Deal breakers...what are yours?

[BrendaBear]

My deal breakers are insincerity, jealousy, lies and infidelity.

There are probably more.

 

[BrendaBear]

Good taste in friends

Okay. How about Being Unable To Read Thread Titles?

Right. We were wondering why having good taste in friends is a dealbreaker. Nothing personal, please don’t be insulted. It was meant in fun, I am sure.

 

[Anastasia1999]

The love of my life was 12 years older than me, and we were married for 20 years. It only ended because she decided to go and die from cancer. So rude.

I am very sorry Brenda

 

[_Ritch_]

Do you wanna do weird?

As long as you're young enough to have your own teeth.

 

[Diosax]

The love of my life was 12 years older than me, and we were married for 20 years. It only ended because she decided to go and die from cancer. So rude.

My condolences

Cancer sucks

 

[AmberLGreen]

As long as you're young enough to have your own teeth.

Just when a girl thinks her luck is about to change, along come the terms and conditions… blah, blah, blah

 

[_Ritch_]

Just when a girl thinks her luck is about to change, along come the terms and conditions… blah, blah, blah

It's the only term and condition. I still have the nightmares. It was like getting a blowjob from a lubed up vacuum cleaner.... Er not that I've experienced that... Er... Nope.

 

[Mrtenant]

When I go on a first date with a coworker. She seems nice enough, kinda cute, fuckable. We go out to eat. The date is going well. She wants to go bowling. Being the flexible and horny guy I am, I go along with it. Arriving at the bowling alley, she excitedly takes me to the bar and immediately engages in a yelling match with some other woman. Obviously she knows her and they start fighting. Other girl's boyfriend gets involved. Other random people do too. And suddenly my fists are swinging hard trying to get myself out of this shitstorm. Dragging her out of there and getting into my vehicle I see she did not fare too well in that scrap. I'm still in shock at the whole event and she is crying, makeup running down her face, front tooth is missing and the gap is bleeding, she keeps licking the gap in her teeth as she sobs. I tell her, 'date's over. I didn't sign up for this fucking shit' and haul ass and drop her off at her place. She tries to invite me in and I tell her 'she's lucky I drove her dumb ass home and get the fuck out of my car, you're bleeding on the seats.'

Total deal breaker.

 

[cascadiabound]

When I go on a first date with a coworker. She seems nice enough, kinda cute, fuckable. We go out to eat. The date is going well. She wants to go bowling. Being the flexible and horny guy I am, I go along with it. Arriving at the bowling alley, she excitedly takes me to the bar and immediately engages in a yelling match with some other woman. Obviously she knows her and they start fighting. Other girl's boyfriend gets involved. Other random people do too. And suddenly my fists are swinging hard trying to get myself out of this shitstorm. Dragging her out of there and getting into my vehicle I see she did not fare too well in that scrap. I'm still in shock at the whole event and she is crying, makeup running down her face, front tooth is missing and the gap is bleeding, she keeps licking the gap in her teeth as she sobs. I tell her, 'date's over. I didn't sign up for this fucking shit' and haul ass and drop her off at her place. She tries to invite me in and I tell her 'she's lucky I drove her dumb ass home and get the fuck out of my car, you're bleeding on the seats.'

Total deal breaker.

Darling.... your story telling gets better all the time.

 

[cascadiabound]

Deal breaker... unable or unwilling to change a tire. (I would not say this if I can't do it myself)

 

[JerseyJade]

Being unemployed.

 

[JerseyJade]

Okay, let me reword that. Someone who can't hold on to a job.

 

[Anastasia1999]

Okay, let me reword that. Someone who can't hold on to a job.

I agree.

Unemployment would not be a dealbreaker if he was financially independent, just as I am.

Willful ignorance and an inability to communicate and show feelings and emotions are hard deal breakers for me.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Emotionally volatile

 

[Cherry_Brandy]

Inconsistency. Surely to God, when you get older, you know who the hell you are, what you value and what you don't.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Pettiness.

 

[Orchidea73]

cowardice

 

[Mr_bogey]

God Squaders

 

[Trubbycat]

As I've gotten older I have less tolerance for smoking.

 

[thejabber27]

Ditto on the smoking, weed is fine, but cigarette smoke just puts me off.

 

[curvyjae]

Hard drugs.

 

[hanban24]

In relationships or any area of life in general...what gives you pause and makes you walk away?

Lacking manners. Poor hygiene or housekeeping. Drug or tobacco use.

 

[barefootgirl69]

When they start confusing me with others.

 

[JerseyJade]

Men who are shorter than me. I want to be looking up at a man, not down.

 

[Shenanigans90]

Perpetual self pity