Crushes On Lit Users

Good being the key word.:)
Ohhh yes :)

Seeing a man in a well fitted suit is like cumming for me. :p
Tee hee :devil:
Seeing a man in a well fitted suit cumming on me....;)
Eden you crack me up :D

Yes it is :heart:

I don't even know what it is about the suit. It's like an instant turn on for so many women.
I think alot of guys hold themselves differently in a suit. Like an inner confidence. It's such a turn on :cattail:
 
And the thread has shifted towards sexy men in suits.... back to the crush topic!!
 
And the thread has shifted towards sexy men in suits.... back to the crush topic!!

My crush doesn't care for me any more, mainly because I asked about us not having much interaction on threads, games we both enjoyed, it wasn't happening because he was "shy" he said and also I was mistaken.
But he would be very open with others. Still is, and I feel really small.
I have no problem with guys or girls having multiple crushes, flirting is a given here also and adds to the fun; but to be tucked away in a PM box because I am "so special" didn't work for me, any thoughts?
 
My crush doesn't care for me any more, mainly because I asked about us not having much interaction on threads, games we both enjoyed, it wasn't happening because he was "shy" he said and also I was mistaken.
But he would be very open with others. Still is, and I feel really small.
I have no problem with guys or girls having multiple crushes, flirting is a given here also and adds to the fun; but to be tucked away in a PM box because I am "so special" didn't work for me, any thoughts?

I think you are totally crush worthy. When we have the "get together" which is mostly make believe at this point, I would walk right up and give you a big hug!

:rose:
 
My crush doesn't care for me any more, mainly because I asked about us not having much interaction on threads, games we both enjoyed, it wasn't happening because he was "shy" he said and also I was mistaken.
But he would be very open with others. Still is, and I feel really small.
I have no problem with guys or girls having multiple crushes, flirting is a given here also and adds to the fun; but to be tucked away in a PM box because I am "so special" didn't work for me, any thoughts?

I agree, be the same on and off the threads.
Unless you're sharing personal things that you don't want to post, etc.
 
My crush doesn't care for me any more, mainly because I asked about us not having much interaction on threads, games we both enjoyed, it wasn't happening because he was "shy" he said and also I was mistaken.
But he would be very open with others. Still is, and I feel really small.
I have no problem with guys or girls having multiple crushes, flirting is a given here also and adds to the fun; but to be tucked away in a PM box because I am "so special" didn't work for me, any thoughts?

Because you're not the only one he's playing doesn't want get caught by the others.
 
There are people I'll open up to in pm that I just wave and say hi to on the boards. Firstly because I don't want to make it look as though they're hooked up with someone and restrict their fun/chances of being approached, and second it's nice to have secrets. .... :)

edit: That's not the same as blanking someone - that'd be harsh
 
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funnily enough, with a few notable exceptions, most of the people i pm with aren't on the boards at all - or very little. And i have to admit to a very big crush right now.

Having been away from lit for quite a while though, i have found myself seemingly cold shouldered by some of those that i counted amongst my closest friends when i was here before. And that does make me sad.
 
I think they should be straight up instead of being sneaky.
I respect honesty, just tell the truth.

Same here but some people just seem not to care about others as long as they get what they want to them it doesn't matter what they have to do get it lie, cheat and steal all part of the (game) to them.:mad:
 
I love the teasing and such. I come here to have fun. So once the drama starts or isn't fun then no more crush.
 
My crush doesn't care for me any more, mainly because I asked about us not having much interaction on threads, games we both enjoyed, it wasn't happening because he was "shy" he said and also I was mistaken.
But he would be very open with others. Still is, and I feel really small.
I have no problem with guys or girls having multiple crushes, flirting is a given here also and adds to the fun; but to be tucked away in a PM box because I am "so special" didn't work for me, any thoughts?

Sorry to hear this, Mamasota. Part of the fun of having someone special on here is being able to scamper about the threads with them.

Move on, there is someone on here just right for you.:rose:
 
I haven't quoted anyone, because I respect and appreciate what you have all said,
to this point. :)

Of course there are those tidbits of info we all keep "private", what are personal secrets I don't share, but everybody who has "known" me so far, also can confirm that I will make him/her aware quite publicly that they are special in some way to me, crushes included, and nobody feels slighted or neglected and I can interact confidently that way. It's been a source of stress, and hurt and confusion for too long now, so I asked to see if somebody had a better way of dealing with being ignored than I did. I am not clingy, there is no jealousy involved, I enjoy the flirt and banter, and the freedom I have to share with others is also the freedom my crush(es) had, has, will have. I have to realize I was not enough, and with so much positive input here, I think I can try to lay it to rest.

One thought I have conicides completely with angie33's comment, and I realize my level of naïveté as an adult in matters like a "crush" is lacking.

Thanks for showing me so much love this afternoon, you ALL http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/hug/t4624.gif
 
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