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Rowan00 said:
Honestly, my longest relationship was three years, and it wasn't a marriage although we were engaged by the end. It took a pretty long time to fully get over it, but I'd say after the first couple months it got a lot easier. There will be good days and bad, times when you think are through it only to have the pain return and blindside you once again. Just keep your head above water and be good to yourself during this time -- understand that it is NOT your fault and do what you need to do to get through. Talk to us, we'll help you all we can.
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Thankyou. 7 years of my life just gone.
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
It feels real. It is real. but yes.
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That's the first step. Talking about it can try to heal the emotional scars....but the physical can be tough if on going.

Have had a few good friends get me through some trying times......

Time to return the favor.
 
That is a VERY gorgeous photograph.

I'm sure you have good reason to cry, but you have good reason to smirk and wink as well.
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
Thankyou. 7 years of my life just gone.
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That is a long time, and yeah, that means it is going to be a while before you fully get him out of your system. The good news is there's so much of your future ahead of you, much more time than just those seven years. And even though I'm sure it's probably impossible to think about other people right now, I have no doubt that when you are eventually ready, there is someone wonderful in your future who will want to give you a lot more than just seven years. It is OK to be sad, even devastated, just please never lose hope in that.
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
Just wasn't the person I thought I had married.
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It's more then about him being the one with the problem and not you. Better to move on with your life instead of living in a relationship that is not real, at least from his perspective. You are worth more than to allow yourself to be lied to just for the sake of staying in a relationship.
 
Rowan00 said:
That is a long time, and yeah, that means it is going to be a while before you fully get him out of your system. The good news is there's so much of your future ahead of you, much more time than just those seven years. And even though I'm sure it's probably impossible to think about other people right now, I have no doubt that when you are eventually ready, there is someone wonderful in your future who will want to give you a lot more than just seven years. It is OK to be sad, even devastated, just please never lose hope in that.
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Im here in tears, i dont even know what im doing here. I just cant believe it. I'm in shock
 
Id like to help you mend your broken heart. Wait, is that a song?
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
Im here in tears, i dont even know what im doing here. I just cant believe it. I'm in shock
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Wish I could offer you more than just words, because I am sure they don't help all that much. As soon as you feel up to it, get out with the girls or do something, anything, to just get yourself out and about -- I found that even if only a little that sort of thing did help.
 
MaleNC said:
It's more then about him being the one with the problem and not you. Better to move on with your life instead of living in a relationship that is not real, at least from his perspective. You are worth more than to allow yourself to be lied to just for the sake of staying in a relationship.
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But how could he do this? I thought we would be together forever. its not the first time he has done this. this is the 4th time.
 
Rowan00 said:
Wish I could offer you more than just words, because I am sure they don't help all that much. As soon as you feel up to it, get out with the girls or do something, anything, to just get yourself out and about -- I found that even if only a little that sort of thing did help.
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I have no friends. They all warned me off him years ago. I have been so stupid, I cut them out my life
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
do i?
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You've not revealed much about yourself save one photograph, but based solely on that image I can truly say yes, you do.

You look sexy in that photograph, and, if nothing else, your ownership of that sexiness is reason enough to wink and feel good about yourself. :rose:
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
I have no friends. They all warned me off him years ago. I have been so stupid, I cut them out my life
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I'm sorry. Yeah, the problem when you're with someone for so long -- especially if it's someone your friends don't particularly care for -- is you tend to distance yourself from everyone else. I kind of felt the same way when I came out of my engagement. But I wouldn't be surprised if some of those people would still love to hear from you. It's worth considering making a call or two. And even if that's not the case, what I said earlier still stands about taking care of yourself -- go out shopping, maybe buy yourself a new dress that also shows off that incredible body you have. Treat yourself to a movie or a day at the spa -- anything to just get you out and maybe the lift the clouds for a few hours.

And obviously you already have a ton of us on here willing to chat with you whenever. So in no way are you alone.
 
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