Big Beautiful Women

[bodine91]

your right

feeling good about yourself is important. Just remember there are men out there like me, who find the larger female form much more appealing to their eyes than a bone rack. its just a matter of taste.

I always feel better after a full meal than just a snack.

 

[babydoll2u]

Re: Gorgeous women

Oh, SweetErika and bamagirl, your pictures are making my mouth water. I hope I don't drown! redneckinkansas, I love your style!

Look, presslady and all other ladies, I truly believe that confidence is a state of mind.

Back in college, there were several nights when I was dateless. Not for my looks though, as I received a second look on more than one occasion, it was my lack of confidence.

"Picking up" was pretty difficult when I had no self esteem. Once I began to feel better about myself, my confidence level and self esteem rose. This led me to having confidence to talk to females who I had previously considered out of my league.

Believe me, I went on plenty of dates where I was the envy of all my buddies due to the physical appearance of my companion. But damn if a large majority of these girls weren't hollow inside. I spent many a night at a restaurant, nightclub, or party trying to figure how the hell I could ditch these shallow women.

I'm not saying all thin women are terrible, but the best times I've ever had were with females that upon a quick glance might not meet "society's" standards of sexy. And do we really want to judge ourselves by the rest of society? I hope not. Have the confidence to be yourself.

I've met several women of various physical appearance who might grab my eye initially, but regardless of shape, color, or weight, I'm sorry that I ever gave some of them the time of day.

No, I'm not trying to come off as Mr. High and Mighty. Yes, I'm guilty of ogling plump thighs, sweet, round asses, big hips and softly padded tummies. Geez, the visual is making me hyperventilate. . .!!!

There. . .I'm okay. . .Whew!

I love an articulate, intelligent, confident woman, who can hold a meaningful conversation. THAT is the epitome of sexy to me.

How do you let someone know you have these traits? YOU TALK TO HIM!!! Smile at a male and say "hi" to him. That won't hurt you.

And here's a simple line that might make you think I'm an old man: if you can't get past the initial greeting, do you really want to be with someone so shallow? Think about it, ladies, you deserve and should desire a "man". . .not a "guy."

Hey, I hope I don't come off as a hypocrite, but it's the HEALTHY woman that catches my eye. Yeah, the one with the HEALTHY helping of thighs, hips, ass, belly, etc. And the breasts - regardless of size or shape - MUST be REAL.

My motto? The hips and lips might catch my attention, but you better have more than that to hold it.

VERY well said, thank you!
I wish more men felt like you do

 

[A Kilted Rogue]

Add me to the list of lovers of real women. I had one once, but lost her. Not because of our sex life (at least I hope not). It never mattered to me from day one what she looked like on the outside because I saw beauty from head to toe, inside and out. She was my world. We are now separated, most likely to follow the path of friendship.

I know I'm not Joe Stud, either. In similar circles, some might call me a "BHM". It's a term that's probably less of a cut to me than labels are to women. I say call me what you will, just call me. The amount of time I've gone without lovemaking, or sex, or whatever you wish to call the act, I miss it. I miss pleasuring a woman. Pleasure for me includes massages, dining, social engagements, and if all works out, whatever else might allow itself to happen. I like to believe that I still have a few talents and tricks up my sleeve that a woman might like to experience, I hope to use them again.

What say you, ladies?



KR

 

[SweetErika]

Thank you for your post and welcome, Powderkeg!

 

[dondragon62]

Get happy with yourself first

Powderkeg and mateo, you are my heroes.

I have never in my adult life weighed less than 185 pounds. I cannot ever remember a size smaller than 12. I'm not airbrushed, I don't look like Cindy Crawford, I wouldn't be considered model material by any stretch of the imagination.

Yet I have been approached by many men, of all different races, ages, shapes, and sizes, all of whom appreciated what I am.

Get happy with yourself first, and then other people will get happy with you.

If a woman is confident with a positive attitude she gets my attention then if our personalitys mesh we may get to be friends lovers or both and life is good.

 

[orangeangel]

to me I think women of all shapes and sizes are equally as yummy

 

[minnie179]

I am sure all of us over a size 12 have felt the ego kicking power of hanging out with under size 12's and being ignored. OR having a conversation via the net with a person and having a mutually great time and then they see that we are not model thin and POOOOOF, they are gone. Some leave nicely, some leave telling you that you are fat and not worthy...but they leave just the same.

I have had times in my life where I have found a man that likes all my lumps and bumps in addition to my personality, intelligence, and so on. Those are rare but then again, ladies, we do some of the same things....looks can be deciding factors as well as decieving.

I am keeping my hopes up that I will find a man that can put up with me period...flaws and all.....and vice versa.

 

[Darkknight2010]

to me I think women of all shapes and sizes are equally as yummy

I second and third that sentiment.

 

[babydoll2u]

I am sure all of us over a size 12 have felt the ego kicking power of hanging out with under size 12's and being ignored. OR having a conversation via the net with a person and having a mutually great time and then they see that we are not model thin and POOOOOF, they are gone. Some leave nicely, some leave telling you that you are fat and not worthy...but they leave just the same.

I have had times in my life where I have found a man that likes all my lumps and bumps in addition to my personality, intelligence, and so on. Those are rare but then again, ladies, we do some of the same things....looks can be deciding factors as well as decieving.

I am keeping my hopes up that I will find a man that can put up with me period...flaws and all.....and vice versa.

I'm SO with you Minnie... keep hopin' hunny.. one day .....

 

[hausfrau]

Hang on there, ladies. It's all a matter of geograpy and patience. You will find someone to rock your world.

 

[babydoll2u]

Hang on there, ladies. It's all a matter of geograpy and patience. You will find someone to rock your world.

absolutely hun... one day

 

[bamagirl]

I am sure all of us over a size 12 have felt the ego kicking power of hanging out with under size 12's and being ignored. OR having a conversation via the net with a person and having a mutually great time and then they see that we are not model thin and POOOOOF, they are gone. Some leave nicely, some leave telling you that you are fat and not worthy...but they leave just the same.

You said it Hun..I had that happen many times...

 

[babydoll2u]

I am sure all of us over a size 12 have felt the ego kicking power of hanging out with under size 12's and being ignored. OR having a conversation via the net with a person and having a mutually great time and then they see that we are not model thin and POOOOOF, they are gone. Some leave nicely, some leave telling you that you are fat and not worthy...but they leave just the same.

You said it Hun..I had that happen many times...

yup... me too

 

[Tycho14]

Personnally I think larger women are great. I wouldn't worry about the guys that don't like you just becuase of your size. They aren't worthy of being around you. So keep your hopes up your're bound to find someone who likes you for you.

 

[docsnore]

Been told by by several friends how lucky any woman will be, (always told that by the gals in a relationship or two far away to meet) but the truth is the smaller ladies don't turn their heads twice for a larger man either. The best part I've found is that when you are happy with yourself and happy with your partner, not much of size matters. What's this crazy talk about size 12 being a BBW, the 12 is just getting soft, still too many bones! but i won't look down on them for their malnutricion.
Anyway, power to all of us healthy people.
I just moved to Arizona, so if there is a woman sitting alone in the Mesa/Phoenix area that needs a friend, a dinner companion or even a little lov'in, I sure could use a gal to share some times with too. Leave a message or two!
and babydoll and bamagirl, and Minnie, not all of us guys disappear that fast, us good guys need to get kicked away! LOL

 

[minnie179]

oh i know that there are guys out there....just sometimes, like anyone no matter their size, i wish the ones i thought were attractive felt the same way.....

I have been accused of only dating tooth picks by a big man who could not understand that it was not the size of the person, but the personality.

ah, the world of dating is a dangerous and fickle web that we weave. No one person is right, no one person is wrong. We are all allowed to have our preferences and our attractions. All we can decide is what our priorities and standards are and stick to them. Some will fit, some will not, some will bitch, some will whine, some will leave, some will stay.....doesnt help us when our egos are bashed or our hearts broken but sooner or later we look up and see that we are awesome and sexy and sensual and someday somewhere someone who is available will be right for us.

 

[mrguitarmn]

I am sure all of us over a size 12 have felt the ego kicking power of hanging out with under size 12's and being ignored. OR having a conversation via the net with a person and having a mutually great time and then they see that we are not model thin and POOOOOF, they are gone. Some leave nicely, some leave telling you that you are fat and not worthy...but they leave just the same.

You said it Hun..I had that happen many times...

Sorry that you have had that happen...
I've been with the same bbw for almost 15 years ... I don't plan on leaving

 

[Darkknight2010]

oh i know that there are guys out there....just sometimes, like anyone no matter their size, i wish the ones i thought were attractive felt the same way.....

I have been accused of only dating tooth picks by a big man who could not understand that it was not the size of the person, but the personality.

ah, the world of dating is a dangerous and fickle web that we weave. No one person is right, no one person is wrong. We are all allowed to have our preferences and our attractions. All we can decide is what our priorities and standards are and stick to them. Some will fit, some will not, some will bitch, some will whine, some will leave, some will stay.....doesnt help us when our egos are bashed or our hearts broken but sooner or later we look up and see that we are awesome and sexy and sensual and someday somewhere someone who is available will be right for us.

'Dangerous and fickle' is an understatment describing dating. Sigh. And even when it seems like you have figured things out, things are clicking, all is well... something happens.

For me, that's the worst part, because you're stuck standing there going 'Ok... what did I do?' And sometimes... there's nothing to do. Whatever caused things to end just isn't in your hands... it just HAPPENS.

What works for me to not get too discouraged is remembering that it CAN work... that sometimes you DO capture lightening in a bottle, the stars are aligned... and it jsut clicks. It does NOT last forever... but the only way to find that feeling in your heart that feels THAT RIGHT is to go out there and find it. It's not easy, it's painful, it takes time and effort and seems to take forever... but to get to that point, to get that feeling again... it's worth trying.

 

[keiffers]

I personally tend to go for women not too large but not toothpick thin either. Put a little meat on them (pardon the reference but just being honest, and probably a little too blunt). But when it does come down to it, inner beauty is more important than outer beauty. Yeah, we'd all like someone nice and attractive (in our own mind) to look at, but you have to take into account the inner attractiveness and not base it on what they look like on the outside. Just my $.02c worth

 

[lajay]

Presslady,
You're lucky I'm not in Chicago...I LOVE larger ladies, they are usually, (my experience,) more sensual, and adventurous, sometimes it doesn't pay to live in L.A.!!
Good luck young lady, You hang in there ok?
Jay

 

[College_geek]

I'm a bit late to the discussion and too lazy to read the previous posts but it really is all about confidence and presentation. If you hold yourself high and love yourself, others should do the same. 'Course there's always that handful of assholes, but they don't matter in the long run. Yay for full figured women.

 

[docsnore]

Good Morning Ladies! Hugs and Kisses to all our lovely hotties!

 

[Mrs.H]

Oh my gosh! Another bbw thread?

Hoorah.....

 

[bamagirl]

Sorry that you have had that happen...
I've been with the same bbw for almost 15 years ... I don't plan on leaving

lucky woman.....

 

[firstclassmale]

bbw

I will admit that I find women inthe size 12 plus very very sensual and attractive..I think whether your plus size or notyou are a plus size as long as you are confident and ok with your size it usually reflects itself in your outward personality..it's not patronizing to say you like bigger gals.I do not find skinny and by skinny I mean flesh and bone attractive or healthy..there are clothes and lingere that are so sexy..lastly I think the attiude is very important .funnt and passionate versus arrogant and cold.