kLangleybi
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CuriousGuyVa
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There seems to be plenty who are in the "same boat" as reflective in this thread. The good thing here is that one can feel free to open up anonymously.... IRL can be a bit harder.
Thoughts?
Absolutely it's easier to be more open with your fantasies here than in real life. It's harder to get a conversation going with someone in real life but once you do, that door is open.
CuriousGuyVa
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Discretion is very important, whether you're married or not. And I have to agree with you that becoming friends would seem to make things much more easier to keep that secret between the two... and it'd probably be more comfortable and relaxed when the two did get together.
It would be interesting to hear how many guys have established a friendship with another guy , or get together with guys in secret
CuriousGuyVa
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A bump to this thread and to hopefully stir up some chats...
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OnaTangent
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My experience is very limited but the imagination has been pretty active recently.
stargame
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I love what's going on in Virginia.
CuriousGuyVa
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I didn't want to start another thread, so I'll ask this question here...
What is it about a cock that has peaked your interest in being curious or lead you to your experiences?
What is it about a cock that has peaked your interest in being curious or lead you to your experiences?
rockoid2
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It started with shemale porn, then crossdresser porn. Then cocks cumming. Met a crossdresser and sucked their cock and I was hooked. Loved the texture, feel and taste. Loved how it got harder as I sucked. Loved that I got a creamy surpirse for my efforts!
CuriousGuyVa
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Nice... sounds like you had a real natural progression and porn let you opened the doors to the desires that were in you
Fo me... divorced and without having sex as often as I was use too, started to look more at internet porn and what I looked at started to get wider and more of a variety
SPARTAN047
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I've been a bit of a slut in the past and I have some experience, so I'd love to swap stories.
A few threesomes and gangbangs if anyone's curious.
A few threesomes and gangbangs if anyone's curious.
No sex with wife. Started in book sto,res with videos. Then to adult theaters. One horned day I let a guy suck me. I was hooked. Sex with no drama. Slow progression to going to bathhouses and gay bars
Divorce... not getting enough sex... internet porn... then down that rabbit hole...
OnaTangent
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Started chatting on sites like this some years ago and realized I could get aroused talking sex with guys. One thing led to another and really opened my mind.
Same here, chatting with what I thought was a woman, it was very open-ended nothing to suggest M or F, turns out it was M, and he started getting me hornier than any"woman" I had chatted with. I don't think I've ever blew a load like I did that day. It was very much ground zero, started chatting in the gay rooms on compuserve (remember that) got off way more there than other rooms.
SPARTAN047
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Same, I had a guy on a chat site who gave better blow jobs than any woman.
Wag_that_tail86
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The desire is strong, I'm working on getting over my own fears and inhibitions.
open_minded28
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thats sort of how I ended up thinking when I finally decided to try it. It was a guy offering no-reciprocation blowjobs and I figured if I didnt like it, I just wouldnt go back for a second one. =) wasnt signing up for a lifetime of them or anything lol.
open_minded28
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also true of my first time(s). The very first time I was just receiving but my knees were shaking and I was super nervous. Not even 100% sure of what? Maybe that he would end up being a scam and was there to beat me up or something? Or maybe just the regular nerves of trying anything for the first time and not knowing what to expect, more of a fear of the unknown? I still get nervous upon meeting someone for the first time, that part has never gone away for me.
I think maybe I also had some fear of being gay. Like meeting another guy for sex would somehow change me, label me, or prove something about me. I think it was much worse than it needed to be because I wasnt trying to understand what it was scaring me. When I look back now I realize Im still the same person Ive always been. My actions dont define who I am, but who I am defines my actions. I assume everyone who has same-sex interactions do it for their own personal reasons. I mean, you cant say that the hundreds of thousands of people who drive a red Honda has the same motivation, feeling, lifestyle, right? So likewise does sucking a nice cock mean the exact same thing to all people regardless of age, gender, motivation, etc?
Im not saying that everyone should run right out and clamp their lips around a dick right now. Maybe everyone who hesitates does that for good reason and a same-sex encounter is just not for them? Maybe they'd feel too guilty or ashamed or something. I just know that for me, well, I've just answered that curiosity and realized it didnt change me or how I saw myself.
write_or_wrong
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Good for you! And thanks for sharing with us.
What you do doesn't change who you are.
Hope it was fun!
