Deal breakers...what are yours?

[TongueLust]

People who talk.

 

[PallidaMors9]

Being rude to service providers, wait staff, skimping on tips, that kinda thing. Such assholery is not okay!

What about wait staff that is rude and assholish to their customers?

Remember, a Tip is NOT automatic: it's an expression of how well or poorly one has performed.

To an extent: I begin at 15% before I sit down. It can go up or down from there. It doesn't take anything above and beyond to bring it to 20% and even 25%
If I receive exceptional care I do 30% - 35%. That is my average, probably half the time I Tip 30% or more.
Once or twice a year I Tip 50% for remarkable performance. A couple times in my life I've tipped 100%

On the other hand there are times I Tip nothing. Or even the infamous penny.
When I do this I always leave a note of explanation.

Many times when service was remarkable and I Tipped 35% or more I will inform the manager of the high quality of their staff.

I have also had to accept that many times what I see in myself as simply demanding, others see as assholish. Sometimes I've recognized in myself, or been told by others that I was wrong, over the line. I've had to accept that, go apologize, thank them for their patience with me, and revise their Tip amount.
Even if it were a day or two later.

Embarrassingly enough I remain a work in progress, and continue to fall

Just saying it goes both ways. Nobody is always perfect
And Tips are not automatic

 

[Mo_Bandy]

If she wont reverse cowgirl while I watch Dahmer.

 

[Dribble]

If wait staff wasn't paid minimum wage or below...I might agree tips are a reflection of performance. But it isn't. I tip even if I get poor service. But if I get poor service...why would I return to that establishment again? 99% of the time....poor service is not a reflection of the wait staff...but of the management of the wait staff

 

[Crankbait88]

Smoking and unnecessary profanity.

 

[Diosax]

What about wait staff that is rude and assholish to their customers?

Remember, a Tip is NOT automatic: it's an expression of how well or poorly one has performed.

To an extent: I begin at 15% before I sit down. It can go up or down from there. It doesn't take anything above and beyond to bring it to 20% and even 25%
If I receive exceptional care I do 30% - 35%. That is my average, probably half the time I Tip 30% or more.
Once or twice a year I Tip 50% for remarkable performance. A couple times in my life I've tipped 100%

On the other hand there are times I Tip nothing. Or even the infamous penny.
When I do this I always leave a note of explanation.

Many times when service was remarkable and I Tipped 35% or more I will inform the manager of the high quality of their staff.

I have also had to accept that many times what I see in myself as simply demanding, others see as assholish. Sometimes I've recognized in myself, or been told by others that I was wrong, over the line. I've had to accept that, go apologize, thank them for their patience with me, and revise their Tip amount.
Even if it were a day or two later.

Embarrassingly enough I remain a work in progress, and continue to fall

Just saying it goes both ways. Nobody is always perfect
And Tips are not automatic

You be doing too much

Before I got to the end I assumed you were probably an asshole and its funny you've been called out on behaving that way

 

[Anastasia1999]

Small-minded, wilfully ignorant bigots.

Don‘t be a plonker, work hard and treat everyone with kindness.

 

[jolson68]

Lacking a sense of humor
Believing the big LIE (Republicans who don't believe get a pass)
Smoking
Dishonesty
Doesn't like music

 

[PallidaMors9]

You be doing too much

Before I got to the end I assumed you were probably an asshole and its funny you've been called out on behaving that way

I'm working on it

 

[Tallulah82]

Hairy palms.

 

[Trubbycat]

Evil.

 

[Diosax]

Someone who lacks empathy

 

[barefootgirl69]

A smoker. I hate cigarette breath and the stench.

 

[Shenanigans90]

Rude people, won’t tolerate it.

 

[Tallulah82]

Expecting me to wake up at the crack of dawn just because they're a morning person. Hell no.

 

[Diosax]

People who are out of touch with reality

 

[Broken_paladin]

People who hurt dogs..fucking cunts

 

[Diosax]

People who care more about dogs than human rights

 

[Broken_paladin]

People who care more about dogs than human rights

Lol guilty

 

[rycat25]

Stubborn ignorance

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Rudeness, impoliteness, selfishness...

 

[MaryanneB]

A man who refuses to look me straight in the eyes

 

[Gamine67]

A man who’s too short to look me straight in the eyes.

 

[Rob_Royale]

Cheating. Probably not a popular opinion here but that's my only one. I told my wife 31 years ago that this is what she was choosing. Me. That's it. If she ever thought that she might want another cock, she needed to just walk away. I told her that cheating was my one-strike and you're-gone rule, regardless of how long we'd been married. Because cheating isn't a mistake, it's not a moment of weakness, it's not one of those things that just happens. It's a choice.

 

[Bdm20]

A woman who asks if I’d like to see the digital trading cards she purchased yesterday.