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mamasota said:
My crush doesn't care for me any more, mainly because I asked about us not having much interaction on threads, games we both enjoyed, it wasn't happening because he was "shy" he said and also I was mistaken.
But he would be very open with others. Still is, and I feel really small.
I have no problem with guys or girls having multiple crushes, flirting is a given here also and adds to the fun; but to be tucked away in a PM box because I am "so special" didn't work for me, any thoughts?
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Don't feel like that mama x if he couldn't be open and honest with you on the boards then he isn't worth crushing on. I doubt he is shy and I doubt you're mistaken. Guys like that usually try to keep a low profile because they are juggling more than one person at a time. It's not a nice feeling atall I know. But you deserve better and openess and honesty. Always go with your gut instinct it's usually always right xx

angie33 said:
Because you're not the only one he's playing doesn't want get caught by the others.
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I agree Angie and it really hurts to be the one that's virtually ignored on the boards when the guy is all over others. It's very unfair.

But on a lighter note.....On with the crushing :D
 
mamasota said:
I haven't quoted anyone, because I respect and appreciate what you have all said,
to this point. :)

Of course there are those tidbits of info we all keep "private", what are personal secrets I don't share, but everybody who has "known" me so far, also can confirm that I will make him/her aware quite publicly that they are special in some way to me, crushes included, and nobody feels slighted or neglected and I can interact confidently that way. It's been a source of stress, and hurt and confusion for too long now, so I asked to see if somebody had a better way of dealing with being ignored than I did. I am not clingy, there is no jealousy involved, I enjoy the flirt and banter, and the freedom I have to share with others is also the freedom my crush(es) had, has, will have. I have to realize I was not enough, and with so much positive input here, I think I can try to lay it to rest.

One thought I have conicides completely with angie33's comment, and I realize my level of naïveté as an adult in matters like a "crush" is lacking.

Thanks for showing me so much love this afternoon, you ALL http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/hug/t4624.gif
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http://static2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20120223022924/icarly/images/0/05/Cyber_hug.gif
 
FakeaSmile said:
Don't feel like that mama x if he couldn't be open and honest with you on the boards then he isn't worth crushing on. I doubt he is shy and I doubt you're mistaken. Guys like that usually try to keep a low profile because they are juggling more than one person at a time. It's not a nice feeling atall I know. But you deserve better and openess and honesty. Always go with your gut instinct it's usually always right xx



I agree Angie and it really hurts to be the one that's virtually ignored on the boards when the guy is all over others. It's very unfair.

But on a lighter note.....On with the crushing :D
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You're going to sign up for the naked volleyball at the get together right? Right?

;):devil::D
 
mamasota said:
I haven't quoted anyone, because I respect and appreciate what you have all said,
to this point. :)

Of course there are those tidbits of info we all keep "private", what are personal secrets I don't share, but everybody who has "known" me so far, also can confirm that I will make him/her aware quite publicly that they are special in some way to me, crushes included, and nobody feels slighted or neglected and I can interact confidently that way. It's been a source of stress, and hurt and confusion for too long now, so I asked to see if somebody had a better way of dealing with being ignored than I did. I am not clingy, there is no jealousy involved, I enjoy the flirt and banter, and the freedom I have to share with others is also the freedom my crush(es) had, has, will have. I have to realize I was not enough, and with so much positive input here, I think I can try to lay it to rest.

One thought I have conicides completely with angie33's comment, and I realize my level of naïveté as an adult in matters like a "crush" is lacking.

Thanks for showing me so much love this afternoon, you ALL http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/hug/t4624.gif
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I for one have never seen you as clingy or the jealous type.

I see you as a hot, sexy, vivacious woman.:kiss:

Whatever his reasons were, his loss!

:rose:
 
sereneone4u said:
I for one have never seen you as clingy or the jealous type.

I see you as a hot, sexy, vivacious woman.:kiss:

Whatever his reasons were, his loss!

:rose:
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Looks like I have to start re-learning the whole "crush" subject, TY sereneone :rose:
because I do like champaña, and angie is preciosa, and I lust every so often, and I smile and dream a lot,
Sunday's too, and when it comes to Betty, Ronnie watches her closely ;)

Ay! I think it is Crush Friday!! http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/hug/t4618.gif
 
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