Kiltguy
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My wife and I have been speaking frequently of late about our cheat fantasies. She has far fewer than I have, but we have both been quite blunt and thorough in discussing these fantasies with one another. She is an incredibly understanding wife. On our second date I informed her that I wasn't much of a monogamous person. That if she were to consider being with me, she would have to understand that there would be times in our relationship that I would probably want to be with other women. I wouldn't lie to her about it, but I would rather be honest and try to take that approach than be dishonest throughout a relationship.
We had a rough first year, but she worked through this. We toyed with a few ways to deal with my needs and have finally found our way of life. For the most part, I do little other than be with her and talk about fantasies while we're fooling around. But once in a while someone will come into our life who is understanding of our relationship and will play with me for a short while.
Yet my fantasies go on - and I long occasionally to actually sleep with someone behind her back. I tell her of these desires and she has told me that if it's what I need, then I should do so. But that's not really the same.
So how does one fulfill a cheat fantasy when one has permission?
Also - what are YOUR cheat fantasies? I'll include some of mine below...
We had a rough first year, but she worked through this. We toyed with a few ways to deal with my needs and have finally found our way of life. For the most part, I do little other than be with her and talk about fantasies while we're fooling around. But once in a while someone will come into our life who is understanding of our relationship and will play with me for a short while.
Yet my fantasies go on - and I long occasionally to actually sleep with someone behind her back. I tell her of these desires and she has told me that if it's what I need, then I should do so. But that's not really the same.
So how does one fulfill a cheat fantasy when one has permission?
Also - what are YOUR cheat fantasies? I'll include some of mine below...
