Big girl

hhhhmmmm.........

Good God y'all are far away from me tee hee i am not huge but I consider myself chunky and I have yet to have some complaints but I also have yet to meet anyone in this new adopted city of mine!:p
So y'all are welcome to PM me anytime;)
 
HAHAHA LittleDevilWithAHalo

fer christs sake.... i live in scotland
Yep I knew I liked scotland for some reason!! A trip is indeed needed.:D
 
Scotland is Beautifull (just like BBW"S!)

My family had been in the US since the Mayflower, but I have always felt more at home in the UK.

I have made the trip about 8 times although it's been close to 8 years since I have made it back.

Where in Scotland do you live? While I saw many houses when I was there I dont know which yellow cottage is yours!
 
Reubenesque is the best - but only if the lady is comfortable with herself. A fuller figure is incredibly sexy but can quickly become a turn off if it's all you hear about.

At the end of the day, apart from the first impression when you haven't spoken to someone, doesn't everyone find the personality attractive rather than the packaging? My experience is that BBW are the best lovers.

Keep it up - so to speak ;)
 
VanB said:
Reubenesque is the best - but only if the lady is comfortable with herself. A fuller figure is incredibly sexy but can quickly become a turn off if it's all you hear about.

Here, here! I have found that it is only an issue if I choose to make it one. Being happy with yourself is the ultimate goal.

By the way, it is true. We Ruebenesque beauties are fabulous lovers. Not better, not worse. Simply fabulous in our own right.

(Modesty is not one of my strong suits):D
 
Czarina you could have not said it better (Simply fabulous in our own right. ) When a man or woman wises up We look at the pages and not so much the cover Any more. The cover fades in time pages do not. So do not judge a woman by the way she looks alone look in side. What I am trying to say is as time goes On the outer beauty changes but inter beauty does not. So if us guys would think with Our brain not our one eyed head we would be a lot happier in the long run. :)
 
I, for one, have little prejudice about women's body type. I love them all, but to tell you the truth, the ones that get me up the fastest are bigger! Any "plus-size" women in the Hampton Roads area of Virginia wanna get together? E-mail me -- [email]Holden9981@literotica.org[/email].
 
Scotland - ayyyyyyyyyyyyyyye

*singing loudly* OH FLOWER OF SCOTLAND - WHEN WILL WE SEE, YOUR LIKE AGAIN....
:D
anybody care to talk to a smart & sexy rubenesque beauty feel free to pm me ;)

Yours saintly (more or less),
LDWAH
 
theonlyfunone said:
Czarina you could have not said it better (Simply fabulous in our own right. ) When a man or woman wises up We look at the pages and not so much the cover Any more. The cover fades in time pages do not. So do not judge a woman by the way she looks alone look in side. What I am trying to say is as time goes On the outer beauty changes but inter beauty does not. So if us guys would think with Our brain not our one eyed head we would be a lot happier in the long run. :)

Thank you, dearest. I owe you a kiss...and you may decide where!
 
Hey Czarina You do not owe me a kiss for that!! BUT I will be more that happy To take it!! So when can I come a get it?? And can you guess were?? I bet not.:p
 
Czarina

Nice that you agree - why not tell us about yourself and what you like;) Would love to know why you're so fabulous a lover what with modesty not being your strong suit!
 
All these others are dead right, only good lover is a big lover! BBW are the most caring, lovable and sexy types of ladies. Any reading this should email me if you have low esteem and I'll be your friend, OK
 
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I just want to know why if there are so many men that like BBWs (I happen to be one!) why can't I find one in person?? It always seems to me that I am overlooked by men. I think I am somewhat attractive, fun, and outgoing I just don't know what is going on! lol In fact, I have never once been asked out on a date! All three of my exs were introduced to me through friends! I think I am missing out! lol
 
What a great thread. As a BBW, or Rubenesque (great term, btw), I too got tired of feeling inferior.

With just a little searching, it's easy to find places on the net that cater to BBW's or FA (fat acceptance).

I must say it's nice to finally be appreciated, tho I think the first step is accept yourself for what you are. Then it's easier to accept the attentions of others. :)
 
bbwlynn-People dont ask me out.

perhaps you do not know that some have sent you pms. look above and click on "user cp" You may have a wonderful rush to see that some people do care.
 
Glad I found this thread....I have in my life only had relationships with BBW's they seem to be more sensual more loving..I guess Im just and addict or something <evil grin> well at least its something good to be addicted to...just too bad no one around My area to talk to ..all the BBW's here are to full of themselves or are taken <pout>> drop me a line any time..I would love to talk about anything your little heart desires
 
Slurp !!!!!!!!!

Ah........Hell..............yeah.!!!!!! A BBW with BBT's now that's the shit there!:D
 
OKAY I weigh, 250 lbs. My boobs aren't that huge. Like all you guys are saying you like. I don't have a pic. Sorry. But um, if what you heqard is good. then send me a personal message okay?
 
They are softer, more sensual and something I love they hav ebigger breasts.
 
SnLLuv69 you are so right and that is some mighty fine play toys :D
 
Re: :(

BBWlynn said:
I just want to know why if there are so many men that like BBWs (I happen to be one!) why can't I find one in person?? It always seems to me that I am overlooked by men. I think I am somewhat attractive, fun, and outgoing I just don't know what is going on! lol In fact, I have never once been asked out on a date! All three of my exs were introduced to me through friends! I think I am missing out! lol

Hi BBWlynn, and hello to the other beautiful Rubenesque ladies on here, allow me to jump in with my unsolicited thoughts:

It's amazing how many men indicate a fondness or preference for BBW's online, but it seems like a whole 'nother story out there in the real world, "in person" as lynn said. There seems to be some preconceived notion that ladies of the larger persuasion are less of everything, except for their size, and that's simply not true.
I'm a busty 230lbs and I love me dearly, and no I'm not in demand either, although I've got some great memories about a few good men who didn't give a damn about dimensions ;) but I sure as hell won't allow the lack of some misguided man's attention to make me feel any less of a woman! and when I'm getting acquainted with somebody online, I make sure all the stats are fully understood, on both sides, so nobody ends up with any "surprises".

This business of beauty is greatly overrated, as far as I'm concerned, it's not something to be put on a general plate and discussed like something on a menu. Everybody has different tastes and there is something about each of us that others of us will find appealing, and some not. There are some of our smaller sisters who are not the nicest people, as well as there are larger ladies who leave much to be desired, but I've learned that, on the whole, many gents will go for a less endowed lady, mainly because it's what society dictates; just look at the ads on TV, on billboards, in magazines, and movies, how many BBWs do you see featured advertising products or as prominent stars? no matter how capable or qualified they may be. One of my pet peeves.

Somebody on Lit said once, about liking fat women, because they were "low maintenance" "under sexed" and therefore, would always be "willing to get some", give me a break, I thought that those was the most insulting comments and I did reply with a large piece of my tongue, not exactly the going down he'd anticipated LOL

Then there's the matter of whether BBWs are considered sexy or not
-puhleeeze-
sexual or sensual is not predetermined by looks, it takes a lot more than body shape and size to get my attention, there are BBMen too. Whatever happened to personality, what about character and intellect, sense of humour, where did kind, considerate and caring go? Oh no, these don't seem to qualify, well dear ladies, if you've got all of these and more, and men don't find you attractive, then it's their loss. Just please don't go changing to try and please anybody but yourself.
And lynn, if they're so choosy, maybe they're not right for you
:)
 
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