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hi everyone, this is my first time posting in this thread and i have found it most enlightening and have enjoyed it emencely. everyone has such a great perspective and valid points. i am also a bbw that finds it difficult to obtain the attention of most guys (skinny or otherwise). i feel like i am an intelligent, funny, somewhat attractive, and a good lover, but like others i too feel like i am overlooked due to my wieght. i guess the thing that keeps me positive is that as shy as i am ( im not the type to apporach a guy, generally) the right guy for me probably wont be the most outgoing and aggressive type either and just maybe he is checkiing me out after all..
im a firm believer that what is meant to happen will and God will take me where i need to go to show me the way..
thanks to all for listening.. sorry if it doesnt all make sense!
im a firm believer that what is meant to happen will and God will take me where i need to go to show me the way..
thanks to all for listening.. sorry if it doesnt all make sense!
MizTabby
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I am what I am, Sam
and it's damn good from where I'm standing
aren't these ladies just great!!
beautiful poem roxie, made my day, thanks, and there's so much truth in it too.
*emma, everything you said made sense, and I also think the way you do, about that guy who may be checking you out, and maybe he's not the aggressive type as you say, but I sure hope he'll drop a hint or say something to you (me, us) soon
**and congrats to BBWlynn on that fine pic you posted, looking good girl
and it's damn good from where I'm standing
aren't these ladies just great!!
beautiful poem roxie, made my day, thanks, and there's so much truth in it too.
*emma, everything you said made sense, and I also think the way you do, about that guy who may be checking you out, and maybe he's not the aggressive type as you say, but I sure hope he'll drop a hint or say something to you (me, us) soon
**and congrats to BBWlynn on that fine pic you posted, looking good girl
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If you are into sex 100% who cares about size !
If you are into sex 100% who cares about size !
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robin hood so I guess that if you are not in to sex 100%
Size maters????? What if a BBW came up to you to talk and did not want sex ??? Would you talk to her??? And if this is the case
Well I feel sorry for you just because they are big that does not make them a bad person. They have feelings to and not just for sex look at what’s on the inside and not the outside and if you do this you might find the love of your life and the best dam sex that you will ever find I hope that what I see between the lines of what you have said is wrong but if I am right then you are a jackass yes, no ?????
Size maters????? What if a BBW came up to you to talk and did not want sex ??? Would you talk to her??? And if this is the case
Well I feel sorry for you just because they are big that does not make them a bad person. They have feelings to and not just for sex look at what’s on the inside and not the outside and if you do this you might find the love of your life and the best dam sex that you will ever find I hope that what I see between the lines of what you have said is wrong but if I am right then you are a jackass yes, no ?????
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roxie
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Re: I am what I am, Sam
Thanks everyone! It has always been one of my favorites. Glad I could lighten everyone's day!
MizTabby said:and it's damn good from where I'm standing
aren't these ladies just great!!
beautiful poem roxie, made my day, thanks, and there's so much truth in it too.
Thanks everyone! It has always been one of my favorites. Glad I could lighten everyone's day!
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I think the idea of this whole thing is that we shouldn't judge people based on size. Unfortunately, in finding love, most people look for sex appeal first, whether they find that in the stick-like look that is in right now, in larger women, or in people somewhere in between. In ANY case, this is sad if we're talking about making a love connection here. Personally, a lot of the times I end up feeling more attracted to a woman after I've gotten to know her. Sometimes this is a person I've not thought of in a sexual sense previously. Unfortunately, since she hadn't thought of me in that light either, I am left without the opportunity to explore that path. If you want people to be interested in you for who you are, don't count out friends or people you don't think you're attracted to sexually, whether they're too thin for your tastes or even too heavy. Explore all the possibilities; that's the only way.
But in a purely sexual sense--it's sad that heavy people (myself included, and I'm a guy) are relegated to a place where we're not supposed to have desire. Any indication that we might is considered "cute" or gross. I find this insulting, demeaning, and altogether unacceptable. Anybody out there to stand up for us heavier guys?
But in a purely sexual sense--it's sad that heavy people (myself included, and I'm a guy) are relegated to a place where we're not supposed to have desire. Any indication that we might is considered "cute" or gross. I find this insulting, demeaning, and altogether unacceptable. Anybody out there to stand up for us heavier guys?
not picky about figure personally.. what attracts me to a woman is personality and the way she carries herself..... you can be a hot little thing thats playful and sexy.... but you can be overweight and still be playful and sexy.... it dosnt matter to me.... chubby just means theres more to hold onto
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Thanks to everyone in here...
I'm a BBW and have been since my early 20's. I've gotten called names, I've missed out on at least one job (the guy said he didn't think I'd look right sitting at the reception desk), I've had the looks from people (you know the ones I mean). But inside, I'm just me. I laugh and I cry and I worry and I fight. Most of all, I care.
It's always been easy to be friends with guys, but sometimes I get really tired of being JUST friends. They talk to me about their relationships and their hopes and dreams, then they go home to their sweethearts or out to the bars with their guy friends looking for some "hottie". I wish someone would want to come home to be with ME.
And it's not at all about looking for a man that society deems meets the "studmuffin" image. It's about who that man is inside. I've been attracted to jocks and I've been attracted to teddy bears. I'm looking for someone who can carry on a conversation and who respects and cares about me and who will open up to me and allow me to care about him, and like my profile says, I'm looking for the guy who can give that perfect hug.
I'm a BBW and have been since my early 20's. I've gotten called names, I've missed out on at least one job (the guy said he didn't think I'd look right sitting at the reception desk), I've had the looks from people (you know the ones I mean). But inside, I'm just me. I laugh and I cry and I worry and I fight. Most of all, I care.
It's always been easy to be friends with guys, but sometimes I get really tired of being JUST friends. They talk to me about their relationships and their hopes and dreams, then they go home to their sweethearts or out to the bars with their guy friends looking for some "hottie". I wish someone would want to come home to be with ME.
And it's not at all about looking for a man that society deems meets the "studmuffin" image. It's about who that man is inside. I've been attracted to jocks and I've been attracted to teddy bears. I'm looking for someone who can carry on a conversation and who respects and cares about me and who will open up to me and allow me to care about him, and like my profile says, I'm looking for the guy who can give that perfect hug.
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Re: Thanks to everyone in here...
*WhiteRose, you sound like an absolutely charming young lady, and from the way you express yourself here and that tasteful profile you have, I can't see any gent not wanting to hurry and make your acquaintance.
I'm sorry you had that experience with the receptionist job, that jackass would certainly have benefited from someone with a plus personality (no pun intended) like yourself, but there we go again, there's no real way to rationalize how some people think.
I sure hope your teddy bear is reading!
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Anybody out there to stand up for us heavier guys?
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Holden, you sound like a great guy! I quite appreciate what you said here
<"If you want people to be interested in you for who you are, don't count out friends or people you don't think you're attracted to sexually, whether they're too thin for your tastes or even too heavy. Explore all the possibilities;>"
I agree, we aren't always attracted at first sexually to people, many a great romance has blossomed from being friends first, of course I'm a firm believer in what WhiteRose calls a "teddy bear", a person who is warm and cuddly just can't be beat!
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I do! I stand up, I sit down, I...well...that's another thread, I think!
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*pipercatt, you are the cat's meow
WhiteRose said:
*WhiteRose, you sound like an absolutely charming young lady, and from the way you express yourself here and that tasteful profile you have, I can't see any gent not wanting to hurry and make your acquaintance.
I'm sorry you had that experience with the receptionist job, that jackass would certainly have benefited from someone with a plus personality (no pun intended) like yourself, but there we go again, there's no real way to rationalize how some people think.
I sure hope your teddy bear is reading!
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Originally posted by Holden9981
Anybody out there to stand up for us heavier guys?
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Holden, you sound like a great guy! I quite appreciate what you said here
<"If you want people to be interested in you for who you are, don't count out friends or people you don't think you're attracted to sexually, whether they're too thin for your tastes or even too heavy. Explore all the possibilities;>"
I agree, we aren't always attracted at first sexually to people, many a great romance has blossomed from being friends first, of course I'm a firm believer in what WhiteRose calls a "teddy bear", a person who is warm and cuddly just can't be beat!
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Originally posted by pipercatt
I do! I stand up, I sit down, I...well...that's another thread, I think!
LOL
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*pipercatt, you are the cat's meow
can i take a quick poll? all the guys/men here that have said that they appreciate, like, are attracted to, and prefer bbw.. can i ask your ages? i find in general these are older men that have learned to appreciate life and women for who they are, it seems quite difficult to find a younger (20-30 years old) who feel this way. thanks to all and have a wonderful day!
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I'm Sorta A BBW I'm not Like Fat Fat just chubby! Are there any guys from Wisconsin here? Or anyone that would like to chat? Email me Wannabeloved_bysomeone@yahoo.com
Age is a level of pain...51 here and yes
I have always been attracted Your theory is that age develops appreciation. My theory is that first sexual experience develops a fantasy desire to do it and feel the same way that it felt the first time.
I have always been attracted Your theory is that age develops appreciation. My theory is that first sexual experience develops a fantasy desire to do it and feel the same way that it felt the first time.
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MizTabby
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Good points
I think you may be right about the more mature gents having greater appreciation for us emma, but at the same time, the older a man is, the more he seems to be appreciative of ALL of a woman's attributes
*great "initiation" you experienced back then, sandy, you might just be onto something with that theory of yours, especially since it's seldom that the "fat" girls get noticed in in their teens, gosh, now you've got me thinking again lol
BTW I'm all for the laughter, the smiles and the touching
emma:o) said:
I think you may be right about the more mature gents having greater appreciation for us emma, but at the same time, the older a man is, the more he seems to be appreciative of ALL of a woman's attributes
*great "initiation" you experienced back then, sandy, you might just be onto something with that theory of yours, especially since it's seldom that the "fat" girls get noticed in in their teens, gosh, now you've got me thinking again lol
BTW I'm all for the laughter, the smiles and the touching
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I'm 20, and I'm attracted to larger women, depending on what they're like. I'm not attracted to them exclusively, mind you; I meant what I said about exploring possibilities. I don't have a "type", nor do I believe that we should limit ourselves that way. But I've found somewhat chubby women more attractive than most for at least a couple of years.
PLEASE, some Virginia Beach BBWs post here! I know you're out there!
PLEASE, some Virginia Beach BBWs post here! I know you're out there!
NeoMeiouSetsuna
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Glad to hear...
I'm to glad to hear that everyone has a postivie image of themselves and what they are about. It's good to be able to talk to people that don't think of being big as a handicap. I love who I am and being a bbw.
I'm to glad to hear that everyone has a postivie image of themselves and what they are about. It's good to be able to talk to people that don't think of being big as a handicap. I love who I am and being a bbw.
