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bumpinthenight2022

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I wish I had a situation where sex was more casual ... recreational, even. Where me and this group of other people can kinda seamlessly move from platonic activities to intense, mutually lustful sex, then back again. Sometimes watching. Sometimes cheering each other on. Sometimes participating. Just flowing freely, like water, into, over, and with each other.

It might go like this:

I imagine one of the girls (Alice) is visiting me at my place, she is recounting the threesome she had the previous morning and showing me pictures she snapped during the festivities. I comment on how slutty Bella (the other girl in the threesome) looked in her little tennis outfit. Alice approves, commenting how she's gotta get one like that if that's how I react to it. Just then, I'm swiping past a photo of Alice covered in Mike's cum. I pause, she asks if I like that. I tell her I like it more than the tennis skirt...

Alice starts to get on her knees between my legs and just then, Mike and Bella come through my front door. They laugh at the their interruption, Alice says "no, come in and close the door" just as she's putting her mouth on my throbbing dick. I give them a distracted waive and lean my head back, enjoying the treatment I'm receiving.

Mike and Bella go in the kitchen and help themselves to some bottled water and are totally normal as if Alice and I aren't doing anything special. They come over, and Bella can't continue her focus on the conversation as Alice is giving me a sloppy, loud blowjob. She looks over to Bella and says "you did this! He saw one picture of you in that tennis skirt and started getting hard!" She smiles as she goes back to bobbing on my dick.

Bella looks at Mike, he quickly says "baby I'm spent, you JUST gave me head in the car!" Bella pouts and crosses her arms. I tell Alice to hold on for a second while I reposition myself. I swing my body sideways so I'm laying flat on the couch, any I invite Bella over to come sit on my face. Alice repositions herself to continue giving me head. And Bella loves into position to ride my face. Her pussy is warm, and wet. I can tell Mike fucked her earlier that day and the thought makes me even harder, Alice feels my grow even more rigid on her mouth and it turns her on even more, she's working even harder to draw the cum out of me while I'm using my tongue on Bella to coax the moans from her beautiful lips. Bella holds the top of my head as she starts bringing her used pussy into my face, all the action is finally starting to active Mike and he moves into position behind Alice. She perks up, she was happy to suck some dick but she's even more glad to get fucked at the same time. Soon, everyone is moaning, Bella's moans get more intense, she starts cumming in my mouth. The thought that I'm swallowing her cum, mixed with Mike's, sends me over the edge and I start shooting ropes across Alice's face. She loves being slutted like this and starts cumming, then squirting on Mike, sending him over the edge as he pulls out and cums ropes across her back. We all take a moment grasp what we've just done. We instinctively fall into aftercare petting and giggling, telling each other how amazing the feeling or taste or pleasure was. Mike and Alice are making out next to Bella and I doing the same. Hands are being held but we don't even know whose, because it really doesn't matter. One by one, we make our way to the bathroom to cleanup, and we all head to the airport to start our weeklong beach vacation. Bella arrived with Mike but leaves holding my hand. My cum is in Alice's belly while Mike's is in her pussy. You can't tell who belongs to who, because we all belong to each other.
 
Had a situation like that w a bunch of friends in college when I got outta the army. We were all a bit older, “non traditional” students. Two female divorcees, another friend, a few people here and there.

We were all on the same wavelength, a bit older and had different experiences than the other 18-22 yo students.

It was really fun and low key till people started developing feelings, I started getting jealous., etc.

But while it lasted (a bit over a year)… it was great. It was my first threesome.
 
join a band, have a haircut, be a genuine good guy
🙄 how very presumptive.

I never said anything about wanting to be perceived as a good guy, or that "good guys" get or deserve that kind of dynamic. And it's usually the people dead set on classifying others as good or not, who are most certainly, not. Of all the things you chose to take from my post, THIS is what you got? Project, much?
 
Hold on there fella, untwist ya testicles - under your assumption you perhaps should question your own defensiveness. Take a deep breath and read it again without your pent up guilt.

I simply provided a scenario "where sex was more casual ... recreational, even" similar to the experience of @cadman7777 having been a DJ.

As for the "genuine good guy" bit (tedious to explain) - some who find they no longer have to put any effort into attracting sexual partners become not so a "genuine good guy".

To be honest I did not really read beyond the first sentence, a glance saw you dipping into fantasies and wishes.
 
Hold on there fella, untwist ya testicles - under your assumption you perhaps should question your own defensiveness. Take a deep breath and read it again without your pent up guilt.

I simply provided a scenario "where sex was more casual ... recreational, even" similar to the experience of @cadman7777 having been a DJ.

As for the "genuine good guy" bit (tedious to explain) - some who find they no longer have to put any effort into attracting sexual partners become not so a "genuine good guy".

To be honest I did not really read beyond the first sentence, a glance saw you dipping into fantasies and wishes.
Wow, smh. This is the perfect example of smooth brained people thinking they're a lot more sophisticated than they really are.

How do you, by your own admission "not really read beyond the first sentence" and yet, arrive at a any kind of rational conclusion?

You clearly read more of the comment than the original post which is fine, that's your business, but again, you directed your comment to the original post, not the comment(s).

You "provided a scenario?" ... 🤔

This:
"join a band, have a haircut, be a genuine good guy"
is providing a scenario? If you say so, haas.

It looks to me like you are the type of person who likes to throw a rock and hide your hand. A shit stirrer who doesn't have the balls or, in this case where words are our only way of interacting with each other, doesn't have the intelligence, to handle direct confrontation.

And imagine, just minding your business could've kept you from being in a position where your own words reveal exactly how hollow you are.

So you can try that lame ass deflection again, but silence is free, my guy.
 
I wish I had a situation where sex was more casual ... recreational, even. Where me and this group of other people can kinda seamlessly move from platonic activities to intense, mutually lustful sex, then back again. Sometimes watching. Sometimes cheering each other on. Sometimes participating. Just flowing freely, like water, into, over, and with each other.

It might go like this:

I imagine one of the girls (Alice) is visiting me at my place, she is recounting the threesome she had the previous morning and showing me pictures she snapped during the festivities. I comment on how slutty Bella (the other girl in the threesome) looked in her little tennis outfit. Alice approves, commenting how she's gotta get one like that if that's how I react to it. Just then, I'm swiping past a photo of Alice covered in Mike's cum. I pause, she asks if I like that. I tell her I like it more than the tennis skirt...

Alice starts to get on her knees between my legs and just then, Mike and Bella come through my front door. They laugh at the their interruption, Alice says "no, come in and close the door" just as she's putting her mouth on my throbbing dick. I give them a distracted waive and lean my head back, enjoying the treatment I'm receiving.

Mike and Bella go in the kitchen and help themselves to some bottled water and are totally normal as if Alice and I aren't doing anything special. They come over, and Bella can't continue her focus on the conversation as Alice is giving me a sloppy, loud blowjob. She looks over to Bella and says "you did this! He saw one picture of you in that tennis skirt and started getting hard!" She smiles as she goes back to bobbing on my dick.

Bella looks at Mike, he quickly says "baby I'm spent, you JUST gave me head in the car!" Bella pouts and crosses her arms. I tell Alice to hold on for a second while I reposition myself. I swing my body sideways so I'm laying flat on the couch, any I invite Bella over to come sit on my face. Alice repositions herself to continue giving me head. And Bella loves into position to ride my face. Her pussy is warm, and wet. I can tell Mike fucked her earlier that day and the thought makes me even harder, Alice feels my grow even more rigid on her mouth and it turns her on even more, she's working even harder to draw the cum out of me while I'm using my tongue on Bella to coax the moans from her beautiful lips. Bella holds the top of my head as she starts bringing her used pussy into my face, all the action is finally starting to active Mike and he moves into position behind Alice. She perks up, she was happy to suck some dick but she's even more glad to get fucked at the same time. Soon, everyone is moaning, Bella's moans get more intense, she starts cumming in my mouth. The thought that I'm swallowing her cum, mixed with Mike's, sends me over the edge and I start shooting ropes across Alice's face. She loves being slutted like this and starts cumming, then squirting on Mike, sending him over the edge as he pulls out and cums ropes across her back. We all take a moment grasp what we've just done. We instinctively fall into aftercare petting and giggling, telling each other how amazing the feeling or taste or pleasure was. Mike and Alice are making out next to Bella and I doing the same. Hands are being held but we don't even know whose, because it really doesn't matter. One by one, we make our way to the bathroom to cleanup, and we all head to the airport to start our weeklong beach vacation. Bella arrived with Mike but leaves holding my hand. My cum is in Alice's belly while Mike's is in her pussy. You can't tell who belongs to who, because we all belong to each other.
I love when sex can be casual and just be done as something for fun and enjoyment and connection.
 
Not sure how it works now days but back in the early 70's it was easy to pick up a girl or for them to pick up a guy just for sex. Young, hormones off the charts it was a common thing. I had just as many girls pick me up, I guess I was something back then. lol I worked at a resort town right on the ocean and that certainly helped the casual sex, new vacationers in for a week then gone and new renters, constant turn overs.

I met my wife through her roommate who was my fuck buddy. No dates, didn't hang out just hooked up for sex.
 
Not sure how it works now days but back in the early 70's it was easy to pick up a girl or for them to pick up a guy just for sex. Young, hormones off the charts it was a common thing. I had just as many girls pick me up, I guess I was something back then. lol I worked at a resort town right on the ocean and that certainly helped the casual sex, new vacationers in for a week then gone and new renters, constant turn overs.

I met my wife through her roommate who was my fuck buddy. No dates, didn't hang out just here cedes hooked up for sex.
Those certainly were the days. I began college in ‘66. The pill was new and it was three coeds to every guy on campus. I tended bar at a resort in the Adirondack’s in the summer. Life is good now but, those days were stellar.
 
@bumpinthenight2022 I am not responsible for your insecurities nor victim complex. You expressed a desire and I simply stated a situation where it was possible for having lived it for many many years - the rest of this nonsense is on your shoulders.
 
In my book, I interpret casual sex as FWB because as @bumpinthenight2022 stated, it’s someone who’s in your inner circle, who you feel comfortable hanging out, being friends with and can seamlessly travel between that friend dynamic and sex and back again.

Sounds easy right?

The complication arise if there’s no communication: both participants must talk and understand each others’ wants and limits, trying to remain on the same page. If changes are desired or feelings arise, what to do next? I’ll add something no ones mentioned but always think of, safety. Always protecting oneself and the other. That’s one topic I always bring up when I have casual sex with one friend or multiple friends. And I ask the same from them.

Other than that, it’s all good 😎 and we enjoy!
 
TBC, I'm going a little bit further than just FWB or hooking up/ONS. It's casual, group based, but exclusive sex (no one outside the group). Not necessary couple on couple, but rather, everyone in the group is "together," there's no particular "ownership" between any two people. Just a group a friends who have sex like we play a tennis match. Solo, double, any mix of the group, but most importantly, everyone's happy for each other and having a great time.

Being an 80s baby, I can't say anything about the 70s. I had my fun in high school and college, a little after college too. But what I'm describing is a little different, and for "this" stage of life. I am married, and she's super vanilla, so that's why this lives more in the realm of fantasy (for me) than anything I could work towards.
 
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