Chastity

[artslut86]

Not going to be easy for me to be able to do this. My D is talking about making me wear one.... I'm however married. I imagine that might be hard to explain to the Mrs lol

 

[Downfor]

Not going to be easy for me to be able to do this. My D is talking about making me wear one.... I'm however married. I imagine that might be hard to explain to the Mrs lol

I started self locking and told the Mrs it was to keep my hands off myself. Now I'm locked 24/7 and she puts up with it. I'm nude when home so she definitely sees it all the time.

 

[NancyPan]

I am not in a chastity device, but we do practice orgasm management. I talked with my wife about it several times, emphasized the benefits for her being that I would not masturbate, would be in a sustained state of arousal, would be more compliant, do more chores, and I would be happier. She agreed to try for one month and discuss. Of course I did my best to show her that I was more affectionate, cooperative, and in fact my mood was immensely improved. That was several years ago. I cum when she decides: usually once every 3-4 weeks. She has me provide her an orgasm whevever she is in the mood. Our sex life has never been better! She likes the power and finds my arousal amusing.

 

[artslut86]

I started self locking and told the Mrs it was to keep my hands off myself. Now I'm locked 24/7 and she puts up with it. I'm nude when home so she definitely sees it all the time.

Interesting. My wife is like, dude if wanna cum why wouldn't u....lol.

 

[artslut86]

I am not in a chastity device, but we do practice orgasm management. I talked with my wife about it several times, emphasized the benefits for her being that I would not masturbate, would be in a sustained state of arousal, would be more compliant, do more chores, and I would be happier. She agreed to try for one month and discuss. Of course I did my best to show her that I was more affectionate, cooperative, and in fact my mood was immensely improved. That was several years ago. I cum when she decides: usually once every 3-4 weeks. She has me provide her an orgasm whevever she is in the mood. Our sex life has never been better! She likes the power and finds my arousal amusing.

That is cool and as we discussed on pm. My wife has limited if any interest in sex[life stage].
She will masturbate me when I ask. Recently she offered PiV for the first time in 8 months, i got tired of asking, im no 1's beggar. She said she realized her life had precluded sex with me. Now I'm offered some hand jobs every now and then more frequently and with some new lube and a toy I bought for me I'm spicing her up a bit.
But I'm dedicated to explore regardless the remnants of my sexual time, and dig into a lot of shit I missed out on that I might like.
I hope to do that with the D I found if she will keep me. That is uncertain as I'm not very adept at being a sub yet, despite a lot of growth...well some... But I'm learning that I can grow through punishment, through pain and discomfort. I'll do that and whatever she wants to please her so she shares her knowledge and time with me.

 

[HottieOlwen]

It feels like chastity devices, although relatively new (ignoring medieval ironware for high ladies when the lord was out of town) should be a big deal in the BDSM community. It's one of the few significant items of bondage that can escape the dungeon and be worn in normal life, extending control into something 24/7. And it's directed right at the source of things.

It's exciting to think how many people you encounter day to day might be locked up down below, dependent on a master or mistress to release them. Sissies with their cocks reduced to nubs locked away along with any hope of a regular orgasm.

I love ball gags, canes, and restraints as much as the next girl, but chastity seems like a really deep part of any serious bondage.

My cuckold has 3 chastity devices. One is a lockable silicon sheath that I make him wear to work. On the weekends, he wears his CB6000 and for punishment I put a heavy metal cage on him. I've had him in chastity for about 27 or 28 years, and he's been cocklocked 24/7 for the majority of that time. I do release him once a week when his device is cleaned. I shave him and milk him at the same time. He suggested full time chastity, and I love the feeling that he can't get a hard on unless I permit it. It is amusing to see other people's reaction when he's wearing swimming trunks. He says the humiliation and embarrasment of being seen to be cock locked is a huge turn on.

 

[emme8]

Hubby and I are very discreet. But he is heading on a work trip locked in his Cb6000 cage. I love to make him send me pictures. We just did 11 days. I took it off him last night and ruined an orgasm. Let him sleep without it. This morning he asked for it again.

 

[Minicoop]

I hope he was driving, not heading through a TSA checkpoint!

 

[Cumpup39]

I like a metal cage that is small and keeps me well confined. At my smallest, it should be snug, but also heavy to remind me it is there. Ureathral tubes are helpful for urination, but a good sub should sit to pee like a bitch!

Although standing to pee at a public urinal around real men can be humiliating and therefor fun… As well as leading to being used!

 

[emme8]

I hope he was driving, not heading through a TSA checkpoint!

He was driving. But has station pit stops can be interesting resting too.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I hope he was driving, not heading through a TSA checkpoint!

That would be the fun part. I haven’t been on a plane, but I did do jury duty. They only had me checked out twice the waved my by the rest of my time.

 

[CEOescape]

Because it helps with edging and arousal

so true and frustrating at times lol

 

[Beachsyrf]

I learned about this phenomenon here on Literotica while perusing these pages …. having some limited experience (& pleasure!) with cock rings & ball stretching, I was intrigued …. not as in, embarking on a chaste lifestyle or even sharing my curiosity with my gf …. (she would roll her eyes, or be repulsed “I’m not into that ‘Bondage’ stuff!!!”) … but rather, the experience and sensation …. I purchased one from the Literotica “Toys” section and it arrived in about a week.

I had some initial difficulty figuring it out and getting it on but ultimately got the hang of it …. I must say, I enjoyed the novelty and the sensation. I rather enjoyed the “look” too. But as an all-day (or longer!?!?) way of going about? Not for me …. it would be fun to wear on a “date night” with my gf’s knowledge & participation (maybe with her wearing something sheer or revealing and no panties) but only as tease and prelude to what would definitely not be a “controlled“ or ruined” orgasm later!

I posted a few photos on a different thread about this but they were taken down for some violation …. if you’d like to see them, feel free to PM me ….

 

[x8dom8x]

Aww, he's such a lucky boy to have you taking such good care of him. No wonder he's asking to be locked up again so soon!

FWIW, just in case you're not already aware, there's no need to remove the cage to permit him to enjoy a ruined orgasm, or even a full orgasm for that matter. If he's like me, he'll be humbled (and you'll be amused) at how quickly a Hitachi or similarly powerful wand vibrator can bring a caged boy to the point of helplessly spurting.

Personally, I can only hold out against the Hitachi for about 45 seconds to a minute, LOL.

Just like with body piercings and associated intimate jewelry, the TSA doesn't have any specific policies preventing travelers from wearing chastity devices as long as they obviously don't present a potential threat. I.e. there's no difference between going through a TSA checkpoint with a chastity cage in your carry-on bag or locked on your chaste little cock.

Sure, a TSA body scan machine might pick it up, which might earn you a knowing wink or smile from the TSA agent. But I guarantee that they see men sporting chastity cages fairly frequently. They've sure seen mine anyway.

That said, I've always avoided full metal cages and/or padlocks while travelling. Instead I wear cages made from plastic or other poly-type materials paired with the little brass cylindrical locks. This combo is more comfortable for long-term wear anyway, and it's just as secure. TSA body scan machines will still pick up the presence of these cages, but in my experience they don't contain enough metal to trip the metal detectors or warrant being pulled aside for further scanning or pat-down etc.

Babe look at this. Apparently we need a Hitachi There’s no way you last 45 seconds though.

 

[HottieOlwen]

It feels like chastity devices, although relatively new (ignoring medieval ironware for high ladies when the lord was out of town) should be a big deal in the BDSM community. It's one of the few significant items of bondage that can escape the dungeon and be worn in normal life, extending control into something 24/7. And it's directed right at the source of things.

It's exciting to think how many people you encounter day to day might be locked up down below, dependent on a master or mistress to release them. Sissies with their cocks reduced to nubs locked away along with any hope of a regular orgasm.

I love ball gags, canes, and restraints as much as the next girl, but chastity seems like a really deep part of any serious bondage.

My cuckold is cock locked 24/7 and is only released for a couple of hours on a Saturday afternoon for him to clean and disinfect his device. During his 'free' time, I shave him and milk him (always to a ruined orgasm) and then he's locked away for another week. He does, of course, 're-cycle' his cum after oozing. He's been cocklocked for the best part of 25 years now. We both love the control I have over 'my' cock despite it being so pathetically small and thin. You should really investigate the use of cock lock devices. I recommend them!

 

[x8dom8x]

Babe look at this. Apparently we need a Hitachi There’s no way you last 45 seconds though.

I just looked up what that is. But I bet I could handle it!

 

[Wonderer67]

Babe look at this. Apparently we need a Hitachi There’s no way you last 45 seconds though.

I have a hard time being caged. Tried many different cages but always have ball pain.

My wife controls my orgasms with lots of frustrating edging.

And occasionally we do chastity for a day or two.

Here’s a good hitachi induced orgasm she gave me a few mos ago while I was caged. It does take me some time to cum tho.

https://www.***********/scl/fi/vp39...tity.mov?rlkey=olyaxk93tgyf27jutwkj9z6zp&dl=0

 

[9to5]

I have a hard time being caged. Tried many different cages but always have ball pain.

My wife controls my orgasms with lots of frustrating edging.

And occasionally we do chastity for a day or two.

Here’s a good hitachi induced orgasm she gave me a few mos ago while I was caged. It does take me some time to cum tho.

https://www.***********/scl/fi/vp39...tity.mov?rlkey=olyaxk93tgyf27jutwkj9z6zp&dl=0

I love that. it makes such a great mess in the cage. I did that to myself once and it don't take long to cum

 

[x8dom8x]

I have a hard time being caged. Tried many different cages but always have ball pain.

My wife controls my orgasms with lots of frustrating edging.

And occasionally we do chastity for a day or two.

Here’s a good hitachi induced orgasm she gave me a few mos ago while I was caged. It does take me some time to cum tho.

https://www.***********/scl/fi/vp39...tity.mov?rlkey=olyaxk93tgyf27jutwkj9z6zp&dl=0

Aww I bet she was disappointed you guys couldn’t find one that works. I know I would be! A regular chastity session is 1-2 weeks right now for us but I’m slowly building up so we can go longer. Edging him ruthlessly during that time. Several times a day. He’s a good boy and will edge whenever I tell him. So he’s even edged himself with my permission at work, the gym, his truck, I love making him when it’s not easy or convenient. And when we’re in an edging session nothing takes him long I time it sometimes and it’s been as fast as 28 seconds until he’s about to explode.

 

[9to5]

Aww I bet she was disappointed you guys couldn’t find one that works. I know I would be! A regular chastity session is 1-2 weeks right now for us but I’m slowly building up so we can go longer. Edging him ruthlessly during that time. Several times a day. He’s a good boy and will edge whenever I tell him. So he’s even edged himself with my permission at work, the gym, his truck, I love making him when it’s not easy or convenient. And when we’re in an edging session nothing takes him long I time it sometimes and it’s been as fast as 28 seconds until he’s about to explode.

I do edge sometimes first thing in the morning then back into my cage

 

[x8dom8x]

I do edge sometimes first thing in the morning then back into my cage

She's in love with torturing me. I have luckily been drained by her recently, and it was a LOT! But yes - being edged multiple times a day, sometimes with me on my knees, is intense. And I can't help it if I can't last that long after the first several!

 

[9to5]

She's in love with torturing me. I have luckily been drained by her recently, and it was a LOT! But yes - being edged multiple times a day, sometimes with me on my knees, is intense. And I can't help it if I can't last that long after the first several!

not knowing when it will happen is exciting if someone is edging you.
i cant edge this morning since I am caged today. maybe during shower and cleaning I can

 

[artslut86]

My cuckold is cock locked 24/7 and is only released for a couple of hours on a Saturday afternoon for him to clean and disinfect his device. During his 'free' time, I shave him and milk him (always to a ruined orgasm) and then he's locked away for another week. He does, of course, 're-cycle' his cum after oozing. He's been cocklocked for the best part of 25 years now. We both love the control I have over 'my' cock despite it being so pathetically small and thin. You should really investigate the use of cock lock devices. I recommend them!

Do you have penetrative sex?

 

[HottieOlwen]

Do you have penetrative sex?

Well I do with my boyfriends! Of course my cuckold can't, as he's cock locked! He gets to penetrate me with his tongue when I need cleaning up, or when I want worship. Other than that, he only gets penetrative sex when I peg him.

 

[HerLittlePiggy]

It feels like chastity devices, although relatively new (ignoring medieval ironware for high ladies when the lord was out of town) should be a big deal in the BDSM community. It's one of the few significant items of bondage that can escape the dungeon and be worn in normal life, extending control into something 24/7. And it's directed right at the source of things.

It's exciting to think how many people you encounter day to day might be locked up down below, dependent on a master or mistress to release them. Sissies with their cocks reduced to nubs locked away along with any hope of a regular orgasm.

I love ball gags, canes, and restraints as much as the next girl, but chastity seems like a really deep part of any serious bondage.

I spent the entire month of October locked in chastity