Blinded by Love

[dkovic77]

Anytime BG. Do not hesitate to reach out to any of us.

 

[BrokenGirl30]

Your picture is beautiful and I am sorry to hear you are so broken. From what you have shared, it sounds like you have been isolated from outside friends and think no one cares. They do. True friends would. You need to do what is uncomfortable and start slowly reaching back out to others. This is a safe great first step. You should be proud of yourself for dabbing you toe back in the water of sharing your feelings with others. Get comfortable in the online and then start reaching out to friends around you in the physical world. Controlling people often try to keep their spouses away from others. To control them and manipulate them to the point that they feel like others don't care. That gives them power. It makes you dependent on them. It's not real. Its just your perception. Start chipping away at that perception and rebuild your self-esteem. I have some thoughts on books and groups that could help. Anyway .. you should be proud of yourself here. But keep working. Keep doing what is uncomfortable and you will bounce back. Don't let other people or other people's opinion of you determine your happiness. You can be, do, achieve. Believe and bounce back. You're not a victim, you're a victor. Rest of your life the best of your life.

Thankyou. alot of what you said makes sense. I just dont want it to take long. Feeling like this is so horrible.

 

[sensyngman]

Very nice pics I hope this ends up being something positive for you in some way.


xxx
Tyler

 

[Rowan00]

Thankyou to everyone for the posts, comments and messages of support. I said in my first post that this may be the wronf thing to do. I can say it has not been already.
I never thought such support could be found here. I thank you all.

Well I will reiterate that the fact you appear to be a breathtakingly gorgeous woman .... I could look at you all day and never get tired. I hope we can provide you with everything you need while you're here in return for sharing your loveliness with us.

 

[BrokenGirl30]

Very nice pics I hope this ends up being something positive for you in some way.


xxx
Tyler

thanks,

 

[BrokenGirl30]

I want to tell him how much he has hurt me. should i text him?

 

[BrokenGirl30]

Well I will reiterate that the fact you appear to be a breathtakingly gorgeous woman .... I could look at you all day and never get tired. I hope we can provide you with everything you need while you're here in return for sharing your loveliness with us.

Thanks. Even if you are just being nice

 

[Rowan00]

Thanks. Even if you are just being nice

Oh I'm not being nice .... actually I didn't want to be anything resembling vulgar at a time like this, but if you could see the bulge in my pants you've already caused, you would know for a fact I am not "just being nice."

I don't know if I'd text him at this point .... I think the less you have to do with him now, the better, and the quicker you can heal. But that's just me. You have to do what you feel is right for you.

 

[BrokenGirl30]

Oh I'm not being nice .... actually I didn't want to be anything resembling vulgar at a time like this, but if you could see the bulge in my pants you've already caused, you would know for a fact I am not "just being nice."

I don't know if I'd text him at this point .... I think the less you have to do with him now, the better, and the quicker you can heal. But that's just me. You have to do what you feel is right for you.

Thanks very much. I'm sure that bulge is not because of me.
I just want him to know how bad it is what he has done. and how much he has broken me. but dont know if i should text him

 

[CollegeGuy2002]

I want to tell him how much he has hurt me. should i text him?

I would not. An open wound will not heal and txt'ing him or any contact will just prolong the wound.

And you look quite yummy. Stupid man. Most of them are.

 

[Rowan00]

Thanks very much. I'm sure that bulge is not because of me.
I just want him to know how bad it is what he has done. and how much he has broken me. but dont know if i should text him

In a situation like that, what I might do is write a letter -- and then just not send it. You know, get all your feelings out onto paper .... but in the end I'm not sure if letting him know does anything constructive.

And it is definitely your pictures responsible for making me hot and bothered because I'm not looking at anyone else's right now. You're a very enticing woman.

 

[BrokenGirl30]

I would not. An open wound will not heal and txt'ing him or any contact will just prolong the wound.

And you look quite yummy. Stupid man. Most of them are.

I did ring him earlier and told him im disgusted by him

 

[BrokenGirl30]

In a situation like that, what I might do is write a letter -- and then just not send it. You know, get all your feelings out onto paper .... but in the end I'm not sure if letting him know does anything constructive.

And it is definitely your pictures responsible for making me hot and bothered because I'm not looking at anyone else's right now. You're a very enticing woman.

Thanks. He is a very bad man. Thanks for the kind words.

 

[CollegeGuy2002]

I did ring him earlier and told him im disgusted by him

I know and understand the desire for contact. Or to scream, yell, whatever... but it will do no good and may only harm you more. Chin up. Steps forward. And wine. Lots and lots of wine.

 

[Teddybarehead]

I want to tell him how much he has hurt me. should i text him?

what helped me was to sever all contact, and then kept myself busy. Moving on is almost a physical act. It's a choice with a heavy price of pain attached to it.

Comments about the pic... your chest is lovely.

 

[chrism4481]

vey sexy pic

 

[BrokenGirl30]

I know and understand the desire for contact. Or to scream, yell, whatever... but it will do no good and may only harm you more. Chin up. Steps forward. And wine. Lots and lots of wine.

Ive got the wine.

 

[BrokenGirl30]

what helped me was to sever all contact, and then kept myself busy. Moving on is almost a physical act. It's a choice with a heavy price of pain attached to it.

Comments about the pic... your chest is lovely.

Thanks so much for the nice comment.

Do you know what he did? He left an answerphone message for me last night telling a girl to fuck him. Who does that?

 

[Rowan00]

Thanks so much for the nice comment.

Do you know what he did? He left an answerphone message for me last night telling a girl to fuck him. Who does that?

Someone who's very twisted and an a-hole. Your life can only get better if a guy like that is out of it.

 

[CollegeGuy2002]

Ive got the wine.

Do you need someone to open that for you and pour you a glass?

 

[BrokenGirl30]

Someone who's very twisted and an a-hole. Your life can only get better if a guy like that is out of it.

I just couldnt believe it

 

[BrokenGirl30]

Do you need someone to open that for you and pour you a glass?

already done

 

[youngdom81]

He is a man you need.to forget about and cut him out of your life. It hurts now but it will het easier and your life will be.a lot better with him out of.it!

 

[Rowan00]

I just couldnt believe it

In the long run, again, it's HIS loss. A guy would have to be crazy to throw away something with a girl like you. The less contact you have with him at this point the better. You will move on to a much better guy in time.

 

[CollegeGuy2002]

already done

Good. It may not be a long-term solution, but it will help. What color?