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Not at all! Have a seat. I'm sure there's coffee or hot chocolate around here somewhere.Do you mind if l just sit in the corner and listen.
No nibbling on the bunny, the owl, or any of the other small woodland creatures that inhabit this space.Do you mind if l just sit in the corner and listen.
Seconded. Though this bunny doesn’t mind a playful nibble. Just no chomping.No nibbling on the bunny, the owl, or any of the other small woodland creatures that inhabit this space.
There are always cuddles. C’mon in!Are we still cuddling? If so, I'd like to join if it's ok.
Better watch me carefully, though. There's a good possibility I might just pass right out and start snoring.![]()
Not at all! Have a seat. I'm sure there's coffee or hot chocolate around here somewhere.
Welcome back. Friendly folks who are here to chat and not behave in thirsty ways are welcome to be here.I don't know who all is here, but l chatted with two of you a couple of years ago under a different Lit name.
Cocoa, please...Thank you. I will sit quietly for now. Much too shy to say anything except you small woodland critters have nothing to fear from this coyote. Unless, of course, if you are a roadrunner.Welcome back. Friendly folks who are here to chat and not behave in thirsty ways are welcome to be here.
Cocoa?
Well I definitely passed out. Did I snore?Are we still cuddling? If so, I'd like to join if it's ok.
Better watch me carefully, though. There's a good possibility I might just pass right out and start snoring.![]()
It was more like a soft purr. Quite adorable!Well I definitely passed out. Did I snore?
I found my daddy online as well,.unfortunately we lost contact.I guess I should find one of my old posts with my story and link itBut timewise, last spring, coming across this very thread, reading this and the previous 2 versions. I knew absolutely nothing about DDlg beforehand (not even the existence of the term), thought I was all vanilla. So it was a huge revelation for a middle-aged woman who had spent all her adult life in vanilla relationships. I realised these discussions and memes talk about something I've been missing sorely while trying to be an all big girl and burning out repeatedly.
For me finding soon an online-Daddy worked well as an intermediate thing. I learned things about myself and DDlg with him, and online sources, even stories before stepping into a real life D/s relationship with DDlg flavour.
When I was working on a particular writing project, my mantra for it was … every now and then, there is a tale that reminds you what it is to do believe.
I feel like I’m living in a fairytale, and I hope it never endsWhen I was working on a particular writing project, my mantra for it was … every now and then, there is a tale that reminds you what it is to do believe.
This very much reminded me of that.
I imagine that’s a beautiful, wonderful feeling.I feel like I’m living in a fairytale, and I hope it never ends
I'd say follow your gut on this, but for me, over the knee bare handed spanking is a great place to start. No toys needed. And the physical intimacy between you makes it easy for him to pay attention to how you are doing. The thing about a flogger is that you are physically separated from him. It's a little harder to check in.A question for the Littles here
Is spanking part of your dynamic?
It is not part of mine because of my history with domestic violence. My Wolfie actually brought it up as a hard limit before me. He will not engage in any “pain play” until both myself and my therapist are on board. He said it would be okay with him if I never allowed it.
I have scheduled a Valentine getaway for us and I want to bring up the conversation with him. He has never pressured me, and my therapist is okay with trying it. This is something I want to gift to him. I don’t feel that I have completely submitted to him yet. He is experienced with spanking , so I’m not concerned about him being too rough.
I’m thinking of getting a soft flogger, I’d really like to try that. And of course his hand would be amazing.
Thoughts? Am I overthinking? Things to expect from my first spanking?
Anxious little bunny girl
Thanks for the advice! Maybe I’ll put off getting a flogger.I'd say follow your gut on this, but for me, over the knee bare handed spanking is a great place to start. No toys needed. And the physical intimacy between you makes it easy for him to pay attention to how you are doing. The thing about a flogger is that you are physically separated from him. It's a little harder to check in.
I hope it goes well for both of you.
A question for the Littles here
Is spanking part of your dynamic?
It is not part of mine because of my history with domestic violence. My Wolfie actually brought it up as a hard limit before me. He will not engage in any “pain play” until both myself and my therapist are on board. He said it would be okay with him if I never allowed it.
I have scheduled a Valentine getaway for us and I want to bring up the conversation with him. He has never pressured me, and my therapist is okay with trying it. This is something I want to gift to him. I don’t feel that I have completely submitted to him yet. He is experienced with spanking , so I’m not concerned about him being too rough.
I’m thinking of getting a soft flogger, I’d really like to try that. And of course his hand would be amazing.
Thoughts? Am I overthinking? Things to expect from my first spanking?
Anxious little bunny girl
Good point. My initial thought was as more of a way of symbolizing my submission in a very intimate way. Hopefully as part of play too. Never as punishment, that’s too close to my past relationship. I’ll think about that more so I can get clear about why I want this at this point in our relationship.I think a part of the conversation should be whether spanking is a part of discipline or a part of play time - or neither, just mental maintenance. I'm not sure if that's a proper term, so chime in everyone to help me!
If you're ready to try spankings, then I think it would be a wonderful thing to bring up to him and see if he's ready to go that direction at this point.
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@FrenchLopBunnyI think a part of the conversation should be whether spanking is a part of discipline or a part of play time - or neither, just mental maintenance. I'm not sure if that's a proper term, so chime in everyone to help me!
If you're ready to try spankings, then I think it would be a wonderful thing to bring up to him and see if he's ready to go that direction at this point.
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