
who wants to cam?

 

[LustyBBWwench]

and one more thing

alot of bbw's have incredible beautiful big soft breasts with great nipples..... o im getting hard...
who wants to cam?

You're going to have a line of BBW around the corner wanting to cam with you after the fat and disgusting remark of your previous post.

You silver-tongued Don Juan, you.

 

[Kinkykiff]

I will join that line I like a woman with a full figure, there nothing erotic about these woman who look like sticks, I just feel like shaking them and shouting at them "eat something"

 

[dwd316]

Im about 45 mins. outside of Chicago and love BBW, Im 24 and hopefully that aint to young. If youre interested in meeting or chatting pm me or LMK on this thread

 

[tuckerrants]

presslady, you sound awfully doable to me

 

[redneckinkansas]

New Fat Girl

Hi everyone,
I have been reading the storys on literotica for a long time now but just signed up today.
I was reading the posts and had to put my 2 cents in. I am a very large woman, not only am I heavy I am also pretty tall. The term BBW bugs me because it seems to make liking women like me a fetish. For some men I'm sure it is but they can leave me out of it.
I guess it all comes down to attitude. If you carry yourself apologeticly men aren't going to be interested.
Girls dont shuffle into the bar expecting to be laughed at or ignored. Arrive...head held high, hair done, dressed fit to kill and let them know you are there. Fat girls rock and men know it.
If you see a man you like look him right in the eye smile at him and make him come to you. It works for me, and I'm tellin you it will work for you too.