Can't cum.

[Redsox228]

Alright, I'm not sure what to do in my situation. I'm 18, with a girlfriend. She's given me a couple of hand jobs, and last night she gave me head for about 5 minutes, and we even sort of had sex (we're both virgins, I went in about halfway before we decided to stop, I didn't break her cherry.) The problem is, I've been unable to cum through all these experiences. Her giving me head felt amazing, but after a few minutes (this being the first time I ever received head) I still wasn't near cumming, so I told her to take a break. I'm kind of worried about this, anyone have any help for me?

 

[SweetErika]

How often do you masturbate?

Were you nervous about anything, or worried about the not coming thing on these occasions?

 

[albertaboy]

Giving head is a learned skill. When I first got married, I enjoyed it alot when my wife gave me head, but now she could make me cum in about a minute if she wanted to. Vacuum power and using her hands at the same time.

 

[akronareaguy]

Try "warming up" before she comes over. Spend a few minutes reading some stories, watching some movies and, well, warming up. If you don't know what I mean, watch "Something About Mary" but don't give create the hair gel until the she's with you.

 

[erodream351]

xxxxx

 

[TheOne908]

have the same problem =( I've only been able to cum like 8 times in all my sexual experiences. I always finish jerking off. Even a month ago or so at a hotel with a girl. pretty much non-stop and itd feel GREAT but after awhile id go limp inside her. there has to be something else. cuz im not always nervous or thinkin about that. and i AM a naturally horny person!! ahh =( help me too?

 

[tandoor]

Don't j/o for a few days, you'll cum easily. And once you cum easily inside her once, next time will happen (and you can j/o too) without a problem.

JMHO of course.

 

[necroerotica]

Certain medications, such as antidepresants, can cause this problem - sometimes, no matter how much I want to cum, I just can't - it's like the muscles that usually 'spasm' are refusing to respond.

More than once when we've just been looking for a quickie, I've basically had to leave 'my moment' for later - she's just not interested in spending the next half-hour (no matter how interesting it may be) waiting for my bits to spill their load.

 

[mjl2010]

Make sure when she gives you head she does a lot of stimulation on the little V right below your head. The underside - side - so to speak.

Had a girlfriend once who got pissed I wouldn't cum that way. She thought I was holding out (honest). Anyway she did some research, figured out she was hardly ever touching that spot and voila! I was already happy, got happier and she got her "treat."

On a side note, if you were halfway inside her, you went past her hymen. I wonder why you didn't keep going? Why did you both decide to stop?

MJL

 

[Redsox228]

Recently I would masturbate 2 to 3 times a week, before I moved to college and got a roommate it was more like once a day. We had sex the other night for the first time, took a few tries for it to not hurt for her, so we'd have to stop, then start again. I lasted quite a while inside her, but eventually I got to cumming. Not sure how things will work later, but if I have any more problems I'll continue to update. Thanks. =)
EDIT: Also, I was quite worried about cumming too early for a while, maybe that had something to do with it.

 

[Battlestar83]

I too used to worry about cumming to early, kinda had the same affect on me for a while.

 

[M's girl]

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