Big girl

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WhiteRose

WhiteRose


What I want to know is...
...although there are a lot of guys around here who say they love sex with a BBW, how many would actually take one out in public on dates? How many would get up and walk across a dance floor with a heavy girl, wrap his arms around her and dance? How many would introduce her to his friends as his love...and not just his sex partner? How many would be proud to show her off as someone he cares about?

I'm still waiting for him…


Well more then you think…. Me for one…. I do not know about others but for me I can not have sex with some one unless I like and care for them……
I have been with all sizes and my x was a little on the big side and that was the way she was when we got married. We stayed married for 17 years..
The last girl friend was a BBW and that lasted 4 years… so I do not look at the out Side so much as the inside of a person and yes I did take her out on dates..
Sorry do not dance… want to teach me lol….. And all my friends knew all about her.
When you love some one you do not see the out side as much as the inside.
Looks change over the years… The best sex ever was with her… but like I said I have to care about some one be for I can have sex with them.. I guess that happens the older you get….
If you would like to talk about this some more e-mail me

 

[ShyGal]

You guys are so nice.... were are you in real life?

Sigh... Just like that Alanis song... "... You meet the man of your dreams, and then you meet his beautiful wife... Isn't it ironic?"

Just in this case... all of you are either far away or married!

It is a good thing that in real life I am a stronger person than I seem to portray myself here!!!

Happy Valentine's Day all.... Hope you with partners appreciate them!

 

[Guest]

hey shy gal,

hands you a dozen roses...happy valentines day...i know i'm far away, but i thought i'd post anyway..i'm a 21 yr old lonely college guy from ct looking for a special girl....email me and tell me about you!!!!!

steve
dlineg78@yahoo.com

 

[ShyGal]

Thanks Steve, look forward to talking w/ya!

 

[LoveMeHateMe]

applauding everyone!

Wow Y'all! What a great thread! I can't wait to come back tomorrow when I have more time to read through! Being a curvy woman it's nice to read all the great compliments....

 

[WhiteRose]

Re: WhiteRose

WhiteRose

When you love some one you do not see the out side as much as the inside.

I agree, it's just that it seems SO difficult finding someone who can't get past the outside to see what's on the inside unless you meet them online.

 

[Jack_Shriker]

ahh so true

 

[WhiteRose]

Jack, ya goof, empty your pm box

 

[MizTabby]

Re: Re: WhiteRose

I agree, it's just that it seems SO difficult finding someone who can't get past the outside to see what's on the inside unless you meet them online.

You just hit the nail on the head WhiteRose, and the truth of what you say rings loud and clear, I just felt a sort of thud in my heart

I have met so many gents who just simply adore my BBW status, oh they've all seen my pics and read my writing, and in response, I get words like "luscious, yummy, terrific, beautiful babe, witty, great personality, intelligent, wowserz, wanna?, adorable" and the list goes on, and sure, they sound really good, quite a boost for both the ego and libido, but it ain't so anywhere else but on line, and that's where all those wonderful BBW fans usually remain.

Usually I'm upbeat and so enthusiastic about being who I am, and very outspoken about my sister-BBWs, I don't know why I just got to feeling a bit disheartened after reading your thoughts WhiteRose. No, it wasn't you who caused it, it's probably being fully aware that some will never "get past the outside".

That "outside" is a rating system, as far as I can see, there's the times I've met a couple of the gents, and nada; the bulges weren't in the right places, or they had their own ideas about how voluptuous I ought to be, or I didn't quite look like the pic, or my hair looked different, or they didn't think I'd mind that they were attached, or they'd call (those famous last words) I used to cyber some time ago, but I stopped because there really wasn't much satisfaction derived from it, and it wasn't this BBW they were going ga ga about. But hope springs eternal, and I'm no quitter, so I'm still on the waiting list.


Anyway ladies (and gents) enough of my rambling, it's Friday, hope you have a good one!

and thanks for that wake up call WhiteRose

 

[bigleonardo]

I'm a rubenesc beauty myself - of course there are times when I wish I wasnt (esp. when I am being told that every item in a store is only available in sizes 6 - 10) but I love what I look like - and it helps that Im smart, sexy & funny (and ever so modest )

~~
If anyone sees my Knight in Shining Armour trotting along the way, please point him in my direction.

I personally like a larger woman.....basically one in proportion, I am not into someone 5' 0" and close to 350 lbs, truly no offense.

I also am not interested in pretzels.....

I woman that I can hold on to.....that has desires that I could share is awesome....

Big
L

 

[MizTabby]

in proportion

I personally like a larger woman.....basically one in proportion, I am not into someone 5' 0" and close to 350 lbs, truly no offense.
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Hi BigL, I wouldn't have minded hearing some feedback on what I wrote, from a gent's perspective.
I'm 5'5, 223lbs, would that be, do you think that might be someone to hold on to just being hypothetical here.

 

[Jewelz]

I am glad this thread resurfaced too! I have to agree with my sisters of curves and beauty....some say they like it but it has been my experience that as soon as I send out my pic to someone, they are done, finished, brushing their hands off from even wanting to know ME. This has just happened recently on here...met someone, had a lil cyber fun, sent my pic, he said he wasnt into big girls, i said fine, that is how it usually goes, he said we can still be friends, i say great, my comments go unanswered... LOVELY feeling let me tell ya! BUT I have learned alot from being a bigger woman.....I may not be the ideal woman to get the guys beating off, but I have what it takes to keep a man for 14 years and he is totally loving me and my body! SURE! I would LOVE to be the thin and gorgeous like the girls you see here on lit, but Im not. But if anyone would take the time to get to know me, get passed the "biggness" of me, they would see what a BIG heart I have, and that I am a great friend to have. I pride myself in that. And I am so thankful that at least one AWESOME man has done so, and now we are great great friends....I treasure the friendship I have with him. (Kisses Papi love)....

Sorry for ramblin, this was just a great thread to post my feelings on!

Kisses and hugs to ALL of you beautiful women on Lit....every shape and size....from "perfect" and "ideal" to women like myself...

To the men that love women, esp of size.....thank you for noticing we can be just as sexy!

 

[WhiteRose]

I guess the important thing is to learn to be happy, no matter if our external appearance doesn't quite fit into society's views on what's "good". It's hard sometimes, like coming out of a 2 year relationship when the guy tells you he "deserves a supermodel, and you don't exactly fit the mold" heh. Oh well, I guess we have to realize that if the guy is only looking at the external package, why would we want him anyway? Do we want someone that shallow? I don't.

I'd much rather have someone for the long haul that sees the whole me, my strengths and my weakness, my fears and my dreams, and truly wants to share in them with me (okay, not exactly share the fears, but you know what I mean). And carrying the spiders outside for me, and making sure the sidewalks are free of worms after a rainstorm so I don't step on or near them would be nice too

But I don't really think you can get happiness from someone else. I think you have to find it within, and that's the first step to finding someone to have a successful relationship with.

 

[Guest]

MizTabby,WhiteRose

MizTabby,WhiteRose
You two make it sound like all the guys on here are like that.
Just on line…… that’s just not true… I have not seen your
Pictures and if I knew you I would go out with you if we liked
Some of the same things. And I would not try and get in to your
pants either. Don’t get me wrong I love sex….. More than most
But that is not the way I do things…... I do not get on here for
sex……….
I get on here to talk and try and make new friends…….. And maybe fined some one to love..

I'm 5'5, 223lbs, would that be, do you think that might be someone to hold on to just being hypothetical here.

MizTabby yes you would be some one to hold on to…..
Lets see... would you go out with a guy who is loosing his hair???
How about 5’ 10”, 200lbs……
After you saw there picture would you still e-mail them…..
Some girls on here do not… I have sent them my picture an that
was it no more e-mails not even a kiss my ass….

All I am trying to say is not all guys are like that……
E-mail me and lets talk…...

 

[WhiteRose]

Actually, I like bald heads Avery Brooks (yummy), Telly Savalas (yes, going back a few years), Michael Jordan (hehe), and that hot guy who plays Lex Luthor on Smallville (I'm too lazy to look up his name right now, but I've had some wild fantasies about him!). I like men with hair also, but the hair thing has never been an issue with me as long as it's clean and kept neatly.

 

[Jewelz]

WhiteRose

You are remarkably right and so good with words! I feel the exact same way. And in general, I love who I am on the inside, am not totally happy with the outside but am doing something about it! It just isnt cool to judge and thats what brings *me* down sometimes, is how cruel people can be. But c'est la vie, no? Thanks for your wonderful insight! HUGS!!!!!!!

 

[MizTabby]

Re: MizTabby,WhiteRose

MizTabby,WhiteRose
You two make it sound like all the guys on here are like that.
Just on line…… that’s just not true… I have not seen your
Pictures and if I knew you I would go out with you if we liked
Some of the same things. And I would not try and get in to your
pants either. Don’t get me wrong I love sex….. More than most
But that is not the way I do things…... I do not get on here for
sex……….
I get on here to talk and try and make new friends…….. And maybe fined some one to love..

I'm 5'5, 223lbs, would that be, do you think that might be someone to hold on to just being hypothetical here.

MizTabby yes you would be some one to hold on to…..
Lets see... would you go out with a guy who is loosing his hair???
How about 5’ 10”, 200lbs……
After you saw there picture would you still e-mail them…..
Some girls on here do not… I have sent them my picture an that
was it no more e-mails not even a kiss my ass….

All I am trying to say is not all guys are like that……
E-mail me and lets talk…...

Many thanks for your input, theonlyfunone, I do appreciate your thoughts.

It wasn't my intention to insinuate that the men on here, meaning Lit, do not consider larger ladies worthy of knowing, I meant online in general, based only on my own experiences, and making that reference to WhiteRose's comment.

When it comes to online acquaintances, my "search" has been a broad and lengthy one, and the end result of many conversations and even more e-mailing back n forth, is just as I mentioned in my previous post. Now, the interesting thing is this, if I were willing to jump in the sack on any one of those first encounters, the "BBW adorer" would probably call back, of course, when he had the urge on some other occasion, but taking into account that I'm probably soooo old fashioned that I still want a relationship, something steady and long-lasting, I have declined the "offer" and therefore remain without Mr Significant Other.

OK, now about that hair affair LOL
I would go out, did go out, and probably will go out again (hopefully sometime this century) with that gent losing his hair or with no hair at all!
If I kept a record of all the mail I answer, before and after and sometimes not even seeing the gents' pics, I wouldn't have enough space to put them. I think it is a total lack of consideration to leave someone wondering "what happened?" and a gesture of courtesy to let the gent/lady know that their time and effort was appreciated, with a gracefully worded "no thank you", is the least one can do, dust yourself off, and start all over again. That's how I approach these matters. So how about that pic?

*WhiteRose, I really identify with your "long haul" statement, and I'm sorry that the relationship ended like that. And yes, happy within, that is something which is always reflected on the outside, but unfortunately, it's not noticed by everyone.

*Jewelz, you gave me a boost, thanks!
However, I'll always be big, I enjoy cooking and sampling far too much, whatever became of "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach"? there I go with my antique thoughts again

 

[Jack_Shriker]

just wanted to give all you big women a hug and a kiss your beautiful stay the way you want to be

 

[Gil_T2]

Why do guys only like BBW online?

Simple answer to this for me as I'm Downunder and you up there
and because of problems I have can't travel But I have made contact with a BBW here via LIT
Ladies get out there tell us what you want from us and you will get results......I'd like to give each one of you a big hug

 

[LoveMeHateMe]

Awww Gil honey.....if I could make a trip Down Under I would in a heartbeat. I know what a sweetheart you are....

 

[Gil_T2]

LoveMeHateMe

With the pics I've seen of you and your last post to me I'm sure I'll ne thinking of you sweet lady for a long time to cum

 

[LoveMeHateMe]

So, Gil.....why is it that you can't travel? Is that too nosey? And I'm glad you like the pictures....anything else you'd like to see?

 

[Jack_Shriker]

just thought id bust in again here and say lovely pics in the bbw pics thread loveme hate me you are a lovely lady and get me going all the time

 

[LoveMeHateMe]

Awww Jack.....thanks sweetie! I'm glad my pictures get your motor runnin'....I certainly do like to show 'em off enough, huh?? You can "bust" in any time you'd like.....

 

[Gil_T2]

Why I can't travel

There are several reasons but the main one is lack of income but if you email me i'll detail it more indepth.
As for getting our motors running it's more like running at full revs and redlining the motor with your hot pics!!!!