Cumming more than once

[johnny37]

Hey there all.

I find it difficult to when I masturbate, when I came the first time I don't have that urge to masturbate more and get an orgasm maybe 2 or 3 times. It is like when I cum for the first time, after that I just don't feel like playing with myself anymore. But before the time you tell yourselve, tonight I wanna cum 3 times etc. And then after the first time you just don't feel like going anymore.

It will be different when I am with a real woman for sure, then I won't have any problems. So any advice on how to get yourself going again? Or must you just wait 10 minutes and then you will be hard and horny again?

I am a 20 year old male, so I am pretty horny most of the time, but after my first cum I normally lose that horniness. Any advice on how to stay horny after I cum the first time and then keep on masturbating?

Thanks.

 

[The Gimp]

If someone were to offer you a million dollars to cum five times in one evening with one woman then you could do it. On the other hand, if someone were to present you with a naked woman and tell you to fuck her till you are fully satisfied, then there is no way that you would do her five times. It's fully possible for most young men to do it, recover, and do it again. It takes more effort to cum with each repeated attempt, and in exchange for the effort you get less pleasure. The only reason to keep going like that is if you are trying to set some kind of record, or if you are doing it for a reward.

 

[culloden]

Hey there all.

I find it difficult to when I masturbate, when I came the first time I don't have that urge to masturbate more and get an orgasm maybe 2 or 3 times. It is like when I cum for the first time, after that I just don't feel like playing with myself anymore. But before the time you tell yourselve, tonight I wanna cum 3 times etc. And then after the first time you just don't feel like going anymore.

It will be different when I am with a real woman for sure, then I won't have any problems. So any advice on how to get yourself going again? Or must you just wait 10 minutes and then you will be hard and horny again?

I am a 20 year old male, so I am pretty horny most of the time, but after my first cum I normally lose that horniness. Any advice on how to stay horny after I cum the first time and then keep on masturbating?

Thanks.

Sounds normal to me. And age doesn't improve it.

 

[kaycee217]

If someone were to offer you a million dollars to cum five times in one evening with one woman then you could do it. On the other hand, if someone were to present you with a naked woman and tell you to fuck her till you are fully satisfied, then there is no way that you would do her five times. It's fully possible for most young men to do it, recover, and do it again. It takes more effort to cum with each repeated attempt, and in exchange for the effort you get less pleasure. The only reason to keep going like that is if you are trying to set some kind of record, or if you are doing it for a reward.

What he said.

Sometimes, having an orgasm is very satisfying and you just don't have as strong of a desire for another one.

The French didn't use the metaphor, "the little death" because they're morbid.

 

[rosco rathbone]

You simply need to recalibrate that meter in your balls. It's giving you an erroneous reading-that you have have three cums worth of seed in there. Default to the factory preset: "one".

 

[johnny37]

Thanks for the replies everyone.

Haha @ Rosco's post, I will try it sometimes. ;P

 

[subwannabe]

Really, it is only slightly different with a real woman. Haven't you ever heard of the old addage about the guy fucks his wife and then rolls over and goes to sleep? That's not really horribly far from reality. It is normal for a man to be very turned on but then after orgasm he feels like he is done. The best way to please a woman is to always make her orgasm first because most guys do lose interest and incentive once they ejaculate. Now, I'm not using this as an excuse to say that guys can't keep on going and going like the Energizer Bunny, but it is something you have to work at. It doesn't come naturally.

 

[DrHappy]

Very few men have the ability to regularly have multiple back-to-back orgasms. with women, some do and some don't.

The brain releases prolactin during orgasm, which gives a feeling of fatigue, and temporarily quashes sexual desire. I read about a study which found that men who were able to have multiple back-to-back orgasms had unusually low levels of prolactin after orgasm.

Do an internet search of orgasm "refractory period."

 

[rob35can]

I have been able to do multiple only a few times...but honestly not sure how i acheived it...I wish i knew.

 

[goodgreeneyes]

Well if I,m with a nice lil lady and it's good yes, I can reload but it takes about a half hour but has been done five times by me. I,m sure there are some reload champs here though.

 

[coastal-boy]

this is natural so you have an opportunity to go to the restroom...get a drink of water...tuck the baby back in...turn off the lights...get the camera.

 

[unkut_pleasurez]

lol just don't worry about losing interest after the first orgasm... i'd say that's quite normal.

When you are with a woman, and you have just had your first orgasm, just cuddle with her in bed, have a little massage and you'll be ready again. If still you don't get in the mood, then i'd just work on the stamina and the next time try to last as long as possible in order to give your woman all the satisfaction (aka orgasm) she needs before you have yours ;-)

 

[sexysharonmilf]

Hey there all.

I find it difficult to when I masturbate, when I came the first time I don't have that urge to masturbate more and get an orgasm maybe 2 or 3 times. It is like when I cum for the first time, after that I just don't feel like playing with myself anymore. But before the time you tell yourselve, tonight I wanna cum 3 times etc. And then after the first time you just don't feel like going anymore.

It will be different when I am with a real woman for sure, then I won't have any problems. So any advice on how to get yourself going again? Or must you just wait 10 minutes and then you will be hard and horny again?

I am a 20 year old male, so I am pretty horny most of the time, but after my first cum I normally lose that horniness. Any advice on how to stay horny after I cum the first time and then keep on masturbating?

Thanks.

A man only needs, sexually and psychologically, to cum once at a time. The rest is just your hormones. Maybe play another game or wait a few days when you want to cum more than once. After a week from my ex when we were married, he could cum 4-5 times.

 

[muffalo]

I can usually cum 2 or 3 times o a good night, taking anywhere from 10 mintues to 30 in between to get hard, but it usually sacrifices the sleep I should be having. I'd much rather fuck a girl 3 times In 3 nights and be rested than 3 in one and be up all night trading oral and kissing while the tank refills. That being said, nothing beats a good all night sex session
I would suggest a couple things that may or may not help you if your still interested.
#1 If you need to achieve more than one orgasm, are you refraining from masturbation days beforehand? Certainly don't dry up the well before you need it.
#2 Have you learned about your ability to hold onto your orgasm? If you hold off on letting it all go, when you finally do, you might be surprised at what happens 20 miutes or so after you fially decide to release. That whole deal with using the same muscles you use to hold you pee to hold your cum? Look it up.
#3 figure out what turns you on. Get down and dirty. Let the hormones fly. Take a day and see how many times you can jerk off. Your brain controls a good deal of hormones in one way or another. If you can let loose, maybe your body will gradually pick up on it.
Good luck!

 

[Deadwood]

I have had 3 orgasms in one long bout of sex with my ex-wife, but after that long drawn out attempt, and with my third one literally a drop, she looked at me and said, "are you sure you came?" That kind of took the fun out of struggling so long for that last bout.

The holy grail of sex for me lately has been climaxing together with my current wife. To me that is the greatest. She gets off, I get off and her body is literally milking me for all it is worth. To me that is great, but its hard to time it right. At least for me, maybe for you better studs it is easy, but I am getting better as I try for this type of dual-finish.

 

[mentionME]

I have had 3 orgasms in one long bout of sex with my ex-wife, but after that long drawn out attempt, and with my third one literally a drop, she looked at me and said, "are you sure you came?" That kind of took the fun out of struggling so long for that last bout.

The holy grail of sex for me lately has been climaxing together with my current wife. To me that is the greatest. She gets off, I get off and her body is literally milking me for all it is worth. To me that is great, but its hard to time it right. At least for me, maybe for you better studs it is easy, but I am getting better as I try for this type of dual-finish.

I guess i'm fortunate that me and my girl are just in sync (definately not a stud factor)

anyway, in regards to multiples it seems alot easier to just not stop. If you're going raw that works out well cuz you can just not allow a full "wilt"

as for masturbating maybe hit different porn to channel different fetishes. Or like a previous post mention find something that motivates you other than your horniness. I used to feel horrible after i would jump the gun with a girl so if i had another chance i'd be more than up for a jerk off or three just so i knew i'd be ready to "DESTROY"

random quote: Peter Griffin: Kiss her? I am going to DESTROY her!