CCG’s Cave of Confessions

I can fess openly, too.
YOU'RE NOT THE BOSS OF ME.
Wriggle be like…
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Is it WRONG of me to think that you SHOULD have those conversations with your spouse and/or anyone you are intimate with, even if they are difficult. I ask that like i dont know how closed minded and closed off people can be. Maybe thats WHY i am single. I NEED that openness and comminication, even if we dont agree on everything or meet ALL of each others needs. Hiding in plain sight is just too exhausting to retain the fire, imo (from somone who does it on a daily basis with everyone).
I've definitely had kink conversations with my spouse, it went okay, but each time he was terribly uncomfortable and couldn't wrap his brain around why anyone would want/need more than missionary in the dark, and nothing changes🤦‍♀️
 
I've definitely had kink conversations with my spouse, it went okay, but each time he was terribly uncomfortable and couldn't wrap his brain around why anyone would want/need more than missionary in the dark, and nothing changes🤦‍♀️
That, and add severe judgement and labelling everything as a sin.

Should these conversations happen? Yes.
Should we have partners that are more aligned in the sex department? Perhaps.
Oh the diatribe I'm trying to contain...
 
One of my biggest fantasies that I can't tell my wife is for her to have an account on Literotica.

She's funnier, hotter, and a bigger exhibitionist than me.
I know everyone would love her a lot more than me.
Maybe we'd love her as much... More though?? Impossible.
I think it would be hilarious if she did, and you guys are online friends already… not realizing… 🥰🥰🥰🥰
He's way too much an exhibitionist to not have been caught if this was the case... Lol
 
I've definitely had kink conversations with my spouse, it went okay, but each time he was terribly uncomfortable and couldn't wrap his brain around why anyone would want/need more than missionary in the dark, and nothing changes🤦‍♀️
Yeah, I’ve been there too, if you’re lucky you get confusion and discomfort, if you’re unlucky you get judgement and scorn.
 
I've definitely had kink conversations with my spouse, it went okay, but each time he was terribly uncomfortable and couldn't wrap his brain around why anyone would want/need more than missionary in the dark, and nothing changes🤦‍♀️
I'm not refuting any of this sentiment but may I also point out vanilla is a perfectly valid and delicious flavor. I hate that it's synonymous with plain predictable and boring. :p
 
I'm not refuting any of this sentiment but may I also point out vanilla is a perfectly valid and delicious flavor. I hate that it's synonymous with plain predictable and boring. :p
A few centuries ago, men died to provide the richest and most powerful with but a taste or vanilla

Now I know people who think vanilla is basic flavor for coffee creamer. He was totally oblivious to “milk” being the base flavor…
 
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