Big girl

[Phantom60]

I'm a "i like who I like" guy

Even though i am 40's I've never had just one type of lady who turned me on.Tall,short,fat,thin,young,old no one type has had any attraction over the others it has been a personal choice at the time.As far as sex goes I've had good and bad regardless of type.But must admit that the bigger ladies do hold something special that attracts my initial interests.THEY ARE ALL LADIES TO ME!

 

[ShyGal]

White Rose... thank you for such an eloquent post. I can say that I feel the very same exact way. I am also in search of the a relationship and it is hard when you are a BBW.

As to what Holden stated, it is almost as if people don't realize that we have the same feelings (sexually or relationship-wise) as our skinnier counterparts.

I currently live with a guy friend (just friends, unfortunately) and some of the most interesting and in-depth conversation we have are about relationships... He states he is looking for a certain type of personality but is so caught up in the outside that it never occurs to him to look past the skinny bodies.

It is funny cause he once told me: "You strike me as the type of girl that has a lot of guy friends." At the time it was a compliment about the way I seem to relate to guys... but man, the more I think of it... well...::sigh::

We seem to be permanently stuck in the "friend" mode.

Sigh... Any of you young (and young at heart) BBW lovers feel free to drop me a line....

 

[WhiteRose]

What I want to know is...

...although there are a lot of guys around here who say they love sex with a BBW, how many would actually take one out in public on dates? How many would get up and walk across a dance floor with a heavy girl, wrap his arms around her and dance? How many would introduce her to his friends as his love...and not just his sex partner? How many would be proud to show her off as someone he cares about?

I'm still waiting for him...

 

[Jack_Shriker]

I myself have recieved riddicule from my friendsfor the women i date but what do i say to them i say screw you your not dating them and i care about them i for one wouldnt be ashamed of an lady that i went out with the size of a woman doesnt matter the heart and mind of a woman do

 

[WhiteRose]

Hiya Jack *smiles and kisses you on the cheek*

Thanks

 

[Jack_Shriker]

its m pleasure WhiteRose sorta pisses me off the guys who do this thing all te womeni have dated have been bbws i love all of them and are good friends with them i cant help it i like big women should i be ashamed no

 

[Dracoa]

My first lover was/is a BBW, and from her I got the best sex I've ever had. She also had a great personality, I was comfortable around her from the start, if I'm like that with any female, chances are I'll find them attractive, it doesn't matter what size they are.

 

[Lady_Sam]

As a rubenesque woman, I, too have found myself in that "good friends" category. Im the one they come to for advice. And I've always been a firm believer in "when you aren't looking it'll hit you," but sometimes that can be damned lonely.

I would just love to meet a guy who appreciates me for my sense of humor, my spirit, my ability to care for him and not judge me for what I look like on the outside. That's what I would give. *steps off of soap box* Ah well, back to the solo parent thing too.

By the way....I'm gathering my courage and posting a pic. Though it's not a naked one.

 

[Jack_Shriker]

your absolutely lovely lady Sam

 

[Lady_Sam]

Thank you Jack.

 

[Jack_Shriker]

my pleasure hun your simply adorable wish i was older id ask you out

 

[Dracoa]

Lady_Sam, my first thought at seeing your pic was "Oh wow!" You are a beautiful woman, just by going on appearances.

 

[Lady_Sam]

*smiles* I'd definitely take you up on the invite. Now if only it were as easy to find a guy with an oddball sense of humor, who likes Monty Python and RHPS, likes modern rock, fantasy roleplaying... Wait wait what am I doing...must be my bed time I'm losing it.


Draco, thank you kindly. It does my ego good to hear that at times.

 

[armyjim_2000]

Funny...I married a BBW

And I didn't even notice! Actually, she gained a few pounds (up to close to my weight at the time, which was about 230) after my son was born, and I didn't notice too much then either (except when we got acrobatic in the sack...I noticed a little then). Since then, she's actually down to a svelte 175...I didn't marry her because I wanted to make a fashion statement (although I did!), I married her because I loved her! Funny...you don't notice those things when you're a bit older. Sure, the young, thin ones are nice to look at, but they don't look at me, so why bother?

Besides, I'd be afraid I'd BREAK a young, skinny one with the stuff we do in the sack!

My lady is built for comfort, not speed...and I'm good when I go slow, anyway!

 

[Dracoa]

*smiles* I'd definitely take you up on the invite. Now if only it were as easy to find a guy with an oddball sense of humor, who likes Monty Python and RHPS, likes modern rock, fantasy roleplaying... Wait wait what am I doing...must be my bed time I'm losing it.


Draco, thank you kindly. It does my ego good to hear that at times.

I'll laugh at almost any kind of joke, Monty Python? NI!, I've been told I look like Riff Raff from RHPS, and I liked what I saw of the movie, modern rock? I like just about every kind of rock, fantasy roleplay? I'm looking into a LARP that is fantasy. And your welcome. I mean what I said too.

 

[Lady_Sam]

Dracoa said

I'll laugh at almost any kind of joke, Monty Python? NI!, I've been told I look like Riff Raff from RHPS, and I liked what I saw of the movie, modern rock? I like just about every kind of rock, fantasy roleplay? I'm looking into a LARP that is fantasy. And your welcome. I mean what I said too.

Unfortunately no LARP here *pouts* So I tend to do a lot of my roleplaying in either chats or my guilty pleasure a mmorpg that I'm hooked on. *soft kiss on cheek*

 

[Dracoa]

Dracoa said



Unfortunately no LARP here *pouts* So I tend to do a lot of my roleplaying in either chats or my guilty pleasure a mmorpg that I'm hooked on. *soft kiss on cheek*

Well before I even knew about LARP I was into AD&D and RPing in chats, then it became V:tM. So yeah, I'm pretty much into it all.

 

[Jack_Shriker]

lady sam i have to ask which mmorpg i have an account on almost everyone im a huge roleplayer and hell monty pythoin who cant love his comedy
all i have to say is spammity spam spam

 

[Guest]

I am 23 girl married and want lesbian sex so much if anybody help me mail me at sumee@37.com

 

[Lady_Sam]

Jack, I admit to being addicted to the oldest one out there. UO.

 

[MizTabby]

I'm glad this resurfaced

and on a day like today!

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY
to you dear BBW ladies, the ones with the BIG hearts, the BIG smiles, the BIG BEAUTIFUL personality, the BIG aspirations, the BIG compassion, the BIG zest for life, the BIG ability to be friends, the BIG sister, the BIG confidante, the BIG shoulder to lean on, and of course the BIG treats

I like your way of thinking, WhiteRose, and you're looking good Lady_Sam!

Thanks to the gents who expressed their appreciation too

http://angledesigns.com/ecards/images/ahugging.gif

and here's a cool cat who loves us all
http://d21c.com/AnnesPlace/Val/Sylvester.gif

 

[pleasingsue]

Maybe I do...

...live near you, Halo. I am in a house by the sea, too, and enjoy women who are curvy, chunky, Rubenesque, etc...just as long as they have not really let themselves go. A woman with 20, or 30, or even 50 pound more than she "needs", can be more attractive than a celery-munching twiggy. Erotic and sensuous beats neurotic and contemptuous every time, in my book, regardless of the package it is wrapped in.

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

OMG

I never seen this thread before!

I thought hubby was one of a kind liking me being a bigger woman!!

 

[mjp351]

Hi all
just reading this thread and I would like to make a few comments. I think that all women no matter shape or size has a lot to offer any man. I think that we all as human beings are shallow in some respects in various thoughts action and reactions. I myself have dated both bbws and thin women and to be honest the bbws have the thin ones beat by a mile they are very much more passionate and caring and loving. My spouse is thin but its funny i am a bigger male ( i wasnt too big when we got married) I now weigh 250 and about 6ft tall. I get looks from some of the women that makes me feel uncomfortable but yet i do dress very nicely and stylish for a bigger man. I also have found that some women have the same thoughts about big males too so it is not just the males that have the issue with bigger people it is also the females too. We as males are supposed to look like the gods with their washboard abs etc to get that special someone. It is the same for women too they ahve been sold a line that they must look a certain way in order to get a male. I think that is just a bunch of crap. It is not looks that gets you that special person but it is how you treat them and your inner self that draws another person to you.

 

[Jack_Shriker]

ahh hell yes damn god one i dont play on osi any more though play on free servers