Dear Litster, once more

Dear Litsters,

It was brought to my attention of someone putting negative things out there about me to others here. To all who may have heard indifferent things about me and choose to believe those things, that is your choice.

I have not asked for a damn thing from anyone here. I am choosing to keep to myself, posting where I may as I usually do. Those who know me as a friend or who likes platonic friendships, I still offer that fig leaf of friendship. For those who choose to believe all forms of negativity about me, no matter how wrong they may be, that is your choice as well.

I refuse to stoop to the level of that...person...spewing such squalid misinformation about me. Let it be known, I refuse to speak negatively about anyone here privately on these boards (unless if the thread calls for it). I will be woman enough to say my negativity about someone or something here publicly, with my avatar name showing and an open PM box. No, I'm not ashamed nor scared.

TIRED OF THIS SHIT, LITSTER

Got your back Queen


You must be doing something right, your fans are talking, just jealous of your shine
 
Thank you all. I am truly humbled by your responses.

I used to have the signature line "The bitterness you hold inside will eat you up alive until you learn to let it go." Most thought I may have been speaking to those who read it. It was for me. I used to hold HATE in my heart. I stopped growing as a person as a result of me holding in that hatred. I verbalized wishing my father to die, and he died that same day. It wasn't a prayer, but the step before a prayer. I am working on being careful in carrying such a strong feeling/emotion.

This person is nowhere near that level, surpassing extreme dislike. They are not worth any other form of attention. They know how to reach me if they feel the need to keep this form of dissatisfaction up.

I'm not afraid of *SHIT* The best flowers are created from the highest grade of it. The most expensive coffee is made from it. Whoever is slinging shit, is giving it a bad name. They can't take the verbal assassination I'd give them by addressing a friend instead of me directly.

Lol...Talking Shit

We're here for a good time, not a long time so let the good times roll, as they say. Always happy to know quality people like you. :heart:
 
Dear Litsters,

It was brought to my attention of someone putting negative things out there about me to others here. To all who may have heard indifferent things about me and choose to believe those things, that is your choice.

I have not asked for a damn thing from anyone here. I am choosing to keep to myself, posting where I may as I usually do. Those who know me as a friend or who likes platonic friendships, I still offer that fig leaf of friendship. For those who choose to believe all forms of negativity about me, no matter how wrong they may be, that is your choice as well.

I refuse to stoop to the level of that...person...spewing such squalid misinformation about me. Let it be known, I refuse to speak negatively about anyone here privately on these boards (unless if the thread calls for it). I will be woman enough to say my negativity about someone or something here publicly, with my avatar name showing and an open PM box. No, I'm not ashamed nor scared.

TIRED OF THIS SHIT, LITSTER

Dear Tired Litster,

Who's talking smack about you? I'll bite a motherfucker, I ain't scared. Seriously, you are probably one of the sweetest, most compassionate, loving people here. If someone can't see that, then that's THEIR problem, not yours. As they say "Haters gonna hate," but your real friends are just gonna sit with you and laugh at their punk ass.

Beastie Believer Litster
 
Dear Litsters,

It was brought to my attention of someone putting negative things out there about me to others here. To all who may have heard indifferent things about me and choose to believe those things, that is your choice.

I have not asked for a damn thing from anyone here. I am choosing to keep to myself, posting where I may as I usually do. Those who know me as a friend or who likes platonic friendships, I still offer that fig leaf of friendship. For those who choose to believe all forms of negativity about me, no matter how wrong they may be, that is your choice as well.

I refuse to stoop to the level of that...person...spewing such squalid misinformation about me. Let it be known, I refuse to speak negatively about anyone here privately on these boards (unless if the thread calls for it). I will be woman enough to say my negativity about someone or something here publicly, with my avatar name showing and an open PM box. No, I'm not ashamed nor scared.

TIRED OF THIS SHIT, LITSTER

You're a lovely woman and Lit is all the better for your presence. The person targeting you is beneath contempt. Stay strong, BCC! :rose::kiss:
 
Dear Litster who cares; whoever you are,
I'm fine. I just have to do this to protect someone who is more important to me than breath. I hurt them SEVERELY completely unintentionally and it will be a very long time before I forgive myself. I need to do right by them. This is the only thing that they ever asked of me that I refused to give. I believed it was my way of saying: "I love you. I will not give up on you, even when you give up on you." Instead I need to now say: "I respect your decisions to live. Be happy. Please. Dont worry. Be happy. Never ever ever forget that you have been well and truly loved from the depths of someone's soul, enough to do the one thing that she never believed she could. "

So, know that I'm alright. The thing that hurt you is over. forever over. I never ever ever intended hurt. I thought it would give you the weight of worry off your shoulders. Nothing more nothing less. Clearly I miscalculated. It's the only thing I'm good at... getting it wrong. Yes, your name is the only fucking thing written all over my heart, and it will remain so. You go live. Be good. Be happy. BE FUCKING SAFE because you broke a promise to me. Dont do it again. EVER.
You are the most amazing man I've ever known and ever will know. Whoever wins your heart will be the luckiest woman ever. Dont let her forget it.
Remember that thing you had an existential crisis over? I'm haunted because i fell asleep to memories of the day you begged me to sit in the middle of my bed holding sissy and not fucking move. Some part of me knew. Call it the Holy Spirit if you will... but I knew. I didnt listen. I thought it was just me missing you like always. Living in memories is what I do.
So... I'm going to hold onto the knowledge that you did love me, and that I'm doing the one thing you asked of me, the only thing I can do to truly respect you. Go.

God bless and keep you Daddy,
I love you with all of my heart and soul.
Socks

PS. Bex agrees that I have the most horiffic taste in music.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-r3Bs_KkP94

One_Love... I'm sorry I couldnt keep my promise. I suck. I'm sorry. Sometimes stupid cant be cured or helped. Sometimes love just shouldnt be gotten over. Take care of your girl and enjoy that beautiful baby. <3
 
Anyone who has the time and energy to speak negatively of BCC is someone with too much time on their hands, and obviously is wasting that energy.

Whoever you are, just shut up and go away.

Excelsior, BCC!
 
Dear Litsters,

Be careful who you talk to, bare your soul to, or whatever it is that you do around here—because some of the same people that are your Lit *besties* are also the ones talking shit about you behind your back.

If your intuition tells you to stay away, listen.

Signed,
Trust Yourself


This is why it takes me an awfully long time to warm up to anyone here.

Sorry to read about your issue there, BCC. :rose:
 
Dear Litsters,

Be careful who you talk to, bare your soul to, or whatever it is that you do around here—because some of the same people that are your Lit *besties* are also the ones talking shit about you behind your back.

If your intuition tells you to stay away, listen.

Signed,
Trust Yourself
Facts!

This is why I'm known as the antisocial bitch on here, oh well. :)
 
Dear Litsters,

It was brought to my attention of someone putting negative things out there about me to others here. To all who may have heard indifferent things about me and choose to believe those things, that is your choice.

I have not asked for a damn thing from anyone here. I am choosing to keep to myself, posting where I may as I usually do. Those who know me as a friend or who likes platonic friendships, I still offer that fig leaf of friendship. For those who choose to believe all forms of negativity about me, no matter how wrong they may be, that is your choice as well.

I refuse to stoop to the level of that...person...spewing such squalid misinformation about me. Let it be known, I refuse to speak negatively about anyone here privately on these boards (unless if the thread calls for it). I will be woman enough to say my negativity about someone or something here publicly, with my avatar name showing and an open PM box. No, I'm not ashamed nor scared.

TIRED OF THIS SHIT, LITSTER[/QUOTE

Blackcaramelcreme
I can't even wrap my thoughts around this message. Why on Earth would anybody want to spread vicious rumors about you, you are one of the sweetest ladies here. it's a mystery to me. Just ignore them, they are attention Seekers.
 
Dear Litsters,

It was brought to my attention of someone putting negative things out there about me to others here. To all who may have heard indifferent things about me and choose to believe those things, that is your choice.

I have not asked for a damn thing from anyone here. I am choosing to keep to myself, posting where I may as I usually do. Those who know me as a friend or who likes platonic friendships, I still offer that fig leaf of friendship. For those who choose to believe all forms of negativity about me, no matter how wrong they may be, that is your choice as well.

I refuse to stoop to the level of that...person...spewing such squalid misinformation about me. Let it be known, I refuse to speak negatively about anyone here privately on these boards (unless if the thread calls for it). I will be woman enough to say my negativity about someone or something here publicly, with my avatar name showing and an open PM box. No, I'm not ashamed nor scared.

TIRED OF THIS SHIT, LITSTER

What in the world is happening, the galaxies are not aligned... Glad you are taking the high road... sets an example for all to inspire too...
 
Dear Litsters,

Be careful who you talk to, bare your soul to, or whatever it is that you do around here—because some of the same people that are your Lit *besties* are also the ones talking shit about you behind your back.

If your intuition tells you to stay away, listen.

Signed,
Trust Yourself

Umm...actually this is very good life advice in all of your interpersonal actions. It's one of life's realities... people everywhere love to gossip. So contrary to the clique criticisms. Or the ongoing caterwauling don't for one second believe that Lit is any different than other online forums or breakroom commiserations. Be more cautious so you have less grief later and people on lit can't do that " I told you so" thing every time someone gets hurt by thoughtless gossip.:)
 
Dear All,
Set your expectations low and build your walls high. Put a lock on the gate, and voila.....no more issues.
Signed,
Not that hard to do
 
Umm...actually this is very good life advice in all of your interpersonal actions. It's one of life's realities... people everywhere love to gossip. So contrary to the clique criticisms. Or the ongoing caterwauling don't for one second believe that Lit is any different than other online forums or breakroom commiserations. Be more cautious so you have less grief later and people on lit can't do that " I told you so" thing every time someone gets hurt by thoughtless gossip.:)

I agree. I still keep a little fence around myself. I’m hardly ever mentioned in lists, I don’t really talk to anyone regularly anymore. I’m kinda here on my own island it seems. Best of luck to you. ❤️
 
Umm...actually this is very good life advice in all of your interpersonal actions. It's one of life's realities... people everywhere love to gossip. So contrary to the clique criticisms. Or the ongoing caterwauling don't for one second believe that Lit is any different than other online forums or breakroom commiserations. Be more cautious so you have less grief later and people on lit can't do that " I told you so" thing every time someone gets hurt by thoughtless gossip.:)

All you mfers 50 years old and up, don't you think it's time for you to stop making excuses for clique behavior and grow the fuck up.
 
Dear Litsters,

Be careful who you talk to, bare your soul to, or whatever it is that you do around here—because some of the same people that are your Lit *besties* are also the ones talking shit about you behind your back.

If your intuition tells you to stay away, listen.

Signed,
Trust Yourself

This is so very true. :( Big reason I'm so good at pushing people away.
 
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